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I'm a Tea drinker, Dammit!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unlike many other on here, I am yet to open a thread based on some banal question that is mildy amusing but helps pass the time. But I am bored. So here is my attempt...
I am a tea drinker. I feel no shame at all for this! I like Tea very much. But I do regret that I don't like coffee. In fact it is one of my biggest regrets! It smells so good and looks beautiful, but I really can't stand the bitter taste. I would like to be that smartly dressed chap sipping his espresso but alas, it will never be.
Now... this causes me some issue simply because I refuse to ever meet someone for Tea, I find it a little "Downton Abbey" to invite someone out for "Tea" so I always invite people for coffee, but never order it! Yet I feel obligated after inviting said person for coffee, that I actually only drink tea, in fear of being seen a fraud!
Does anybody else share this terrible burden??!
I would like to add, I do enjoy chocolate covered coffee beans. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the smell of coffee, like you, loathe the bitter taste. Not particularly fond of tea, nor hot drinks really. Not good for me, when coffee invites are thrown in either |
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I too always wish i liked coffee. It just seems more socially acceptable and also in business...meeting room = always coffee and feel a pain asking for tea.
Plus... All those coffee making gadgets I'm missing out on!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about requesting to meet up for a drink, without specifying what the drink may be?
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The problem comes when someone invites you for coffee, then you have the 'I don't drink coffee' dilemma. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I were to have tea, then it has to be Assam, very strong and very milky (full fat or even gold top milk).
Nowadays, I have a very strong, sweet and creamy coffee in the morning, then it is likely to be Ribena for the rest of the day, as I am not keen on PG Tips and semi-skimmed milk that my work place provides.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I go for a Mocha on a coffee meet...I can never drink 'proper' coffee it's way too strong. I'd be awake for a week! Tea is my preference too though, but none of this breakfast tea malarkey...need a good builders brew! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about requesting to meet up for a drink, without specifying what the drink may be?
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Don't be so utterly ridiculous.
Please don't post here again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about requesting to meet up for a drink, without specifying what the drink may be?
The problem comes when someone invites you for coffee, then you have the 'I don't drink coffee' dilemma."
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Just be truthful and reply, I don't drink coffee, however, I am sure I shall be able to find something else that I like.
Not hard! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about requesting to meet up for a drink, without specifying what the drink may be?
Don't be so utterly ridiculous.
Please don't post here again!"
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Que?
Try stopping me from posting in this and other threads! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I were to have tea, then it has to be Assam, very strong and very milky (full fat or even gold top milk).
Nowadays, I have a very strong, sweet and creamy coffee in the morning, then it is likely to be Ribena for the rest of the day, as I am not keen on PG Tips and semi-skimmed milk that my work place provides.
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Well this is the point I go from pretending to be pretentious... to being pretentious lol
I like Assam, Green tea, Jasmine tea and if it's PG Tips, then strong and milky! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about requesting to meet up for a drink, without specifying what the drink may be?
Don't be so utterly ridiculous.
Please don't post here again!
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Que?
Try stopping me from posting in this and other threads! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about requesting to meet up for a drink, without specifying what the drink may be?
The problem comes when someone invites you for coffee, then you have the 'I don't drink coffee' dilemma.
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Just be truthful and reply, I don't drink coffee, however, I am sure I shall be able to find something else that I like.
Not hard! "
Never suggested it was 'hard', just joining in the light hearted nature of the opening thread, appreciating the dilemma that the OP expressed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't keep milk at home anymore, just double cream for my morning coffees.
If I want to have a cup of tea, I have a selection of Chinese/Japanese teas that I can choose from.
Oolong, Po Lei and Japanese green tea with toasted rice are some of the ones I like and keep at home.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about requesting to meet up for a drink, without specifying what the drink may be?
The problem comes when someone invites you for coffee, then you have the 'I don't drink coffee' dilemma.
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Just be truthful and reply, I don't drink coffee, however, I am sure I shall be able to find something else that I like.
Not hard!
Never suggested it was 'hard', just joining in the light hearted nature of the opening thread, appreciating the dilemma that the OP expressed."
haha Yes, it's funny how a few have taken this a little seriously, or maybe fab just needs a sarcastic font! lol
None the less, I think the elephant in the room is finally being discussed and we are making real progess here! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't keep milk at home anymore, just double cream for my morning coffees.
If I want to have a cup of tea, I have a selection of Chinese/Japanese teas that I can choose from.
Oolong, Po Lei and Japanese green tea with toasted rice are some of the ones I like and keep at home.
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How terribly bourgeois! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unlike many other on here, I am yet to open a thread based on some banal question that is mildy amusing but helps pass the time. But I am bored. So here is my attempt...
I am a tea drinker. I feel no shame at all for this! I like Tea very much. But I do regret that I don't like coffee. In fact it is one of my biggest regrets! It smells so good and looks beautiful, but I really can't stand the bitter taste. I would like to be that smartly dressed chap sipping his espresso but alas, it will never be.
Now... this causes me some issue simply because I refuse to ever meet someone for Tea, I find it a little "Downton Abbey" to invite someone out for "Tea" so I always invite people for coffee, but never order it! Yet I feel obligated after inviting said person for coffee, that I actually only drink tea, in fear of being seen a fraud!
Does anybody else share this terrible burden??!
I would like to add, I do enjoy chocolate covered coffee beans."
I love tea but also drink coffee or cappuccino. Have you tried the Costa Xmas ones? Black forest hot chocolate was lovely, squirty cream
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I myself love coffee and hate tea...the mrs is the other way round.
I have however just brought some Dowe Egberts chocolate coffee which she says she may try one day...and this is a woman who can't stand the taste or even smell if normal coffee.
This chocolate coffee is only a small jar and at £2 is not exactly cheap but it is bloody lovely |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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Oolong, Po Lei and Japanese green tea with toasted rice are some of the ones I like and keep at home.
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Now that all sounds like gnats piss Pearl
Signed Intravenous Coffee Consumer x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, do you have biscuits with your tea? Do you match the biscuit to the type of tea you are drinking? Have you read A Nice Cup of Tea and a Biscuit?
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No to all of them! I do have a friend who likes to dip a mars bar in tea, which I find very disturbing lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I myself love coffee and hate tea...the mrs is the other way round.
I have however just brought some Dowe Egberts chocolate coffee which she says she may try one day...and this is a woman who can't stand the taste or even smell if normal coffee.
This chocolate coffee is only a small jar and at £2 is not exactly cheap but it is bloody lovely "
If it's coffee I can gaurantee I won't like it! That said, I do like Chai, proper Chai, which you can't get in this country! I stayed in India and for a while I rented a bed from this family who leaved in a poor village near the Dalai Lama. The father was a "chai wallah" and he'd be up at 4 to set up his stire at the top of the hill. Every day I stayed there he'd make me a fresh chai, doing his own mix of spices and teas boiled in milk in a pan. He didn't speak a word of English and I not a word of Hindi. But each morning we sat together and drank wonderful chai as the sun came up and the streets came to life. Twas rather a good memory
Anyway. Enough of that sentimental sh*t! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, do you have biscuits with your tea? Do you match the biscuit to the type of tea you are drinking? Have you read A Nice Cup of Tea and a Biscuit?
No to all of them! I do have a friend who likes to dip a mars bar in tea, which I find very disturbing lol"
I agree, highly disturbing behaviour.
Now, possibly my final tea related question - do you make the Aahhhh! noise after your first sip?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP try vanilla latte. It takes the bitterness away.
Signed non vanilla"
Hmmm, I can imagine that could work.
My ex had a french relation over recently and we bought so vanilla for her coffee. Which she point blank refused! lol But I may try it..
Oh, and I see what you were doing there! very clever! :P |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, do you have biscuits with your tea? Do you match the biscuit to the type of tea you are drinking? Have you read A Nice Cup of Tea and a Biscuit?
No to all of them! I do have a friend who likes to dip a mars bar in tea, which I find very disturbing lol
I agree, highly disturbing behaviour.
Now, possibly my final tea related question - do you make the Aahhhh! noise after your first sip?
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I think that I may just do lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oolong, Po Lei and Japanese green tea with toasted rice are some of the ones I like and keep at home.
Now that all sounds like gnats piss Pearl
Signed Intravenous Coffee Consumer x"
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There is a time and place for everything, including tea and coffee! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If invited out for a coffee with an interesting fem from a sex site the last thing I will be worrying about is does she commit the faux pas of having tea in starbucks!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If invited out for a coffee with an interesting fem from a sex site the last thing I will be worrying about is does she commit the faux pas of having tea in starbucks!!"
Then you, Sir, are a buffoon. |
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"OP try vanilla latte. It takes the bitterness away.
Signed non vanilla"
Or the caramel latte. I was too a devout tea drinker till very recently I was faced with the horrible dilemma of someone giving me coffee instead of tea and I was too polite to complain!! I actually enjoyed it and have gone on to be more adventurous after years of adamance that I didn't like coffee |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"aarrrgghh.....I've just made myself a cup of tea and I've only got enough for 1 cup tomorrow morning ~ feeling ever so slightly at the thought!!"
Give it a really massive squeeze and get two brews from it. You may have to get the little bone china cups out though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"aarrrgghh.....I've just made myself a cup of tea and I've only got enough for 1 cup tomorrow morning ~ feeling ever so slightly at the thought!!
Give it a really massive squeeze and get two brews from it. You may have to get the little bone china cups out though. "
Okay posh cups at the ready! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"aarrrgghh.....I've just made myself a cup of tea and I've only got enough for 1 cup tomorrow morning ~ feeling ever so slightly at the thought!!
Give it a really massive squeeze and get two brews from it. You may have to get the little bone china cups out though. "
There is also the radical solution of having the morning cup and then going to the shops.
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"aarrrgghh.....I've just made myself a cup of tea and I've only got enough for 1 cup tomorrow morning ~ feeling ever so slightly at the thought!!
Give it a really massive squeeze and get two brews from it. You may have to get the little bone china cups out though.
There is also the radical solution of having the morning cup and then going to the shops.
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You can't go to the shops with only one cups worth inside you. That's nearly as bad, as going out without a Ready Brek glow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am oriental, and grew up surrounded by peeps drinking tea all day long!
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I'm English and am still surrounded by people drinking tea all day long.
I especially like a chai tea latte even though the name makes no sense at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"aarrrgghh.....I've just made myself a cup of tea and I've only got enough for 1 cup tomorrow morning ~ feeling ever so slightly at the thought!!
Give it a really massive squeeze and get two brews from it. You may have to get the little bone china cups out though.
There is also the radical solution of having the morning cup and then going to the shops.
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Ryan ~ why didn't you think of this idea...?!?! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I am oriental, and grew up surrounded by peeps drinking tea all day long!
I'm English and am still surrounded by people drinking tea all day long.
I especially like a chai tea latte even though the name makes no sense at all."
I thought chai was made with milk and that chai means tea, made with milk? Why can't it just be called chai?
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"aarrrgghh.....I've just made myself a cup of tea and I've only got enough for 1 cup tomorrow morning ~ feeling ever so slightly at the thought!!
Give it a really massive squeeze and get two brews from it. You may have to get the little bone china cups out though.
There is also the radical solution of having the morning cup and then going to the shops.
Ryan ~ why didn't you think of this idea...?!?!"
See above. He thinks one cup is not enough. I don't know these things. I leave the house with only one glass of water in me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am oriental, and grew up surrounded by peeps drinking tea all day long!
I'm English and am still surrounded by people drinking tea all day long.
I especially like a chai tea latte even though the name makes no sense at all."
They are casting a little bit of the coffee glamour onto us sad little tea drinkers! |
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I favour a nice pot of earl grey, strong but not stewed, with a drop of milk. Milk to ho in the cup first of course. Tastes best out of bone china but I'm really not that fussy.
I never used to like coffee and struggle even now with instant but having had experiences abroad where it was impossible to get a decent cup of tea I acquired a taste for café latté and cappuccino.
For non coffee drinkers might I suggests a latté macchiato, no bitterness there, or even a hot chocolate?
My biscuit of choice would either be a ginger nut or a chocolate chip cookie though in moments of weakness I have been known to bite either end off a twix and use it as a straw, sucking hot tea up until on the verge of total disintegration slurping the whole lot in at once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm amazed at all you tea drinkers that will drink tea out! I trust very few people to make me cups of tea, so its mostly something I drink at home. So if I am out or at other peoples homes, I will drink coffee instead but I do see where you're coming from OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Frothy Coffee of any kind is wrong and Banned,As for Tea the correct Etiquette is to Drink it from a Chipped Mug which has the name of a Tool Hire Company printed on it and if you can remove the spoon without a shlurping sound like dragging a wellington from mud then shout out OI PAL how about giving this another Tease with the Tea Leave
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding a decent cuppa while out and about is getting harder and harder though. "
Theres a Couple of Decent Caffs near you and that Truck stop, Widely travelled me lol
Gary |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One thing I did used to love when i was a kid, was going to the scrapyard with my dad on a Sunday morning and then stopping off to get a brew and a bacon barm.
A Tea was great after a good rummage through scrap cars on a cold morning. |
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"Finding a decent cuppa while out and about is getting harder and harder though.
Theres a Couple of Decent Caffs near you and that Truck stop, Widely travelled me lol
Gary"
Yeah but when I'm that close I can just go home
The worst places are those that just chuck (semi-skimmed) milk and a teabag into a cup with warm water and leave you to fish the teabag out. |
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I tend to drink tea at home and my mums and coffee elsewhere, usually a caramel latte or a cappuccino, places don't make tea how I like it.
OP I wouldn't mind you having a tea while out, I'd do the same if I could get a decent cuppa x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a nice cup of tea with my dinner.
I like a nice cup of tea with my tea.
And when it's time for bed, there's a lot to be said.
For a nice .........
(You know the rest ) |
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Both Rhett and I drink our tea from a pint mug at home and only Yorkshire tea in our house. It does make it difficult when we go anywhere that one normal size mug is simply not enough. I do get giddy if someone actually makes a pot of tea.
Don't mind the odd cup of coffee but it works like a laxitive on me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like very very weak tea so would never ask for it if I'm out as it's always too strong. I'm also giving up coffee in the new year so then I'll have a problem on my social meets too. Shall we meet for a hot chocolate or a diet doesn't have the same ring to it |
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Have to say I'd be delighted to be invited out for afternoon tea! All those little sandwiches followed by bites of rich creamy cakes.
But as far as the tea goes it would have to be green or white or a fruit or herbal tisane for me.
I'm not a huge fan of coffee either, though I can drink it at a push. But after spending a lot of time in Italy I can't help comparing and the coffee we get here is nothing like good Italian coffee.
Give me a pint pot of squash and I'm happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both Rhett and I drink our tea from a pint mug at home and only Yorkshire tea in our house. It does make it difficult when we go anywhere that one normal size mug is simply not enough. I do get giddy if someone actually makes a pot of tea.
Don't mind the odd cup of coffee but it works like a laxitive on me.
Scarlett "
Oh yes! Normal size cups just aren't big enough. Give me a pint mug and I'm happy. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Have to say I'd be delighted to be invited out for afternoon tea! All those little sandwiches followed by bites of rich creamy cakes.
But as far as the tea goes it would have to be green or white or a fruit or herbal tisane for me.
I'm not a huge fan of coffee either, though I can drink it at a push. But after spending a lot of time in Italy I can't help comparing and the coffee we get here is nothing like good Italian coffee.
Give me a pint pot of squash and I'm happy. "
I have caused consternation in one establishment by telling them I didn't want tea with my expensive afternoon tea. I HAD to have it and give it to my guest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i like tea and coffee,thats tea without sugar,coffee with demereara sugar,two spoonfuls to lose that bitter taste.brown sugar too..nette"
i thought demerara was brown sugar,have i been misled? |
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