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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I have no family left.. Except for my gorgeous children.. I do however have 2 stepsisters and a step brother... We parted ways... When I was a teen. No ones fault. Bar my mothers..I Think about them often. Do I try and make contact?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing to lose, why not, as long as you don't expect too much.

They may be thinking on the same lines. If not, you'll soon know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have no family .... I have my daughter and thats it

However in America I have my half brothers and sisters. After my dad passed away last year we made contact a bit

I think you should - life is too short to let the past get in the way of what could be

Make sense ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes. Best case you get on great. Worst case you don't get on, but you won't lose anything as you don't know them now.

Good luck. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What have you got to lose? Just dont build your hopes up too high. Good luck whatever you decide x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Nothing to lose, why not, as long as you don't expect too much.

They may be thinking on the same lines. If not, you'll soon know. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes why not, they are proberly thinking the same, but proberly afraid of rejection.

Don't expect too much, but something good may come from it.

Nette

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Go for it. Treat it the same, to some extent, as a message on here: no response means they don't want to make contact.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why not, the worst than can happen is it gets thrown in your face, the best, you end up with more family around you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I went to see my nanna today, her last living brother recently died..she barely knew hime was basically what she said.She went to the funeral and nobody knew her or those that did didnt talk to her... sad days...but it is part of big families and modern life, but it is a shame.

I have a sister I rarely see much(my fault and hers)and halfbrothers and a halfsister, we dont have much contact other than facebook.. I just find the time too short to meet up, but equally understand life is too short to not be in 'proper' contact with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I have no family .... I have my daughter and thats it

However in America I have my half brothers and sisters. After my dad passed away last year we made contact a bit

I think you should - life is too short to let the past get in the way of what could be

Make sense ?? "

It does thanks lovey x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yes. Best case you get on great. Worst case you don't get on, but you won't lose anything as you don't know them now.

Good luck. x"

We got on great as kids but time changes lots thanks steel x

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire

go for it or you will never know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hmmmm, more Fockers for the site.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have no family .... I have my daughter and thats it

However in America I have my half brothers and sisters. After my dad passed away last year we made contact a bit

I think you should - life is too short to let the past get in the way of what could be

Make sense ??

It does thanks lovey x"

Pleasure my lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I went to see my nanna today, her last living brother recently died..she barely knew hime was basically what she said.She went to the funeral and nobody knew her or those that did didnt talk to her... sad days...but it is part of big families and modern life, but it is a shame.

I have a sister I rarely see much(my fault and hers)and halfbrothers and a halfsister, we dont have much contact other than facebook.. I just find the time too short to meet up, but equally understand life is too short to not be in 'proper' contact with them.

"

Life's short pads! Remember that x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have no siblings but have kids and a loving mother. I have biological parents who I've never met nor will I through choice. Extended family with my best friend who is like my sister. Anyway life is too short, so do it and good luck

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By *reelove1969Couple  over a year ago

bristol

havent spoke to my brothers since 1999 ..dont think we ever will again ..but wish you luck with your reconcilliation ..hope it is everything you hope it will be

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By *ookn4thirdCouple  over a year ago

Ashland

Went 20 yrs without contact from my family. Finally took the step and contacted them. Went great for about a yr, moved closer to them. Now they want nothing to do with me or my family. Only problem they have is they are judgmental, ( I don't go to church 3 times a week etc,,,,,,,) wish I would've just stayed away. But only u can know, and no way of knowing if u don't try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thankyou, ill try and make contact! I did find my real dad well, his family he'd sadly passed away... But yeah nothing to loose lots to gain I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Went 20 yrs without contact from my family. Finally took the step and contacted them. Went great for about a yr, moved closer to them. Now they want nothing to do with me or my family. Only problem they have is they are judgmental, ( I don't go to church 3 times a week etc,,,,,,,) wish I would've just stayed away. But only u can know, and no way of knowing if u don't try."

I do have a real brother I don't see him and would never choose to hes an ass saw him last at my mothers funeral... But my step lot... Where a nice bunch from what I remember ... Lost my step father to leukaemia ... And then lost touch

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By *ookn4thirdCouple  over a year ago

Ashland


"Went 20 yrs without contact from my family. Finally took the step and contacted them. Went great for about a yr, moved closer to them. Now they want nothing to do with me or my family. Only problem they have is they are judgmental, ( I don't go to church 3 times a week etc,,,,,,,) wish I would've just stayed away. But only u can know, and no way of knowing if u don't try.

I do have a real brother I don't see him and would never choose to hes an ass saw him last at my mothers funeral... But my step lot... Where a nice bunch from what I remember ... Lost my step father to leukaemia ... And then lost touch "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think you should get in touch,it's family,even if there's bad feelings about,and if you never do,and anything was to happen,you will regret not doing so,

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well found one likely suspect on FK nope not him... Hmmm onwards n upwards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well found one likely suspect on FK nope not him... Hmmm onwards n upwards "

hee hee hee, we could be related

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In my experience, friends are better than family... at least you get to choose them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"In my experience, friends are better than family... at least you get to choose them!"

Ben you are so right you know but I can't help but be curious? Perhaps it will be something I regret who knows? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well found one likely suspect on FK nope not him... Hmmm onwards n upwards

hee hee hee, we could be related "

Is that you uncks ..I always thought you where a little erm dodgy, odd hmmm shall I go on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well found one likely suspect on FK nope not him... Hmmm onwards n upwards

hee hee hee, we could be related

Is that you uncks ..I always thought you where a little erm dodgy, odd hmmm shall I go on "

Please do, er, Bertha.

Or do what i do, find them online, think twice, think thrice and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes only one way to see what happens nothing ventured x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You've nothing to lose, Ide get in touch for sure, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i'm the same, got two boys who i havnt seen for years buy cant track them down

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