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By *zMale OP Man
over a year ago
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Do cpl's/ladies think guys become incaple of having FUN when they reach 51???
It is amazing how many cpl's/ladies even in there 40's themselves put a max age of 50. Or is it because it is a nice round figure ???
Wonders if thats a reason why there are sooooooooo many 49 yr old guys here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bloody hope they dont as Mr Mids is 51 and full of fun as far as I am concerned lol
But we do find there is an age bar at 50 so we dont message people with that on even though I am younger.  |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Do cpl's/ladies think guys become incaple of having FUN when they reach 51???
It is amazing how many cpl's/ladies even in there 40's themselves put a max age of 50. Or is it because it is a nice round figure ???
Wonders if thats a reason why there are sooooooooo many 49 yr old guys here
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It's everyone's own choice what age limits they have, upper or lower. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I hope not too as I prefer older men and I know several men on this and other sites who've knocked 10 years of their ages. Sad really as if they meet it'll be obvious they've been telling porkies!
Although I prefer older men every now and then a younger man gets my attention. It has to be said, even though my older playmates are fit, let's be honest, young, firm, taut, hard, energetic flesh is a welcome change ! |
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These 'rejection' threads puzzle me somewhat, it's all part and parcel of swinging...
Some people will want to meet older swingers...some will want to meet younger.
It's not rocket science....it's personal preferences, we all have them.
I have met people for an intial drink and chat that I have decided not to take further, likewise others have decided I am not for them....preference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never encountered any problems being over 50 myself but I am guilty of still having my age limits set as 35-50 on my profile. Personally this is not set in stone and has been blurred at the edges once I meet people and get to know them better.
I think it's as you say, rounding of numbers as a bench mark nothing more. |
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 Must be why we aren’t getting any meets has i (Mr. Tuxi) hit 50 last weekend have to let mrs tuxi no reason is my age and let her change itso i can be 49 y/o again thats not fair i would have liked to be 50 a bit longer
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are regular moans here about guys in particular lying on their profiles, and age is the usual culprit.
However, much of the reason for this is the stupid attitude taken by many that folk are 'over the hill' at 51.
Of course, as with everything else it's up to individuals to set their own limits and boundaries but it is a bit peculiar/coincidental that so many have their upper age limit at 50.
Incredible how people deteriorate over those 2 magical years between 49 and 51!! |
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By *zMale OP Man
over a year ago
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"These 'rejection' threads puzzle me somewhat, it's all part and parcel of swinging...
Some people will want to meet older swingers...some will want to meet younger.
It's not rocket science....it's personal preferences, we all have them.
I have met people for an intial drink and chat that I have decided not to take further, likewise others have decided I am not for them....preference.
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Jane it ain't a rejection thread at all cos no ones rejected me cos I don't mail anyone that has an upper age limit of 50........Simples then.
I appreciate it's a preference thing. It was just an observation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number ,
Its attitude what counts.
If you think your an old fart then most people will probably agree.
Think young and project that in how you are then it shouldnt be a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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went to a swingers club and was made to feel very welcome. said hello in the chat room and also people welcomed me.
seemed to be people of all ages, which was nice to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well they do say 50 is the new 40
That's only people who have went over a certain 'milestone age' that say it
So when I turn 40 later this year I will only be 30 pmsl "
hope so i will be 41 this year then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well they do say 50 is the new 40
That's only people who have went over a certain 'milestone age' that say it
So when I turn 40 later this year I will only be 30 pmsl hope so i will be 41 this year then "
By that reckoning I have just turned 42 bring on the fun guys! |
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By *zMale OP Man
over a year ago
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"If he gorgeous and has great thighs, nice teeth and all his bits work just fine...
And a certain twinkle in his eye......
sod the age thingy "
OOOOHHHHHH and you were doing so well with gorgeous and smokes .........now you gone and spoilt it |
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Well most regulars on here no my partner is a lot older than me (67) and i wouldnt swap him for the world. My playmates usually end up being younger than me, its not planned that way. I had a lower age limit of 35 but last year i played with a guy of 28 so youngest was 28 eldest was 67 noone can accuse me of being ageist lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit didn't I tell you I'm blind and have only got 1 tooth.......which I call juanita "
aha......... a pickled onion stabber...like me grandad had. lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"being shallow as i am ill only meet
a 55 year young man if he's fit xx
Well everythings still works and had a recent MOT taxed and tested recently "
oh on my way lol xx |
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By *zMale OP Man
over a year ago
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"being shallow as i am ill only meet
a 55 year young man if he's fit xx
Well everythings still works and had a recent MOT taxed and tested recently
oh on my way lol xx "
The doors open hun, kettles on and clean shhets on the bed. I got rid of the seagull pooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have only been playing 23 months, and I was 50 when we started. I will be 53 next month and wouldn't dream of lying on our profile about my age.
I work out regularly, and am comfortable with the way I look and feel.
I'm not bothered about the people who don't want to play with us, but care very much about the people who do
There's plenty of life left in this old dog, so cum on, bring it on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have only been playing 23 months, and I was 50 when we started. I will be 53 next month and wouldn't dream of lying on our profile about my age.
I work out regularly, and am comfortable with the way I look and feel.
I'm not bothered about the people who don't want to play with us, but care very much about the people who do
There's plenty of life left in this old dog, so cum on, bring it on "
Absolutely... we would have to stop swinging soon if the upper age were 50....and we have no intentions of doing so.
Now it is a matter of the mind AND the body, I would argue... There are some very "unfit" people( By that I don't mean physical alone, I mean emotional lack of fitness and suitability for the lifestyle, I mean possessiveness, jealousy, lots of personal drama as an earlier posts mentioned and other issues..) and those people could be of any age...
Then there are some very stable, open , genuine and fun-loving hedonists who could be 70 .. While we have lower age limit of around 30 we dont really have an upper age limit... it is about the person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have found alot of people have no one under 35 which leaves me another 2 years...Unless i change to 35 overnight "
Touche Olarse, Cos I note you don't touch anything over 50.
What bad luck ...................... for you :P x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"being shallow as i am ill only meet
a 55 year young man if he's fit xx
Well everythings still works and had a recent MOT taxed and tested recently
oh on my way lol xx
The doors open hun, kettles on and clean shhets on the bed. I got rid of the seagull pooo "
pmsl@seagulls poo xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a man approaching his 54th year, I can only say that I still feel like a 30yr old (if she'll let me )"
"she" being the partner or the potential swing mate? |
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