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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have had a 3 dates with woman over the last couple of months, but i'm not sure where things stand right now. I don't always read women right anyway which doesn't help but i seem to be doing all the contacting. Hardly ever get a text and no phone calls from her unless i text first and then she will only reply once never keeps things going even if i ask a second question i don't get another reply. She doesn't always answer the phone either but when i ask her if she would like to meet up again she say's she would love too but in between dates i hear nothing from her unless i get in contact myself. I am trying to figure her out or is this normal female behavour? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Are these dates in the traditional sense or meets from here or another site like this?
I don't like too many chatty texts with people I just meet for sex so I don't respond to them all. If they have become friends then that is another matter.
If it's a traditional date then I suspect she's just not that into you or doing the treat 'em mean thing (which I don't understand).
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"i meet her on a normal 'relationship' site. I know she is single as i'v stayed over at her twice. She is a bit of a workaholic though."
Then you need to ask her outright and find out what she would like and whether that matches with what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think you ladies are probably right. if i can get her to answer the phone (she is not local) i should ask if not then i guess she's not bothered. Women are a complicated species lol Thank you for your help fabbers |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Think you ladies are probably right. if i can get her to answer the phone (she is not local) i should ask if not then i guess she's not bothered. Women are a complicated species lol Thank you for your help fabbers"
I'd wait until the Christmas family stuff is out of the way. I ignore messages when I am busy with family and friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not 'normal' female / male behaviour more likely it's the behaviour of someone who is just not that into you but quite likes the idea of occasional nsa fun.....x |
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How often are you contacting her? Daily? Multiple times daily?
May be she's interested but doesn't want to show it.
Leave it for a week before you contact her again and see what her response is then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How often are you contacting her? Daily? Multiple times daily?
May be she's interested but doesn't want to show it.
Leave it for a week before you contact her again and see what her response is then."
I am only contacting her once or twice a week now don't want to come across as needy or desperate, think once or twice is enough right now. |
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