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Tell me the secret to the opening message
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is the best thing to write in the opening message.
Do I start with me or her profile
Do I mention anything about my kinks
What do you lady's like in the opening message |
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Tell them exactly what they want to hear... Simple as that...
However everyone will want something slightly different.
Just be yourself, then whatever results you get will match your personality. 
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D&K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a crystal ball and get inside their mind lol
There is no one method or set message, it alll depends on what the person wants to hear and that can be anything at all |
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The best advice is to be honest in you mail. Tell them what has attracted you to them and what you would be the perfect outcome for you...
Most of the time if you get a reply it will be a "thanks but no thanks" reply, however when you get a positive reply you will more than lightly find it leads to a mind-blowing meeting and equally good follow up meetings! (My experience at least) |
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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago
South Coast |
Call me old fashioned, but I like it when the message makes it clear that the sender has taken the time to read my profile. When I have initiated contact with someone on here, I've always thought carefully about our compatability first, then constructed a message to show I'm interested in finding out more about them, using their profile as a foundation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who knows the secret of the black magic box?
All because the lady loves......
Roses grow on you
Wash behind your ears and stop standing in manure.
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Everyone's a fruit n nutcase . |
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Definitely none of the fancy a fuck or what you upto messages work.
Try a bit of comedy , like previous pop some thing in to show you have read their profile and don't sound desperate as that is a real put off lol
Offer up a photo of your self and see how it go's good luck |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
see... the problem with the title is that rather than finding out for yourself.. you want people to do that job for you....
minimum effort... maximum reward.....
the only way to work out what works for you is for you to do it... nobody figured it out straight away!.... read, learn, watch, and repeat...... |
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Crystal ball previously mentioned is the best answer. I have sent well thought out personally tailored messages to people who say they are looking for exactly the sort of things I have to offer and I've been blocked straight out. I've made some great friends following a one liner that just hit the spot. There are no rules and there's no point in trying to work any out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no magic formula as everyone is different!
I don't respond to ' fancy a fuck' type messages or anyone that clearly hasn't read my profile.
I prefer a funny / witty type message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish i knew. Can never know what to write on an initial message. I usually like to respond to messages though, so i know how to reply back.
...but, that's me in a nutshell i suppose. I like to bounce off people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"see... the problem with the title is that rather than finding out for yourself.. you want people to do that job for you....
minimum effort... maximum reward.....
the only way to work out what works for you is for you to do it... nobody figured it out straight away!.... read, learn, watch, and repeat......"
The most efficient and effective way. "Minimum effort in for maximum reward. |
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