My ex has just been round, not seen him in a year and he's said that when he comes back off tour he'd like to see me on a more fwb/gf basis.
I like the idea, currently advertising the fact, but wouldn't I be better moving on?
Thoughts please, I know you'll have lots of them ... (puts on tin hat) |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"My ex has just been round, not seen him in a year and he's said that when he comes back off tour he'd like to see me on a more fwb/gf basis.
I like the idea, currently advertising the fact, but wouldn't I be better moving on?
Thoughts please, I know you'll have lots of them ... (puts on tin hat)"
Never go backwards hun |
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Depends on why he's an ex. For example... If he moved away with no hard feelings, go for it and have fun. If he went off with someone else then I'd say steer clear.
Good luck.  x |
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if it was a mutually ended thing, especially to do with his job, then i can see no problem ith it.
if one or other of you decided the grass was greener then it would probably be best to leave it where it was. |
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Left on good terms, but at the time I don't think he wanted even fwb, I was good to fuck but nothing else. I'm not sure if him being in the TA and currently on tour has permanently or temporarily changed his mind. |
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"My ex has just been round, not seen him in a year and he's said that when he comes back off tour he'd like to see me on a more fwb/gf basis.
I like the idea, currently advertising the fact, but wouldn't I be better moving on?
Thoughts please, I know you'll have lots of them ... (puts on tin hat)"
Follow yr intincts lovely x |
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"My ex has just been round, not seen him in a year and he's said that when he comes back off tour he'd like to see me on a more fwb/gf basis.
I like the idea, currently advertising the fact, but wouldn't I be better moving on?
Thoughts please, I know you'll have lots of them ... (puts on tin hat)
Follow yr intincts lovely x"
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It's your life, live it your way.
Sometimes it's good to get reassusurance from others, but at the end of the day it's your call.
Don't deny yourself even a single day of happiness on a strangers say so
If you're up for, then go for it girl and we'll all wish you all the happiness in the world xxxx   |
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I went back on a couple of occasions because i thought it was the right thing to do, but in hindsight i should never have, nor will i ever in the future i would take a big deep breath and move on. Ruby |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Left on good terms, but at the time I don't think he wanted even fwb, I was good to fuck but nothing else. I'm not sure if him being in the TA and currently on tour has permanently or temporarily changed his mind."
OP based on what you just said I wouldn't risk your happiness for him not wanting more again. |
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"My ex has just been round, not seen him in a year and he's said that when he comes back off tour he'd like to see me on a more fwb/gf basis.
I like the idea, currently advertising the fact, but wouldn't I be better moving on?
Thoughts please, I know you'll have lots of them ... (puts on tin hat)"
Only you can decided and it all depends on how it ended and how you feel now. Whatever you decide I hope you'll be happy. Good luck  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"My ex has just been round, not seen him in a year and he's said that when he comes back off tour he'd like to see me on a more fwb/gf basis.
I like the idea, currently advertising the fact, but wouldn't I be better moving on?
Thoughts please, I know you'll have lots of them ... (puts on tin hat)"
Been there, done that. Bad idea imo. |
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"Depends on why he's an ex. For example... If he moved away with no hard feelings, go for it and have fun. If he went off with someone else then I'd say steer clear.
Good luck. x"
Pretty much my thoughts...if it was an amicable break up and there are still feelings there from you both then why not, just maybe take it slowly. However if one was left broken hearted then step away as chances are the same will happen again x |
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all depends on why you 2 are not together just now.
At the end of the day, do you want to try again with them? do you trust them? and do you see it lasting any decent length of time? If not, or if it ended for any bad reason.... the answer has to be no. |
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For some an ex is "safe" better the devil you know. There's a reason they're an ex, you've been unhappy. If you don't think you deserve better and something is better than nothing...knock yourself out! |
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