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"I prefer the terms 'plump' or 'portly' or 'rotund'. " Rubenesque?  | |||
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"I prefer the terms 'plump' or 'portly' or 'rotund'. " I prefer,way beyond average | |||
"If I see 'ample' on a profile I assume they're overweight." Except when a lady says 'Steve, ya sexy bastard, I wanna rub my AMPLE breasts in ya face'.  | |||
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"I prefer the terms 'plump' or 'portly' or 'rotund'. Rubenesque? "I prefer a Rubens to a Goya. | |||
"If I see 'ample' on a profile I assume they're overweight."  | |||
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"It's a shame we have to label ourselves in such a way. I'm of the larger variety and prefer the curvy woman ! "yeah but curvy is not fat. | |||
"It's a shame we have to label ourselves in such a way. I'm of the larger variety and prefer the curvy woman !
yeah but curvy is not fat."It's all in the eye of the beholder ? Some may say curvy is fat, I say curvy is good. | |||
"If I see 'ample' on a profile I assume they're overweight." no point in assumptions. if you put ample, it is that you are positively plump lol | |||
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"Also - can guys be curvy? Really?" To the left, to the right. And up or down of course. | |||
"bog standard fat" There's nothing bog standard about me and I've got ample as no option for fat or bbw. | |||
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"My name is bbw12 what more do you want me to describe myself as "There will be someone along soon enough to tell you that you can't call yourself bbw, don't you worry. I have no idea why people get so upset over a check box in a profile. If you want to know what someone truly looks like get on cam with them. | |||
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"I've got myself as curvy (size 18), but so do other women who are a lot smaller than me, so perhaps there should be a fat option to tick. And maybe separate options for the men to choose "No, there shouldn't. You pick what you want to pick and if people want clarification they can ask for a pic or go on cam. | |||
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"It's a shame we have to label ourselves in such a way. I'm of the larger variety and prefer the curvy woman !
yeah but curvy is not fat."Totally agree. Ample means fat to me and curvy means you have curves like hips and ass. | |||
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"Also - can guys be curvy? Really?" On Friday/Saturday nights it has been known.
These size things are just a guide. I think we've all seen peeps who have put themselves in one pigeon hole and we've thought, No, you are so not that! I go on the person's pics, but frankly I'd rather have an imperfectly built partner with bags of personality than a perfectly built partner with less of a personality | |||
"Fat is what overweight people are and the sooner we embrace that word the sooner it loses its power to hurt. The reactions on this thread from some have been very mild I have to say but all they are doing is stating a fact. They haven't been offensive in the way they have put it across. Yes nicer terms have been developed over the years to make people easier about their size but we all need to realise that at the end of the day they all boil down to the fact that we are fat. " I agree. I state I am fat and then get told I am putting myself down. Far from it as I am using unequivocal language about myself. There was a time it was a put down and insult used to try and control me: I went from a size 8 to a 10 and used to be regularly be told that I was fat then. I don't have many pictures of myself back then because of that. | |||
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"I prefer the terms 'plump' or 'portly' or 'rotund'. Rubenesque? " | |||
"On here "ample", amongst other things, means not perfect. So you'd be a no go for many members." . Why is that a no go for many members??? I'm a big lass and don't have a problem at all getting meets so your theory there is blown apart. And why isn't ample perfect? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what you may think isn't perfect someone else will think is. | |||
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"I interpret ample to mean fat without being curvaceous. The profile pics usually support this. " This to me seems pretty accurate!! | |||
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"On here "ample", amongst other things, means not perfect. So you'd be a no go for many members.. Why is that a no go for many members??? I'm a big lass and don't have a problem at all getting meets so your theory there is blown apart. And why isn't ample perfect? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what you may think isn't perfect someone else will think is. " Perfect doesn't exist!
And to be fair...just because you can get a shag, doesn't mean that "ample" isn't off putting to "many", which was what the statement was!
Although personally I disagree, ample is simply a vague, general term for fat, we don't get to choose the words admin lock into preference settings! | |||
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"On here "ample", amongst other things, means not perfect. So you'd be a no go for many members.. Why is that a no go for many members??? I'm a big lass and don't have a problem at all getting meets so your theory there is blown apart. And why isn't ample perfect? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what you may think isn't perfect someone else will think is. Perfect doesn't exist!
And to be fair...just because you can get a shag, doesn't mean that "ample" isn't off putting to "many", which was what the statement was!
Although personally I disagree, ample is simply a vague, general term for fat, we don't get to choose the words admin lock into preference settings! ". You seem to like the word fat!!! And I agree no one is perfect. I would rather be 'fat' than skin and bones looking like a scrawny bone but everyone is different. And me being on here isn't about just getting a shag as you put it, I don't just shag anyone like some choose too. Some guys like bigger ladies some don't that's life. | |||
"Well I am chunky,stocky.x" . You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!! | |||
"I say ample on my profile and to me it means I have plenty of everything " agreed! | |||
"On here "ample", amongst other things, means not perfect. So you'd be a no go for many members.. Why is that a no go for many members??? I'm a big lass and don't have a problem at all getting meets so your theory there is blown apart. And why isn't ample perfect? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what you may think isn't perfect someone else will think is. Perfect doesn't exist!
And to be fair...just because you can get a shag, doesn't mean that "ample" isn't off putting to "many", which was what the statement was!
Although personally I disagree, ample is simply a vague, general term for fat, we don't get to choose the words admin lock into preference settings! . You seem to like the word fat!!! And I agree no one is perfect. I would rather be 'fat' than skin and bones looking like a scrawny bone but everyone is different. And me being on here isn't about just getting a shag as you put it, I don't just shag anyone like some choose too. Some guys like bigger ladies some don't that's life. "Not everyone who is not far is scrawny.....like plus size take offence to being called big I suppose the same goes for slim being called scrawny. I would rather be a lot slimmer then I am now however you got to embrace what you have....some men don't like slim some don't like fat.... | |||
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"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!" Thank you, I just need to get a bit more toned now, confidence thing I hate taking my top off for pics. Its a problem of us chefs having a tummy. X | |||
"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!Thank you, I just need to get a bit more toned now, confidence thing I hate taking my top off for pics. Its a problem of us chefs having a tummy. X" I prefer stocky men....to slim men | |||
"On here "ample", amongst other things, means not perfect. So you'd be a no go for many members.. Why is that a no go for many members??? I'm a big lass and don't have a problem at all getting meets so your theory there is blown apart. And why isn't ample perfect? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what you may think isn't perfect someone else will think is. Perfect doesn't exist!
And to be fair...just because you can get a shag, doesn't mean that "ample" isn't off putting to "many", which was what the statement was!
Although personally I disagree, ample is simply a vague, general term for fat, we don't get to choose the words admin lock into preference settings! . You seem to like the word fat!!! And I agree no one is perfect. I would rather be 'fat' than skin and bones looking like a scrawny bone but everyone is different. And me being on here isn't about just getting a shag as you put it, I don't just shag anyone like some choose too. Some guys like bigger ladies some don't that's life. "Eh....? I have NO personal feelings about the word "fat".
Dunno what yer bitchin to me about, be fat all you want, I don't give a shit, why would I?  | |||
" Perfect doesn't exist!
And to be fair...just because you can get a shag, doesn't mean that "ample" isn't off putting to "many", which was what the statement was!
Although personally I disagree, ample is simply a vague, general term for fat, we don't get to choose the words admin lock into preference settings! . You seem to like the word fat!!! And I agree no one is perfect. I would rather be 'fat' than skin and bones looking like a scrawny bone but everyone is different. And me being on here isn't about just getting a shag as you put it, I don't just shag anyone like some choose too. Some guys like bigger ladies some don't that's life. "Don't you just love it when these threads turn out to insult the group your not in.....oh well | |||
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"Also - can guys be curvy? Really?" we chuckle when we see this too, as far as we think no | |||
"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!Thank you, I just need to get a bit more toned now, confidence thing I hate taking my top off for pics. Its a problem of us chefs having a tummy. X I prefer stocky men....to slim men "I had better eat 2 mince pies then.xx | |||
"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!Thank you, I just need to get a bit more toned now, confidence thing I hate taking my top off for pics. Its a problem of us chefs having a tummy. X I prefer stocky men....to slim men ". I agree with you Hun stocky is so much better!! | |||
"I say ample on my profile and to me it means I have plenty of everything
agreed!"Ample - adjective: enough, more than enough, plentiful, sufficient, adequate, abundant. I like abundant best. I have abundant charms, anyone want some? | |||
"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!Thank you, I just need to get a bit more toned now, confidence thing I hate taking my top off for pics. Its a problem of us chefs having a tummy. X I prefer stocky men....to slim men I had better eat 2 mince pies then.xx "Maybe you could give us a peek?
I can't see any naked shots on public but ye look pretty hot to me! 
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"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!Thank you, I just need to get a bit more toned now, confidence thing I hate taking my top off for pics. Its a problem of us chefs having a tummy. X I prefer stocky men....to slim men I had better eat 2 mince pies then.xx
Maybe you could give us a peek?
I can't see any naked shots on public but ye look pretty hot to me!
"He does indeed | |||
"I say ample on my profile and to me it means I have plenty of everything
agreed!
Ample - adjective: enough, more than enough, plentiful, sufficient, adequate, abundant.
I like abundant best. I have abundant charms, anyone want some?"Abundant is a great word. I am abundantly female. | |||
",,,,,,,,You seem to like the word fat!!! And I agree no one is perfect. I would rather be 'fat' than skin and bones looking like a scrawny bone but everyone is different. And me being on here isn't about just getting a shag as you put it, I don't just shag anyone like some choose too. Some guys like bigger ladies some don't that's life. " This is an offensive post, I think you should be a little embarrassed by it. | |||
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"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!Thank you, I just need to get a bit more toned now, confidence thing I hate taking my top off for pics. Its a problem of us chefs having a tummy. X I prefer stocky men....to slim men I had better eat 2 mince pies then.xx
Maybe you could give us a peek? I have posted one of my chubby bum now it will be more toned in the new year. X
I can't see any naked shots on public but ye look pretty hot to me!
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"What do you regard "Ample" as when you see it in a profile description? Maybe "Stocky" would be a better description? Or maybe different descriptive words for either a male or fem would be better?? " Ample to me means something different to stocky. Ample is someone who is overweight in a non muscly way but not obese. Ample is more than enough with a couple of stones extra to me. | |||
"I think this should be settled once n for all ..... All the morbidly obese people shuffle to the right and the streaks of piss stand in the gaps inbetween..... Go on ...shake hands. " Can't dem big chicks'll crush oor wee fragile bones | |||
"I think this should be settled once n for all ..... All the morbidly obese people shuffle to the right and the streaks of piss stand in the gaps inbetween..... Go on ...shake hands. Can't dem big chicks'll crush oor wee fragile bones "Behave | |||
"I have just posted one of my chubby bum which I promise will be more toned in the new year. X" I feel soo cheated...there was only half an arse on show! | |||
"I think this should be settled once n for all ..... All the morbidly obese people shuffle to the right and the streaks of piss stand in the gaps inbetween..... Go on ...shake hands. Can't dem big chicks'll crush oor wee fragile bones
Behave "See!! Aggresive bloody women!  | |||
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"I think this should be settled once n for all ..... All the morbidly obese people shuffle to the right and the streaks of piss stand in the gaps inbetween..... Go on ...shake hands. Can't dem big chicks'll crush oor wee fragile bones "I do worry about that. I wouldn't like to be responsible for a crush injury but then I remember that I can fit more thin people on the bed around me and my fears fade away. | |||
"I think this should be settled once n for all ..... All the morbidly obese people shuffle to the right and the streaks of piss stand in the gaps inbetween..... Go on ...shake hands. Can't dem big chicks'll crush oor wee fragile bones
Behave
See!! Aggresive bloody women! "I know....women Huh | |||
"I prefer the terms 'plump' or 'portly' or 'rotund'. Rubenesque? " | |||
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"It really does sadden me that adults can't behave like adults. They can't have a discussion about size with out insulting the other side. Why can't a person Just be slim instead of boney and scrawny. Why is it ok for an 'ample' person to be rude to slim people? When I first started posting on the forums some 4 years ago I used to defend these actions because I was angry at the gat bashing comments but now I just see those as insecure people as much as the obese people are insecure when they throw the bag of bones comments around. People are what they are and no amount of slagging off on here is going to change it. Just accept that and move on. Big girls and boys have meets, medium girls and boys have meets, slim girls and boys have meets. It's all good people " And some like to mix it up. It is all good - live and let live in peace. | |||
"I have just posted one of my chubby bum which I promise will be more toned in the new year. X I feel soo cheated...there was only half an arse on show! "Well I didn't want to be too cheeky. X | |||
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"Well I am chunky,stocky.x. You missed out and bloody gorgeous!!!" Would second that | |||
"How about the term; 'Built for comfort, not speed'??? Is that less insulting than some of the above? "Who wants a comfortable sex goddess? | |||
"It really does sadden me that adults can't behave like adults. They can't have a discussion about size with out insulting the other side. Why can't a person Just be slim instead of boney and scrawny. Why is it ok for an 'ample' person to be rude to slim people? When I first started posting on the forums some 4 years ago I used to defend these actions because I was angry at the gat bashing comments but now I just see those as insecure people as much as the obese people are insecure when they throw the bag of bones comments around. People are what they are and no amount of slagging off on here is going to change it. Just accept that and move on. Big girls and boys have meets, medium girls and boys have meets, slim girls and boys have meets. It's all good people " Well said xxx There is so much more to a person then there size. Fat Thin Middle size. A very small part that makes up that person. xxxx | |||
"I think this should be settled once n for all ..... All the morbidly obese people shuffle to the right and the streaks of piss stand in the gaps inbetween..... Go on ...shake hands. " . Hahaha this brightened up my morning of ironing haha | |||
"Also - can guys be curvy? Really?" lol yes like me when they have a 6 kegg and no a six pack lol very curvy lol | |||
"How about the term; 'Built for comfort, not speed'??? Is that less insulting than some of the above?
Who wants a comfortable sex goddess?"Me me me!!  | |||
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"Whislt we're on this topic....there some unusual looking "athletes" on here too "I do sumo wrestling. X | |||
"I've got myself as curvy (size 18), but so do other women who are a lot smaller than me, so perhaps there should be a fat option to tick. And maybe separate options for the men to choose
No, there shouldn't. You pick what you want to pick and if people want clarification they can ask for a pic or go on cam. " Its common sense really if people are a little confused by the descriptions used then there are simple enough ways to solve this | |||
"Whislt we're on this topic....there some unusual looking "athletes" on here too I do sumo wrestling. X"Fuck it think i'll change mine to athletic and use that excuse seen as ample seems to cause so much controversy | |||
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"I've got myself as curvy (size 18), but so do other women who are a lot smaller than me, so perhaps there should be a fat option to tick. And maybe separate options for the men to choose
No, there shouldn't. You pick what you want to pick and if people want clarification they can ask for a pic or go on cam.
Its common sense really if people are a little confused by the descriptions used then there are simple enough ways to solve this "I have common sense, I just say I'm fat lol | |||
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"I've got myself as curvy (size 18), but so do other women who are a lot smaller than me, so perhaps there should be a fat option to tick. And maybe separate options for the men to choose
No, there shouldn't. You pick what you want to pick and if people want clarification they can ask for a pic or go on cam.
Its common sense really if people are a little confused by the descriptions used then there are simple enough ways to solve this
I have common sense, I just say I'm fat lol "Even if fat were an option there would be some people who would still moan about that lol xx | |||
"What do you regard "Ample" as when you see it in a profile description? Maybe "Stocky" would be a better description? Or maybe different descriptive words for either a male or fem would be better?? " ur ass looks quite ample | |||
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"there wouldnt be so much confusion if pics gave an accurate image of what someones bods like you could judge for urself then" That might make too much sense lol | |||
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"I love how the super fit and slim athletic types have weighed in on this and aren't shy with the FAT tag. Perhaps we should have terms like surfboard, rake, bag o 'bones too. Maybe even the "clearly spends to much time admiring themselves in the mirrors in the gym" tag too. " You mean the perfect people. I'm sure that if words such as the above were used to describe the perfect people of FAB they'd soon be up in arms. Perfect arms at that. For they have the biggest ego's to dent. | |||
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"maybe we should put our BMIs lol" yes may all put BMI S on profile , lol do you think people can work there s out ? | |||
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"weighing scales in chemists etc can give BMIs but has been said easy to work out by height and weight" body fat perentage it is then | |||
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"Height and weight should be enough for those that can do their sums! " | |||
"Hmmm it seems I kicked off a bit of a hornets nest with my original rant. Sorry everyone. That is my insecurity at its best. Now see I have average down as I think I am fairly average (well for a trans woman anyway). But when someone says they are ample because they are size 18 that in my view is generally curvy. I range from 14 waist and hips) to 16-20 on top just because of my naturally shoulder padded shoulders. That being the case I could be considered as ample? Really? I'm certainly not curvy, but to be honest at my height yeah I'm in the overweight category medically but I'm not massively obese. So it's all a bit subjective anyway really. " From your photos I certainly wouldn't call you ample. I wouldn't even say you look overweight. You look great.  | |||
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