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"Some women do not handle rejection well either. " Or some couples! Lol. OP... I don't think it ruins it for anyone really, just makes it easier for the nice guys to stand out from the knob heads.  | |||
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"I find it funny when I read profiles of women stating guys have been rude just cause they said no , didn't reply or cause the guy does not fit their preferences . Guys come on stop spoiling it for the rest of us , I feel it is retarded to expect every woman out there to like you , don't you think ? Also why waste the energy I mean do you think it is going to help your case to be rude ? What do you hope to achieve ? Also there is a reason for the block button , if you contact someone and they do not reply ignore or block then , do not start throwing tantrums . If you as a guy has preferences why not respect the fact women do as well. Grow up guys this is an Adult site after all ." Well said thank you  | |||
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"Some women do not handle rejection well either. Or some couples! Lol. OP... I don't think it ruins it for anyone really, just makes it easier for the nice guys to stand out from the knob heads. " | |||
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"I do agree with you , but I am guessing the problem is more prevalent with guys , I could be wrong though ." It seems more prevalent because of the sheer number of single guys on here compared to ladies/couples. | |||
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" It seems more prevalent because of the sheer number of single guys on here compared to ladies/couples. " True , well , guy , couples , women , Ts/tv , I think it is ridiculous that people do that . | |||
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"Slagging off your peer group is, I find, a surefire why of not looking like one of the site's good guys...
"If supporting stupidity makes me look good ,please show me the bad guys corner | |||
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"Slagging off your peer group is, I find, a surefire why of not looking like one of the site's good guys...
If supporting stupidity makes me look good ,please show me the bad guys corner "It's not about suppotting stupidity It's about trying to stand out by criticising others' behaviour. Is that all you can offer? Pick me ladies I'm not a "retard" like all the other men...
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"Slagging off your peer group is, I find, a surefire why of not looking like one of the site's good guys...
If supporting stupidity makes me look good ,please show me the bad guys corner
It's not about suppotting stupidity It's about trying to stand out by criticising others' behaviour. Is that all you can offer? Pick me ladies I'm not a "retard" like all the other men...
"what a cynical remark..the guys only wanting a shag  | |||
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"Slagging off your peer group is, I find, a surefire why of not looking like one of the site's good guys...
If supporting stupidity makes me look good ,please show me the bad guys corner
It's not about suppotting stupidity It's about trying to stand out by criticising others' behaviour. Is that all you can offer? Pick me ladies I'm not a "retard" like all the other men...
"So are you then saying it is stellar behaviours I should condone , or that if I see something wrong I should keep shut just cause it might piss someone off ? I am not doing this for any ladies to pick me I am just discussing something I see is wrong , if I am mistaken correct me , not go on some personal attack . | |||
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"Slagging off your peer group is, I find, a surefire why of not looking like one of the site's good guys...
If supporting stupidity makes me look good ,please show me the bad guys corner
It's not about suppotting stupidity It's about trying to stand out by criticising others' behaviour. Is that all you can offer? Pick me ladies I'm not a "retard" like all the other men...
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . " A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. | |||
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"I find it funny when I read profiles of women stating guys have been rude just cause they said no , didn't reply or cause the guy does not fit their preferences . Guys come on stop spoiling it for the rest of us , I feel it is retarded to expect every woman out there to like you , don't you think ? Also why waste the energy I mean do you think it is going to help your case to be rude ? What do you hope to achieve ? Also there is a reason for the block button , if you contact someone and they do not reply ignore or block then , do not start throwing tantrums . If you as a guy has preferences why not respect the fact women do as well. Grow up guys this is an Adult site after all ." It's a very small minority that do this, in my personal experience. Still, good effort at drawing attention to yourself and appearing sensitive to the women on here. | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . " That might not have been your intention fella , but as one of your peer group this post did piss me off , so I'm not suprised at the reaction your getting . | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . That might not have been your intention fella , but as one of your peer group this post did piss me off , so I'm not suprised at the reaction your getting ." Do you throw tantrums when rejected , if not then this post refers to you in now way . | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men." Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? | |||
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"I do agree with you , but I am guessing the problem is more prevalent with guys , I could be wrong though . It seems more prevalent because of the sheer number of single guys on here compared to ladies/couples. " | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . That might not have been your intention fella , but as one of your peer group this post did piss me off , so I'm not suprised at the reaction your getting . Do you throw tantrums when rejected , if not then this post refers to you in now way ." I'm just saying if you post something that is known to be contentious on here then don't get arsey when you get people disagreeing with you . That's nearly as off putting as people throwing tantrums when rejected | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? " To be honest I found your opening post totally condescending. You tell men how to behave and take offence on the part of women. Your opening post is clearly directed soley at men. | |||
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"Still, good effort at drawing attention to yourself and appearing sensitive to the women on here. "Thanks for the comment , the reason I posted it was I read a few posts this morning where women complained about this , the fact I perve the post of mainly women might explain why I thought guys do this the most and it was reading other peoples experiences that inspired me not that I am seeking anyone's sympathy or approval . | |||
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"...I am not slagging off men or anyone... " Your post is directed specifically at men. 
"Men" get a lot of grief on here because of the behaviour of a minority. It astounds me that a man, someone who has never experienced this and is therefore relying on heresay, would jump on the bandwagon.
It genuinely does seem that this post is to denigrate other men to make yourself look good.
If you can't make yourself look good without running everyone else down, you need to be concentrating on how to improve yourself rather than commenting on second-hand information on the failings of "men". | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? To be honest I found your opening post totally condescending. You tell men how to behave and take offence on the part of women. Your opening post is clearly directed soley at men." If you want to throw tantrums at people that reject you go ahead you have the right to as I as we'll have the right to bitch about it , like I said I was referring to guys that throw tantrums not all guys , so who the cap fit ..... | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . " Good point. Differentiate behaviour from identity. | |||
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"I find it funny when I read profiles of women stating guys have been rude just cause they said no , didn't reply or cause the guy does not fit their preferences . Guys come on stop spoiling it for the rest of us , I feel it is retarded to expect every woman out there to like you , don't you think ? Also why waste the energy I mean do you think it is going to help your case to be rude ? What do you hope to achieve ? Also there is a reason for the block button , if you contact someone and they do not reply ignore or block then , do not start throwing tantrums . If you as a guy has preferences why not respect the fact women do as Grow up guys this is an Adult site afte Retarded???? Such a lovely word Not. I know your having a rant but theres better words i can think of.plenty of disabled people use fab,think of them mate. Also i can smell plenty of shit. How yes its called someone being a brown nose.sucking up to the girls.rant over.have fun Retaall ." | |||
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"...I am not slagging off men or anyone... Your post is directed specifically at men.
"Men" get a lot of grief on here because of the behaviour of a minority. It astounds me that a man, someone who has never experienced this and is therefore relying on heresay, would jump on the bandwagon.
It genuinely does seem that this post is to denigrate other men to make yourself look good.
If you can't make yourself look good without running everyone else down, you need to be concentrating on how to improve yourself rather than commenting on second-hand information on the failings of "men"."You mean you read the post and what you understood from it was that I was slagging of all men , including those that just move on when rejected ? | |||
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"I find it funny when I read profiles of women stating guys have been rude just cause they said no , didn't reply or cause the guy does not fit their preferences . Guys come on stop spoiling it for the rest of us , I feel it is retarded to expect every woman out there to like you , don't you think ? Also why waste the energy I mean do you think it is going to help your case to be rude ? What do you hope to achieve ? Also there is a reason for the block button , if you contact someone and they do not reply ignore or block then , do not start throwing tantrums . If you as a guy has preferences why not respect the fact women do as Grow up guys this is an Adult site afte Retarded???? Such a lovely word Not. I know your having a rant but theres better words i can think of.plenty of disabled people use fab,think of them mate. Also i can smell plenty of shit. How yes its called someone being a brown nose.sucking up to the girls.rant over.have fun Retaall ." Are you saying it is normal to expect everywoman to like you ,and then kick off when you find out not every woman likes you ? | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? To be honest I found your opening post totally condescending. You tell men how to behave and take offence on the part of women. Your opening post is clearly directed soley at men. If you want to throw tantrums at people that reject you go ahead you have the right to as I as we'll have the right to bitch about it , like I said I was referring to guys that throw tantrums not all guys , so who the cap fit ....." Ah so because I disagree with what you've said, I must belong to the group you are criticising. Excellent logic! 
The cap can't fit me. I'm not part of the group "men".
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? To be honest I found your opening post totally condescending. You tell men how to behave and take offence on the part of women. Your opening post is clearly directed soley at men. If you want to throw tantrums at people that reject you go ahead you have the right to as I as we'll have the right to bitch about it , like I said I was referring to guys that throw tantrums not all guys , so who the cap fit ..... Ah so because I disagree with what you've said, I must belong to the group you are criticising. Excellent logic!
The cap can't fit me. I'm not part of the group "men".
And for the record I have never thrown a tantrum as a result of being rejected. Most of the men I've turned down haven't either."Then I am not referring to you or any of those men you turned down , those are stellar guys . I am referring to men who throw tantrums when rejected not all men . | |||
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"We have had to accept rejection, it happens regular enough. When playing as a couple with another couple all four have to clique otherwise it won't happen. Rejection goes with the terrority so one as to get use to it. It you can't stand the heat then get out of the kitchen. " Totally agree | |||
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"rejection is persecution" Really , In what way ? | |||
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"...I am not slagging off men or anyone... Your post is directed specifically at men.
"Men" get a lot of grief on here because of the behaviour of a minority. It astounds me that a man, someone who has never experienced this and is therefore relying on heresay, would jump on the bandwagon.
It genuinely does seem that this post is to denigrate other men to make yourself look good.
If you can't make yourself look good without running everyone else down, you need to be concentrating on how to improve yourself rather than commenting on second-hand information on the failings of "men".
You mean you read the post and what you understood from it was that I was slagging of all men , including those that just move on when rejected ?"You don't distinguish between the two. In fact your post doesn't acknowledge there are men who don't throw tantrums. You just criticise "men" as a group. So yeah your post is directed at "men" not some men or a few men. You've clearly offended some men and some women are also less than impressed by your knight in shining armour routine. You honestly can't see that your post was at best poorly worded and ill advised? | |||
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"rejection is persecution Really , In what way ?" in no way..am just being silly lol | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? To be honest I found your opening post totally condescending. You tell men how to behave and take offence on the part of women. Your opening post is clearly directed soley at men. If you want to throw tantrums at people that reject you go ahead you have the right to as I as we'll have the right to bitch about it , like I said I was referring to guys that throw tantrums not all guys , so who the cap fit ..... Ah so because I disagree with what you've said, I must belong to the group you are criticising. Excellent logic!
The cap can't fit me. I'm not part of the group "men".
And for the record I have never thrown a tantrum as a result of being rejected. Most of the men I've turned down haven't either.
Then I am not referring to you or any of those men you turned down , those are stellar guys . I am referring to men who throw tantrums when rejected not all men ."Go read your post. It's directed at "men". Oh and we're back to focusing on men now, are we? Not the women and couples that do this? Roll up, roll up, get your man bashing sticks here. Two fera pound. Man bashing sticks twoferapaaand. | |||
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"rejection is persecution Really , In what way ? in no way..am just being silly lol" aw, dont feel rejected lol. being aggressive after rejection is human nature. its the fight or flight thing. someone attacks your sensibilities and you either accept it (flight) or attack back (fight). those that accept it, are probably not 'real men' and would probably back down in a fight, cant drink their bodyweight in alcohol and use skin products.  | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? To be honest I found your opening post totally condescending. You tell men how to behave and take offence on the part of women. Your opening post is clearly directed soley at men. If you want to throw tantrums at people that reject you go ahead you have the right to as I as we'll have the right to bitch about it , like I said I was referring to guys that throw tantrums not all guys , so who the cap fit ..... Ah so because I disagree with what you've said, I must belong to the group you are criticising. Excellent logic!
The cap can't fit me. I'm not part of the group "men".
And for the record I have never thrown a tantrum as a result of being rejected. Most of the men I've turned down haven't either.
Then I am not referring to you or any of those men you turned down , those are stellar guys . I am referring to men who throw tantrums when rejected not all men .
Go read your post. It's directed at "men".
Oh and we're back to focusing on men now, are we? Not the women and couples that do this?
Roll up, roll up, get your man bashing sticks here. Two fera pound. Man bashing sticks twoferapaaand."I think the o p by bashing men is hoping to fool females he is different to others and not the best look at me thread i seen here. | |||
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"...I am not slagging off men or anyone... Your post is directed specifically at men.
"Men" get a lot of grief on here because of the behaviour of a minority. It astounds me that a man, someone who has never experienced this and is therefore relying on heresay, would jump on the bandwagon.
It genuinely does seem that this post is to denigrate other men to make yourself look good.
If you can't make yourself look good without running everyone else down, you need to be concentrating on how to improve yourself rather than commenting on second-hand information on the failings of "men".
You mean you read the post and what you understood from it was that I was slagging of all men , including those that just move on when rejected ?
You don't distinguish between the two. In fact your post doesn't acknowledge there are men who don't throw tantrums. You just criticise "men" as a group. So yeah your post is directed at "men" not some men or a few men.
You've clearly offended some men and some women are also less than impressed by your knight in shining armour routine. You honestly can't see that your post was at best poorly worded and ill advised?"Like I said earlier the post does not refer to all men except you want to assert that all men throw tantrums when rejected , and I am not bothered if some people do not like my post , I cannot and I do not expect to please everyone or be loved by everyone . If some people feel it is acceptable to throw tantrums when rejected good for them for me I see it as vile behaviour . | |||
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"I find it funny when I read profiles of women stating guys have been rude just cause they said no , didn't reply or cause the guy does not fit their preferences . Guys come on stop spoiling it for the rest of us , I feel it is retarded to expect every woman out there to like you , don't you think ? Also why waste the energy I mean do you think it is going to help your case to be rude ? What do you hope to achieve ? Also there is a reason for the block button , if you contact someone and they do not reply ignore or block then , do not start throwing tantrums . If you as a guy has preferences why not respect the fact women do as well. Grow up guys this is an Adult site after all ." people "spoiling it for the rest of us" is I think one of the biggest fallacies in swinging... that puts all the blame elsewhere and doesn't recognise that we are all masters of our own fate... it also makes people aware of their own picking/selection process and makes the ones who do stand out even greater... I am a great believer in that you do get out what you put in, be that in your profile, or going to socials and mingling and interacting with people, or going to clubs.... too many come in with the preconception of minimal effort for maximum results... and it is those people who complain... | |||
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"Besides I am not slagging off my peer group , I am not slagging off men or anyone , I am criticising a behaviour , big difference . A behaviour that throughout your opening post you only associate with men. Did I say or imply that all men do this , and when it was brought to my attention that couples and women do it , did I not go on to state the behaviour is wrong no matter what kind of person does it ? To be honest I found your opening post totally condescending. You tell men how to behave and take offence on the part of women. Your opening post is clearly directed soley at men. If you want to throw tantrums at people that reject you go ahead you have the right to as I as we'll have the right to bitch about it , like I said I was referring to guys that throw tantrums not all guys , so who the cap fit ..... Ah so because I disagree with what you've said, I must belong to the group you are criticising. Excellent logic!
The cap can't fit me. I'm not part of the group "men".
And for the record I have never thrown a tantrum as a result of being rejected. Most of the men I've turned down haven't either.
Then I am not referring to you or any of those men you turned down , those are stellar guys . I am referring to men who throw tantrums when rejected not all men .
Go read your post. It's directed at "men".
Oh and we're back to focusing on men now, are we? Not the women and couples that do this?
Roll up, roll up, get your man bashing sticks here. Two fera pound. Man bashing sticks twoferapaaand."Yes I am bashing men who throw tantrums when rejected , are you suggesting I praise them ? | |||
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"I find it funny when I read profiles of women stating guys have been rude just cause they said no , didn't reply or cause the guy does not fit their preferences . Guys come on stop spoiling it for the rest of us , I feel it is retarded to expect every woman out there to like you , don't you think ? Also why waste the energy I mean do you think it is going to help your case to be rude ? What do you hope to achieve ? Also there is a reason for the block button , if you contact someone and they do not reply ignore or block then , do not start throwing tantrums . If you as a guy has preferences why not respect the fact women do as well. Grow up guys this is an Adult site after all . people "spoiling it for the rest of us" is I think one of the biggest fallacies in swinging... that puts all the blame elsewhere and doesn't recognise that we are all masters of our own fate... it also makes people aware of their own picking/selection process and makes the ones who do stand out even greater... I am a great believer in that you do get out what you put in, be that in your profile, or going to socials and mingling and interacting with people, or going to clubs.... too many come in with the preconception of minimal effort for maximum results... and it is those people who complain..." Ok on hindsight I erred to put it that way , but I do feel it spoils the fun for some if you open your email and it is filled with curses and insults just cause you said no to someone . | |||
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"I think some people A - invite these messages. Either through their profile or messages. B - overreact. " C- fancy a fuck? | |||
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"I think some people A - invite these messages. Either through their profile or messages. B - overreact. C- fancy a fuck?" | |||
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" Ok on hindsight I erred to put it that way , but I do feel it spoils the fun for some if you open your email and it is filled with curses and insults just cause you said no to someone ." i think people should be more thick skinned... I don't think highlighting the issue helps... because the people who do it probably aren't reading this... all it does is either teniously links you to it... or makes you look like one of the mounting "white knights" who say...oh but I am different... the good people already get it... they understand.. they are out there having fun... and they are finding their own ways of standing out.... | |||
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"I think some people A - invite these messages. Either through their profile or messages. B - overreact. C- fancy a fuck?" Ay go on then  | |||
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" Ok on hindsight I erred to put it that way , but I do feel it spoils the fun for some if you open your email and it is filled with curses and insults just cause you said no to someone . i think people should be more thick skinned... I don't think highlighting the issue helps... because the people who do it probably aren't reading this... all it does is either teniously links you to it... or makes you look like one of the mounting "white knights" who say...oh but I am different... the good people already get it... they understand.. they are out there having fun... and they are finding their own ways of standing out...." So what is the point of having a forum where things can be discussed , I am sure a lot of topics started here already have a lot of good people who get it , if some see my post as negative and hate me for it , good for them , like I said all I am doing is criticising a behaviour , if you feel it is acceptable behaviour say so , not bang on about what you feel my intentions for sharing my thoughts are . | |||
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" So what is the point of having a forum where things can be discussed , I am sure a lot of topics started here already have a lot of good people who get it , if some see my post as negative and hate me for it , good for them , like I said all I am doing is criticising a behaviour , if you feel it is acceptable behaviour say so , not bang on about what you feel my intentions for sharing my thoughts are ." Because "haters gonna hate" right????
as people have said before me... the Opening Post looks really condescending, it just looks like it is running over people in that big old bus of yours to make yourself look good....
hope it works.... but I am betting many will be turned off by the slathering
the truth is the nice guys dont need to be told, and the bad guys wont be listening anyway.... and those who are already having fun.... will be doing exactly that... having fun!
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" So what is the point of having a forum where things can be discussed , I am sure a lot of topics started here already have a lot of good people who get it , if some see my post as negative and hate me for it , good for them , like I said all I am doing is criticising a behaviour , if you feel it is acceptable behaviour say so , not bang on about what you feel my intentions for sharing my thoughts are . Because "haters gonna hate" right????
as people have said before me... the Opening Post looks really condescending, it just looks like it is running over people in that big old bus of yours to make yourself look good....
hope it works.... but I am betting many will be turned off by the slathering
the truth is the nice guys dont need to be told, and the bad guys wont be listening anyway.... and those who are already having fun.... will be doing exactly that... having fun!
"while _abio and I spitroast rugby, we high five each other and agree with her too.. I think ur getting the point now OP..ur post in its essence was a nice gesture,some may see the cynical side of things more than its original value, dont get upset by it.Anyway hope u get some nice meets from it lol | |||
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"I find it funny when I read profiles of women stating guys have been rude just cause they said no , didn't reply or cause the guy does not fit their preferences . Guys come on stop spoiling it for the rest of us , I feel it is retarded to expect every woman out there to like you , don't you think ? Also why waste the energy I mean do you think it is going to help your case to be rude ? What do you hope to achieve ? Also there is a reason for the block button , if you contact someone and they do not reply ignore or block then , do not start throwing tantrums . If you as a guy has preferences why not respect the fact women do as well. Grow up guys this is an Adult site after all ." Single guy bashing by a single guy: novel! On the forums I'm not known for mincing my words. When visible my profile heading should read "none but the brave" and I am one of those "fat, old, ugly hags" who couldn't pull in the real world, no man would be seen dead with blah blah yet I've never received an abusive message: not...one! I don't engage with people I'm not interested in and that's made clear. Polite, respectful "no thanks" doesn't lead to abuse but I'm sure endless ping pong milking the attention before finally saying no leads to frustration. I find the men on site mainly alright I suppose they're not all arseholes! | |||
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