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Is this a bad move?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just asked my ex if she would like to be my FB.

We both dont want a relationship but we also have our needs.

I have explained that it would be strictly NSA. And I will respect her in every way..

Is this a bad thing as I would prefer to sleep with someone who knows what I like and how I like it and also the same for her??

Thoughts anyone??

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just asked my ex if she would like to be my FB.

We both dont want a relationship but we also have our needs.

I have explained that it would be strictly NSA. And I will respect her in every way..

Is this a bad thing as I would prefer to sleep with someone who knows what I like and how I like it and also the same for her??

Thoughts anyone?? "
Exs are exs for a reason, approach with caution.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just asked my ex if she would like to be my FB.

We both dont want a relationship but we also have our needs.

I have explained that it would be strictly NSA. And I will respect her in every way..

Is this a bad thing as I would prefer to sleep with someone who knows what I like and how I like it and also the same for her??

Thoughts anyone?? Exs are exs for a reason, approach with caution.

We still love eachother and have both admitted that.. was it a bad move??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't do it rabbit, it'll end in disaster!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just asked my ex if she would like to be my FB.

We both dont want a relationship but we also have our needs.

I have explained that it would be strictly NSA. And I will respect her in every way..

Is this a bad thing as I would prefer to sleep with someone who knows what I like and how I like it and also the same for her??

Thoughts anyone?? "

dont do it...Run Rabbit..Run Rabbit...RUN RUN run

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh dear

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

Weren't you moaning about your ex in bed not so long ago??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

She's an ex, so you split up for a reason, but you still love each other. I can see this one getting messy.

Try calling the Co-Op and see if they do an insurance policy that may help out on this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As dr pepper would say

What's the worst thing that can happen?

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

cant see the harm in it if you are both absolutely sure it is just sex ...that said ..i am quite an emotionless person so i find this quite natural ..best of luck whatever you guys decide

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just asked my ex if she would like to be my FB.

We both dont want a relationship but we also have our needs.

I have explained that it would be strictly NSA. And I will respect her in every way..

Is this a bad thing as I would prefer to sleep with someone who knows what I like and how I like it and also the same for her??

Thoughts anyone?? Exs are exs for a reason, approach with caution.

We still love eachother and have both admitted that.. was it a bad move?? "
Do whats right for you, no one else, you asked for opinions.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Weren't you moaning about your ex in bed not so long ago?? "

Yes from memory he was far from complimentary.

But hey, any sex is better than no sex - right?

But regardless, this is a bad idea. You both need to move on and by continuing to sleep together you can't. The emotions are too confusing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah go for it. I would love my ex to be my fb. She was god damn fit.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Just asked my ex if she would like to be my FB.

We both dont want a relationship but we also have our needs.

I have explained that it would be strictly NSA. And I will respect her in every way..

Is this a bad thing as I would prefer to sleep with someone who knows what I like and how I like it and also the same for her??

Thoughts anyone?? "

so you are asking if this is a bad move....

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its gonna get Messy

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

we cant tell you if its right or wrong but she is an ex

I went with an ex a couple of months back and really regret it it was so wrong and now I look back and feel used

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

this has "I'm thinking with my cock" written all over it.... especially since you were so unflattering last time

but heck.. as long as she isn't on here, she'll never find out.... right!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"this has "I'm thinking with my cock" written all over it.... especially since you were so unflattering last time

but heck.. as long as she isn't on here, she'll never find out.... right!!!

Yes it's a bad move!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are still good friends and still see eachother..

And about her being shit in bed it was all resolved.. found out what the problem was..

I was thinking to much about whether she was enjoying it and she was thinking the same so we both didnt enjoy it..

We sat down and had a chat..

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

"We are still good friends and still see eachother..

And about her being shit in bed it was all resolved.. found out what the problem was..

I was thinking to much about whether she was enjoying it and she was thinking the same so we both didnt enjoy it..

We sat down and had a chat..

the old lack of communication problem

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

with your previous luck with the ladies: NO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ohh now here's a situation, it's like watching someone standing on a wheely bin, you just know how it ends its just a case of how badly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol, as most men would say about an ex, fuck her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*cringes*

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Nooo nooo nooo don't do it, it just gets all mixed up and complicated even tho you think it wont

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you still love each other then I would advise you not to do it. One of you will probably end up wanting to get back together or will not want the other to see other people and then things will get messy.

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