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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't keep thousand of pounds in our house and I'm sad to say that if somebody came round for a meet and stole £50 that I wouldn't report them.
I would perhaps look at revenge if it was a bloke but certainly would confront them.
Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!
I'd certainly report them on this site and you can vet people before you call them round but you cannot always be a good judge of character! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How on earth have you survived to be 54 
Possibly by asking for other people's opinions, before making a decision...  "
*screamed out of car window at passer by* "I appear to be heading for that truck at quite some speed, should I perhaps brake?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dial 999 "hello police ive been robbed" they wont give a toss about how you met the perpatrator or why they were in your house "
Chances are they won't give a toss that you've been robbed either. |
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"How on earth have you survived to be 54
Possibly by asking for other people's opinions, before making a decision...
*screamed out of car window at passer by* "I appear to be heading for that truck at quite some speed, should I perhaps brake?"
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*Shouts back* Depends how fast you are going and do you like the taste of hospital foo... Ooops...... *Covers ears....*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always ensure any money i have around the gaff is put away before anyone comes around.
i trust people to be who they say they are, nothing more, nothing less.
that said, ring the a team |
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Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!"
So you wouldn't report them in case they are wanted for something serious.... 
So you're happy to let someone get away with something like a big theft, assault or worse? Lets hope you're never a victim of a crime where the witnesses turn away incase it inconveniences or embarresses them... |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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A few years ago my boss had £15,000 in an envelope in his front room. I was bloody glad when he took it to the bank. I get nervous when people have large amounts of cash knocking about.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"dial 999 "hello police ive been robbed" they wont give a toss about how you met the perpatrator or why they were in your house
Chances are they won't give a toss that you've been robbed either. "
Having recently had a room I was staying broken into and £400 stolen the police weren't very helpful i have to agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its under £100 put it down to experience...
Letting strangers in your home is your own error.of judgement.
Chances are the person you met will close their account... Re open with an email again tomorrow. If you gave their phone num, you stand a better chance if tracking their location.
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By (user no longer on site)
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i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if someone visits takes your money and runs away.
report person yes or no.
to whom
how"
Depends on the context, for instance if it was Jennifer Lawrence and she stole £1.50. I could live with that, especially if she was fancied coming back for more.
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either. "
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!! |
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By *ach3Man
over a year ago
Watford |
Touch wood, i've had a few people back at mine as well as a couple of parties and all has been well.
Its a small world and you tend to see same profiles come up time and again - without being foolish you have to be trusting to some extent after all you are all getting into each others personal space. The wrong ones are potentially the wild cards - but we were all wild cards to start with - perhaps I'm a good judge of caracter or I'm careful about leaving valuables lying around! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!! "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how much money was stolen, to me £10 is a lot and money I need for food, so I can control my diabeties,
to some £100 is pocket money, so it wouldn't be important enough to report.
I think the answer is to decide how important the money was, and act accordingly, if you invite strangers into your home, you risk, death, assault, HIV aids, and theft, even your home being cased for the big hit, later on when your out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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", if you invite strangers into your home, you risk, death, assault, HIV aids, and theft, end "
Are you more likely to contract HIV by having sex at home so???
You risk those things anytime you play! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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", if you invite strangers into your home, you risk, death, assault, HIV aids, and theft, end
Are you more likely to contract HIV by having sex at home so???
You risk those things anytime you play! "
Indeed you do... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!
So you wouldn't report them in case they are wanted for something serious....
So you're happy to let someone get away with something like a big theft, assault or worse? Lets hope you're never a victim of a crime where the witnesses turn away incase it inconveniences or embarresses them..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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", if you invite strangers into your home, you risk, death, assault, HIV aids, and theft, end
Are you more likely to contract HIV by having sex at home so???
You risk those things anytime you play! "
..... Whereas if you meet somewhere else it rules these things out???... Not sure!!  |
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either. "
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By *emidi49 OP Man
over a year ago
Thornton Heath |
thanks to all. I have reported him to admin.
Decided against the police as cannot give any info that would be helpful. The cop may not understand 2 males together.
Hope admin will close him down so as not to be able to do it to anyone else.
Giving out his name may hurt some female who may not know he was bi.
I believe in discretion hence hope admin
will do the correct thing. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"thanks to all. I have reported him to admin.
Decided against the police as cannot give any info that would be helpful. The cop may not understand 2 males together.
Hope admin will close him down so as not to be able to do it to anyone else.
Giving out his name may hurt some female who may not know he was bi.
I believe in discretion hence hope admin
will do the correct thing."
So you are not leaving him a verification then?
Seriously, ensure you inform him that you know what he did and shame him if you ate not taking further action. He may not care but it may have been one mad and opportunistic moment and you may halt him in his tracks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either. "
Wow what I would give to be able to think £300 isn't a lot of money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'm not one that worries so much on monetry things or value. hence why i didnt report to the police. in hindsight... 300 pound really isnt alot when you think of how much one earns in a week. if he needed it for something important then he could have asked, but am sure it would have been spent on drugs so that irritates me most. never mind, am glad the original poster reported to admin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!
So you wouldn't report them in case they are wanted for something serious....
So you're happy to let someone get away with something like a big theft, assault or worse? Lets hope you're never a victim of a crime where the witnesses turn away incase it inconveniences or embarresses them..."
Calm down and take a deep breath
How would I know that a thief is a serial killer and rapist too unless they told me ?
When have I said that I wouldn't report somebody for serious matters and let them get away with it? Your post assumes I wouldn't report a murder for example incase I have to give evidence in court. This is not the point I made.
Bad day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!
So you wouldn't report them in case they are wanted for something serious....
So you're happy to let someone get away with something like a big theft, assault or worse? Lets hope you're never a victim of a crime where the witnesses turn away incase it inconveniences or embarresses them...
agree
Stand up and be counted"
I shall make a similar point to you as my last post. Read my full post and rather than selectively quote and don't take what I said out of context 
Very excitable people on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!! "
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!!
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower?"
when i walked into the room he jumped back on the the bed.. my handbag was wide open and not where i had left it.. would never accuse if i wasnt certain. took his wallet off him and looked in the note section.. didnt search every pocket in his trousers or jacket or wallet. could have been under his cap for all i know. |
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"How on earth have you survived to be 54
Possibly by asking for other people's opinions, before making a decision...
*screamed out of car window at passer by* "I appear to be heading for that truck at quite some speed, should I perhaps brake?"
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 ...honestly, I don't keep money on display etc and I live with my kids, let alone when strangers are in your house! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!!
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower?
when i walked into the room he jumped back on the the bed.. my handbag was wide open and not where i had left it.. would never accuse if i wasnt certain. took his wallet off him and looked in the note section.. didnt search every pocket in his trousers or jacket or wallet. could have been under his cap for all i know. "
Fair enough but you see what can happen when statements are made which dont contain the full story? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks to all. I have reported him to admin.
Decided against the police as cannot give any info that would be helpful. The cop may not understand 2 males together.
Hope admin will close him down so as not to be able to do it to anyone else.
Giving out his name may hurt some female who may not know he was bi.
I believe in discretion hence hope admin
will do the correct thing."
Police won't understand 2 men together ? You do know there are gay police don't you ? |
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!! "
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!!
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower?
when i walked into the room he jumped back on the the bed.. my handbag was wide open and not where i had left it.. would never accuse if i wasnt certain. took his wallet off him and looked in the note section.. didnt search every pocket in his trousers or jacket or wallet. could have been under his cap for all i know.
Fair enough but you see what can happen when statements are made which dont contain the full story?"
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!!
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower?
when i walked into the room he jumped back on the the bed.. my handbag was wide open and not where i had left it.. would never accuse if i wasnt certain. took his wallet off him and looked in the note section.. didnt search every pocket in his trousers or jacket or wallet. could have been under his cap for all i know.
Fair enough but you see what can happen when statements are made which dont contain the full story?"
Damn...Im not being picky but I realise it will possibly look like i am ...you say he jumped back and your bag was wide open and not where you left it yet you didnt notice till after he had gone...am I missing something? Wouldnt you have confronted him there and then? |
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!!
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower?
when i walked into the room he jumped back on the the bed.. my handbag was wide open and not where i had left it.. would never accuse if i wasnt certain. took his wallet off him and looked in the note section.. didnt search every pocket in his trousers or jacket or wallet. could have been under his cap for all i know.
Fair enough but you see what can happen when statements are made which dont contain the full story?
Damn...Im not being picky but I realise it will possibly look like i am ...you say he jumped back and your bag was wide open and not where you left it yet you didnt notice till after he had gone...am I missing something? Wouldnt you have confronted him there and then?"
i didnt want to say anything if the money was still in there, for all i know it could hve fallen off the chair and he picked it up and put it on the table?.. as soon as i closed the front door i opened my purse to find the money gone, and i was straight back out the front door again to track him down. |
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!!
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower?
when i walked into the room he jumped back on the the bed.. my handbag was wide open and not where i had left it.. would never accuse if i wasnt certain. took his wallet off him and looked in the note section.. didnt search every pocket in his trousers or jacket or wallet. could have been under his cap for all i know.
Fair enough but you see what can happen when statements are made which dont contain the full story?
Damn...Im not being picky but I realise it will possibly look like i am ...you say he jumped back and your bag was wide open and not where you left it yet you didnt notice till after he had gone...am I missing something? Wouldnt you have confronted him there and then?"
i didnt want to say anything if the money was still in there, for all i know it could hve fallen off the chair and he picked it up and put it on the table?.. as soon as i closed the front door i opened my purse to find the money gone, and i was straight back out the front door again to track him down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i'm not one that worries so much on monetry things or value. hence why i didnt report to the police. in hindsight... 300 pound really isnt alot when you think of how much one earns in a week. if he needed it for something important then he could have asked, but am sure it would have been spent on drugs so that irritates me most. never mind, am glad the original poster reported to admin. "
When one earns just a bit over £300 a week £300 is a lot of money |
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"i had a meet steal over 300 pound from me. we had met several times before, so i felt comfortable having him in my house after a night out on the town. he must have seen the money in my handbag, cos when i was in the shower he helped himself. i noticed as soon as he left and chased after him to confront him.. took his wallet out of his hand and he went crazy stripped naked on the streeet... i didnt find the money.. but i know without a doubt he took it as it was in there when i paid the cab on arrival at the house. hes still on here, i never reported to admin or to police. its only money. and not a lot either.
A) if he took it why didn't you find it? and B) £300 is a lot of money!!!!
Was wondering that too...he stripped naked but the money wasn't found? How are you so sure he took it then? Not saying your wrong but it's a hell of an accusation to throw out there then say you didn't find it even after taking his wallet and him stripping naked. Do you have CCTV and saw him while you were in the shower?
when i walked into the room he jumped back on the the bed.. my handbag was wide open and not where i had left it.. would never accuse if i wasnt certain. took his wallet off him and looked in the note section.. didnt search every pocket in his trousers or jacket or wallet. could have been under his cap for all i know.
Fair enough but you see what can happen when statements are made which dont contain the full story?
Damn...Im not being picky but I realise it will possibly look like i am ...you say he jumped back and your bag was wide open and not where you left it yet you didnt notice till after he had gone...am I missing something? Wouldnt you have confronted him there and then? i didnt want to say anything if the money was still in there, for all i know it could hve fallen off the chair and he picked it up and put it on the table?.. as soon as i closed the front door i opened my purse to find the money gone, and i was straight back out the front door again to track him down. "
Story sounds a bit lala to me, A) who has £300 in their purse and leaves it laying round in the house B) to most people £300 is a lot of money |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"£300 is not a lot. It's not even a half weeks wage. Lol "
Good for you cos you earn loads and loads. Must be hard trying to tell people how well off you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i find all these posts about £300 being nothing rather tedious ....regardless of how much you earn ..i would be rather annoyed if a person i welcomed into my home stole anything !"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"£300 is not a lot. It's not even a half weeks wage. Lol
Do you not realise that £300 is a hell of a lot of money to a lot of people? "
To people who know the price of every thing and the value of nothing £300 will seem like spare change (spare change I wouldn't mind having in my purse!) |
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"£300 is not a lot. It's not even a half weeks wage. Lol
Do you not realise that £300 is a hell of a lot of money to a lot of people?
To people who know the price of every thing and the value of nothing £300 will seem like spare change (spare change I wouldn't mind having in my purse!)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How on earth have you survived to be 54
Possibly by asking for other people's opinions, before making a decision...
*screamed out of car window at passer by* "I appear to be heading for that truck at quite some speed, should I perhaps brake?"
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I love your sense of humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can see exactly where the OP is coming from. This is not a question about Theft and points to prove or indeed how one goes about the mechanics of reporting a theft.
Money has been stolen from a person presumably from Fab coming into the home. Unless it was a lot of money ( maybe over £100 ) which I never have in the house anyway - I wouldnt report it. It may be evidentially harder to prove than you think to track the person down ( it always seems easy to a lay person ) BUT the issue is the embarrassment of it all. The person would almost certainly deny it - thus would have to go to court. She stole my money - no I didnt etc Would I go to court and explain how I invited someone from a sex site into my home ? No
My phone was once hacked at a gang bang by a boy I knew and some private stuff sent out. Now I lock everything away and have nothing of value on show.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"£300 is not a lot. It's not even a half weeks wage. Lol "
. If you can be so blasé about it you clearly didn't deserve the money!! But bragging about your worth on here makes you look the bad one not the person who stole from you!! Some families would love to warn double that a week so show some respect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think admin will belive a one sided story?
If you have reported it to the police, and there is a conviction, them I'm sure it could be a different story. |
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"back to the question at hand
if someone visits takes your money and runs away.
report person yes or no.
to whom
how"
It depends how much or what was stolen.
The police will not be interested in small amounts, and how are you going to prove that they took it, evidenve standard.
Crime is reported to the police, unless you want the person done over, then the local hard man.
Any means of communication, tends to work.
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Any further home visits, put away things that are easily moved.... |
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"i find all these posts about £300 being nothing rather tedious ....regardless of how much you earn ..i would be rather annoyed if a person i welcomed into my home stole anything !"
Exactly...Id be totally P'd off if I lost half my wages regardless of how much/little it was ....note the use of the word 'if' ....I felt this post was a bit suss initially and after her last comment Im now convinced. |
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Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!
So you wouldn't report them in case they are wanted for something serious....
So you're happy to let someone get away with something like a big theft, assault or worse? Lets hope you're never a victim of a crime where the witnesses turn away incase it inconveniences or embarresses them...
Calm down and take a deep breath
How would I know that a thief is a serial killer and rapist too unless they told me ?
When have I said that I wouldn't report somebody for serious matters and let them get away with it? Your post assumes I wouldn't report a murder for example incase I have to give evidence in court. This is not the point I made.
Bad day?"
I think I got it right. You said you would not report a £50 theft in case the person was wanted for something more serious. You didn't say you would keep quiet as it was a small amount of money...
As I quoted the pertinent part of your post I don't see how I misquoted you... |
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Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!
So you wouldn't report them in case they are wanted for something serious....
So you're happy to let someone get away with something like a big theft, assault or worse? Lets hope you're never a victim of a crime where the witnesses turn away incase it inconveniences or embarresses them...
Calm down and take a deep breath
How would I know that a thief is a serial killer and rapist too unless they told me ?
When have I said that I wouldn't report somebody for serious matters and let them get away with it? Your post assumes I wouldn't report a murder for example incase I have to give evidence in court. This is not the point I made.
Bad day?
I think I got it right. You said you would not report a £50 theft in case the person was wanted for something more serious. You didn't say you would keep quiet as it was a small amount of money...
As I quoted the pertinent part of your post I don't see how I misquoted you..."
No what I have actually said is that I wouldn't report a swinger to the police for stealing £50 because it may get in the media and cause embarrassment.
The reporting to police for more serious offence aspect was related to media embarrassment. That does not mean I wouldn't help a victim in everyday life or even in fab life! You assume I wouldn't help a victim of rape for example.
Get the assumption, context and the quoting correct and like I said earlier, take a deep breath. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
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"if someone visits takes your money and runs away.
report person yes or no.
to whom
how"
A woman posted a similar question, your not part of a couple are you? |
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"How on earth have you survived to be 54
Possibly by asking for other people's opinions, before making a decision...
*screamed out of car window at passer by* "I appear to be heading for that truck at quite some speed, should I perhaps brake?"
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"if someone visits takes your money and runs away.
report person yes or no.
to whom
how
A woman posted a similar question, your not part of a couple are you?"
That's the thread I thought I was reading here; they usually end in a free-for-all, so it's difficult to tell!! |
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I can see exactly where the OP is coming from. This is not a question about Theft and points to prove or indeed how one goes about the mechanics of reporting a theft.
Money has been stolen from a person presumably from Fab coming into the home. Unless it was a lot of money ( maybe over £100 ) which I never have in the house anyway - I wouldnt report it. It may be evidentially harder to prove than you think to track the person down ( it always seems easy to a lay person ) BUT the issue is the embarrassment of it all. The person would almost certainly deny it - thus would have to go to court. She stole my money - no I didnt etc Would I go to court and explain how I invited someone from a sex site into my home ? No
My phone was once hacked at a gang bang by a boy I knew and some private stuff sent out. Now I lock everything away and have nothing of value on show.
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Wow - it took this far down the thread to find someone who can show some understanding and sensitivity to the OP. aren't there some clever people on here? Quite a few who seem to float through perfect lives at least........
OP this is awful and I do feel for you. Theft is theft at the end of the day and the amount should be irrelevant. If this man has stolen from you, chances are he will do it to someone else. If you can cope with it, I'd report to the Police. You might prevent someone else being a victim. As far as you being bi and on here is concerned I can assure you they hear all sorts, so don't feel embarrassed.
Sad you feel it might be difficult to explain but then we see even on this site that bisexuality is not accepted by all..... |
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Getting the police involved could potentially open up a can of worms. What if the person was wanted by police for more serious offences and we are summonsed as witnesses! We'd rather lose £50 then be on a daily mail headline!
So you wouldn't report them in case they are wanted for something serious....
So you're happy to let someone get away with something like a big theft, assault or worse? Lets hope you're never a victim of a crime where the witnesses turn away incase it inconveniences or embarresses them...
Calm down and take a deep breath
How would I know that a thief is a serial killer and rapist too unless they told me ?
When have I said that I wouldn't report somebody for serious matters and let them get away with it? Your post assumes I wouldn't report a murder for example incase I have to give evidence in court. This is not the point I made.
Bad day?
I think I got it right. You said you would not report a £50 theft in case the person was wanted for something more serious. You didn't say you would keep quiet as it was a small amount of money...
As I quoted the pertinent part of your post I don't see how I misquoted you...
No what I have actually said is that I wouldn't report a swinger to the police for stealing £50 because it may get in the media and cause embarrassment.
The reporting to police for more serious offence aspect was related to media embarrassment. That does not mean I wouldn't help a victim in everyday life or even in fab life! You assume I wouldn't help a victim of rape for example.
Get the assumption, context and the quoting correct and like I said earlier, take a deep breath."
Maybe you should re-word your original post. It clearly said that you would not report a (Fab) theft of £50 incase the suspect was wanted for something more serious and ended up in court or in the papers.... I quoted you exactly and took nothing out of context... Trust me I don't need to stop and take a deep breath...
However you clearly need to stop and think before you write a post... |
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i would report by naming and shaming on the forums,if it is someone from fab,reporting to the police i think all the responce you would get asked is anyone injured,no? okay tell your insurance company . |
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