Some people just don't! I've met plenty of men who don't want to go down. 
For women it can all depend on her previous experiences: if a past bf used to push her head down and make (not ask) her go at his pace totally for his pleasure then it may have felt more like an invasion bordering on abuse than a mutually gratifying act.
Communicate. But don't push the subject, especially not if she's had negative experiences. And at the end of the day if she simply doesn't like it you may have to decide if it's a deal-breaker. After all, sex is supposed to be instinctive and pleasurable for all concerned and not a negotiation with the unwilling. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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And from her point of view...
"My new bf is continually pressuring me to give him head when I don't want to. I don't enjoy it but he won't accept that and says he's never met a woman who doesn't like doing it before."
OP you don't have a right to oral just because you enjoy it. It's not something you *need*.
What if she wanted to fuck your arse with a strap-on, or whip you, or keep you in chastity, locked in a cock cage for weeks at a time and expected you to enjoy it because she said she'd never met a man who didn't like it?
The only problems to solve here are that you feel entitled to blow jobs whenever you want them and whether you want to stay with her only if you get your own way.
Trying to pressure or persuade her to do something she doesn't want to do is just wrong. |
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I'm a tad confused!! The op had been on site for over a year and yet had a new girlfriend??
You are not entitled to blow jobs you know!! If your GF doesn't like giving them then respect that!!
What would you do if she was pressuring you to do something that you didn't like or enjoy?? |
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You hot 2 choices really. Either respect her wishes and find new ways to enjoy each other physically or walk away. It does seem a pretty shallow reason to end a relationship but its better than allowing the issue to turn things toxic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a tad confused!! The op had been on site for over a year and yet had a new girlfriend??
You are not entitled to blow jobs you know!! If your GF doesn't like giving them then respect that!!
What would you do if she was pressuring you to do something that you didn't like or enjoy?? "
I was going to say something similar. Do you love her, if so, don't expect to get things she doesn't like. |
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"My new gf will not give head. I've never had a girl not want to do this. How can I solve this problem haha"
Wouldn't bother me. Take your mind off it by perfecting your cunnilingual skills. Every man on here loves licking pussy, apparently. |
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"And from her point of view...
"My new bf is continually pressuring me to give him head when I don't want to. I don't enjoy it but he won't accept that and says he's never met a woman who doesn't like doing it before."
OP you don't have a right to oral just because you enjoy it. It's not something you *need*.
What if she wanted to fuck your arse with a strap-on, or whip you, or keep you in chastity, locked in a cock cage for weeks at a time and expected you to enjoy it because she said she'd never met a man who didn't like it?
The only problems to solve here are that you feel entitled to blow jobs whenever you want them and whether you want to stay with her only if you get your own way.
Trying to pressure or persuade her to do something she doesn't want to do is just wrong."
I agree with this. Also how disrespectful! A new girlfriend and already bleating on internet forums that she isn't satisfactory. |
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"My new gf will not give head. I've never had a girl not want to do this. How can I solve this problem haha
Wouldn't bother me. Take your mind off it by perfecting your cunnilingual skills. Every man on here loves licking pussy, apparently. "
Lol and they're all experts! |
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Do you give her oral ? Does she orgasm when you do!
do you keep yourself clean ? maybe they is a smell issue and she isnt keen to tell you.
Maybe she isnt confident on how to do it or doesnt want you to cum in her mouth.
Do you taste good maybe that is a problem , try drinking pineapple.
she may feel like it will make her gag . Could be lots of reasons .
you both so young maybe she isnt very experienced maybe you dont tell her how good it is as she sucks you. actually remarking how good certain things feel . |
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"My new gf will not give head. I've never had a girl not want to do this. How can I solve this problem haha
Wouldn't bother me. Take your mind off it by perfecting your cunnilingual skills. Every man on here loves licking pussy, apparently.
Lol and they're all experts!"
They can even breathe through their ears while they lick for hours  |
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Alarm bells: new g/f but verification of the couple by cam is Feb!
Maybe it's your diet, maybe it's your hygiene, maybe it's your size, maybe it's your attitude! |
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