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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol love you Hun this should be good haha x"
thats if anyone posts.. guys are probs reading this thinking 'wtf?!.. im not here for this kinda interrigation its a SEX SITE.. '  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose, manners, looks, personality, hygiene, quality of sex, size of the wallet???!!
Never been out with a bloke because of his money I like men who are quirky loving funny and loves sex "
Lol i'd fit the bill then  |
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I think each relationship is individual to that couple so one person might think someone is and someone might think they are. None of my gentleman friends are boyfriend material as far as I'm concerned, all lovely guys but one is an ocd clean freak and a workaholic another would drive me crackers after two days
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose, manners, looks, personality, hygiene, quality of sex, size of the wallet???!!. Money does not buy happiness!!! "
it would if said lady was money driven !
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I'm considerate, generous, funny, loving, do lots of little things to please a partner, shower and change my boxers and socks twice a day(that one really made me chuckle Lickety) I don't make good boyfriend material because I cannot or don't want to commit to all the other things that a good boyfriend should do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, does that mean that if I'm boring, obnoxious, pretentious & change my white yfronts & socks once a week, I'm not gunna get lucky?
*uncorks another Rioja   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?"
If you find two, can I have one please?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?"
Awwwwwe, wake up Licks, it's the weekend!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manners.humour.respect.compatability.reliability..all play a part...guess its a case of each to their own.do see some couples and they are like chalk and cheese.guess its just that "spark" between them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make great boyfriend material, kind, funny, loving, generous, loyal, caring and adores silly.romantic gestures.
However I pick terrible partners and get used and hurt most of the time, cause I'm an idiot who always gets blinded by love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" And he'd understand about the bathroom. "
What? What have you done to the bathroom now? Not the sink plunger again. I don't know how many times I've told you not to touch that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?"
I think most guys are like that which means it click and works well when you're synchronised. The problem is when you get out of step.
You want talk time when he wants quiet time.
The two nights a week you want to spend with him fall on the nights he wants to concentrate on his passion or vice versa.
He wants as much sex as you, but not always at the same time.
Some relationships never quite synchronise, some do immediately, many are synchronised but then need tuning at some point to keep them working right.
'Boyfriend material' recognises and never takes synchronisation for granted, understands the importance of constant fine tuning (compromise), and knows when to carry out a major overhaul when de-synchronisation has sneaked in.
Most importantly boyfriend material knows that if the cogs and gears don't fit early on, then they probably never will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"while I'm a swingy type, a bi-sexual gf would be great, if I'm not I'm probably not a great bf
You just wanna watch 2 women who'll then say 'ooh ooh come and join in' "
haha..I like seeing my partners getting fucked by men too...so shuts yer theory up haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what makes a good boyfriend.. are are you good 'boyfriend material'? or a disaster "
I'm not sure how to answer.... Depends if the lady likes watching me fuck other ladies, if so I'm "potentially" a good boyfriend. If not it means I'm a fucking disaster and stay away lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?
I think most guys are like that which means it click and works well when you're synchronised. The problem is when you get out of step.
You want talk time when he wants quiet time.
The two nights a week you want to spend with him fall on the nights he wants to concentrate on his passion or vice versa.
He wants as much sex as you, but not always at the same time.
Some relationships never quite synchronise, some do immediately, many are synchronised but then need tuning at some point to keep them working right.
'Boyfriend material' recognises and never takes synchronisation for granted, understands the importance of constant fine tuning (compromise), and knows when to carry out a major overhaul when de-synchronisation has sneaked in.
Most importantly boyfriend material knows that if the cogs and gears don't fit early on, then they probably never will. "
Very much agree, a successful relationship is a team effort and only works if both parties are focused on the same goals, and know when to use give and take in order to make the whole thing work - remember, there's no 'I' in team, but there is 'MEAT', so make sure you keep things fun in the bedroom  |
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"while I'm a swingy type, a bi-sexual gf would be great, if I'm not I'm probably not a great bf
You just wanna watch 2 women who'll then say 'ooh ooh come and join in'
haha..I like seeing my partners getting fucked by men too...so shuts yer theory up haha"
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"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?
I think most guys are like that which means it click and works well when you're synchronised. The problem is when you get out of step.
You want talk time when he wants quiet time.
The two nights a week you want to spend with him fall on the nights he wants to concentrate on his passion or vice versa.
He wants as much sex as you, but not always at the same time.
Some relationships never quite synchronise, some do immediately, many are synchronised but then need tuning at some point to keep them working right.
'Boyfriend material' recognises and never takes synchronisation for granted, understands the importance of constant fine tuning (compromise), and knows when to carry out a major overhaul when de-synchronisation has sneaked in.
Most importantly boyfriend material knows that if the cogs and gears don't fit early on, then they probably never will. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a girl can withstand my dark humour, not get in the way of me and my mates and rugby. And can also somehow keep up with my sexual appetite, possibly including swinging etc then... Yeah I suppose I am. But providing its the right girl... think each girl has different things they want in men. And some women are just way too controlling. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?
I think most guys are like that which means it click and works well when you're synchronised. The problem is when you get out of step.
You want talk time when he wants quiet time.
The two nights a week you want to spend with him fall on the nights he wants to concentrate on his passion or vice versa.
He wants as much sex as you, but not always at the same time.
Some relationships never quite synchronise, some do immediately, many are synchronised but then need tuning at some point to keep them working right.
'Boyfriend material' recognises and never takes synchronisation for granted, understands the importance of constant fine tuning (compromise), and knows when to carry out a major overhaul when de-synchronisation has sneaked in.
Most importantly boyfriend material knows that if the cogs and gears don't fit early on, then they probably never will.
Very much agree, a successful relationship is a team effort and only works if both parties are focused on the same goals, and know when to use give and take in order to make the whole thing work - remember, there's no 'I' in team, but there is 'MEAT', so make sure you keep things fun in the bedroom "
I like both of these responses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find human skin is the best material to make a boyfriend from...though if stitching on a machine turn it inside out press, and use superglue on the closing seam for smooth finish...  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I find human skin is the best material to make a boyfriend from...though if stitching on a machine turn it inside out press, and use superglue on the closing seam for smooth finish... "
Don't like them a little rough round the edges then?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose, manners, looks, personality, hygiene, quality of sex, size of the wallet???!!
Never been out with a bloke because of his money I like men who are quirky loving funny and loves sex "
Agree. And its always a bonus when he whips out a good length, but not essential. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A man that makes me laugh, and can still give me butterflies just by looking at me. Who makes my heart burst with pride when I look at his handsome face and when he does random acts of kindness for others.. even after 23 years of being together...oh wait !. I already have that!..lwhat a lucky girl I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A man that makes me laugh, and can still give me butterflies just by looking at me. Who makes my heart burst with pride when I look at his handsome face and when he does random acts of kindness for others.. even after 23 years of being together...oh wait !. I already have that!..lwhat a lucky girl I am "
Yeah I know ...pass the sick bucket...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a girl can withstand my dark humour, not get in the way of me and my mates and rugby. And can also somehow keep up with my sexual appetite, possibly including swinging etc then... Yeah I suppose I am. "
I'd get in between you and your rugby team mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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going from pat experience, i would say:
slim/fit
dresses 'street' (tracksuit bottoms/trainers/cap)
plays the field
lack of respect for women.
i genuinly dont feel this is true, but that seems to be the kind of bloke most women go for, until they have expended all their energies trying to 'fix' them and go for the safe option, when they are older and damaged goods, then they tend to treat the 'nice' blokes quite badly, who in turn start to hate women and turn into the afore mentioned men, which means they attract more women.
its a self perpetuating prophecy that i have witnessed far too often for it to be a coincidence. |
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Attentive, self contained, happy, funny, generous, tactful, pleasing to the eye, tall...familiar with the phrases "yes dear, whatever you say dear" without any hint of sarcasm, great at sex! |
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By *ach3Man
over a year ago
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This is a good one, however having done the marriage thing and a number of long term relationships - I'm a lousy fulltime boyfriend material.
If you just want me for the long weekend, the night or just a few hours - then I might just get away with it lol.
It may be that I've not met the right woman, but having recently come out of a yet another long term relationship, I'm enjoying singledom again  |
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"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?"
Is that really that hard to find?
Washes and changes underwear regularly, is that really that unusual
Needs a high sex drive but needs to be able to give you your own space and be happy to live on his own as well
Needs to happy with continuing to swing
Sounds like most guys surely would be queueing up for this?!
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My perfect boyfriend would love me, challenge me, not smell yukky, be honest, have good teeth, change his socks and pants daily, hold my hand when walking down the street, kiss me gently in public and deeply in private. He would be a good conversationalist but be happy to be silent together. He'd want sex as much as I do and if we are playing with others would know when I need eye contact kept on me.
He would have a passion, even if it bored me and would ask about my passions even if it bored him.
He would be happy for us to maintain our own homes but to be together at least a couple of days a week in either home. And he'd understand about the bathroom.
Anyone fit that bill?
Is that really that hard to find?
Washes and changes underwear regularly, is that really that unusual
Needs a high sex drive but needs to be able to give you your own space and be happy to live on his own as well
Needs to happy with continuing to swing
Sounds like most guys surely would be queueing up for this?!
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They may well be, but at someone else's door. The only queues I have experienced for my attentions have been at clubs to get into the room to join whomever I am with.
The underwear should also say that I prefer men to wear undies with more fabric than holes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I suppose, manners, looks, personality, hygiene, quality of sex, size of the wallet???!!
lol @ size of wallet. Not all women are materialistic.. "
I agree!! I've Never dated anyone because of the size of their wallet! and I sure as hell didn't marry for it Cliché but I've seen people who have it all as far as money is concerned and they are miserable! I happy and have been happily married for 8 years.
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