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over a year ago
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ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty |
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"What exactly is girlfriend material? I see women put their not girlfriend material or that they are. So what does make someone girlfriend material."
It's funny there was a young guy on a dating site I used to chat to occasionally and of course he was always desperate to get laid - but any girl who would sleep with him on the first date was 'not girlfriend material' according to him, as she was liable to not be faithful he felt! Just a tad hypocritical! |
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty"
did they say why not
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"What exactly is girlfriend material? I see women put their not girlfriend material or that they are. So what does make someone girlfriend material.
It's funny there was a young guy on a dating site I used to chat to occasionally and of course he was always desperate to get laid - but any girl who would
sleep with him on the first date was 'not
girlfriend material' according to him, as
she was liable to not be faithful he felt!
Just a tad hypocritical!"
Odd, as if it had been me, I would have chosen a girlfriend who did like multiple partners, hopefully with me joining in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been told I am girlfriend and even wife material a few times which just freaks me out, not sure how or why though so can't answer that question.
Not sure I am though. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty"
If the arrangement makes you unhappy, tell them they aren't convenient fuck material but you're happy to stay friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been told I am girlfriend and even wife material a few times which just freaks me out, not sure how or why though so can't answer that question.
Not sure I am though. "
From guys off here  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"What exactly is girlfriend material? I see women put their not girlfriend material or that they are. So what does make someone girlfriend material.
It's funny there was a young guy on a dating site I used to chat to occasionally and of course he was always desperate to get laid - but any girl who would sleep with him on the first date was 'not girlfriend material' according to him, as she was liable to not be faithful he felt! Just a tad hypocritical!"
Did you ever ask him if he would be faithful once in a relationship? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been told I am girlfriend and even wife material a few times which just freaks me out, not sure how or why though so can't answer that question.
Not sure I am though.
From guys off here "
A couple of men off here, I ran 
The others have been guys I've dated from elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been told I am girlfriend and even wife material a few times which just freaks me out, not sure how or why though so can't answer that question.
Not sure I am though.
From guys off here
A couple of men off here, I ran
The others have been guys I've dated from elsewhere. "
So what is the male equivalent of the bunny boiler ? |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I know I am not girlfriend material for many reasons.
I don't do "yes dear" to men. I am confident and speak my mind. That tends to scare men. I am generally child free once a month so am not free to go out when I want. My kids will be home with me for many years to come yet.
I live in a small cluttered house. I work 25 hours a week and don't bring home a large wage. My ex dumped me with a shed load of debt so not financially a good bet for anyone. I don't really go anywhere to meet people other than fab meets once a month.
All of that and I don't give my heart easily. I have loved two men with every part of me and they didn't work.
I am pretty confident I will be single by the time I am 50 (8 years time). |
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"I know I am not girlfriend material for many reasons.
I don't do "yes dear" to men. I am confident and speak my mind. That tends to scare men. I am generally child free once a month so am not free to go out when I want. My kids will be home with me for many years to come yet.
I live in a small cluttered house. I work 25 hours a week and don't bring home a large wage. My ex dumped me with a shed load of debt so not financially a good bet for anyone. I don't really go anywhere to meet people other than fab meets once a month.
All of that and I don't give my heart easily. I have loved two men with every part of me and they didn't work.
I am pretty confident I will be single by the time I am 50 (8 years time)."
you think relationships are based on saying "yes dear"? |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
No diamond I don't.
Relationships are based on many things but I have met very few who can't cope their partner will not agree just to keep the man happy. I will also not have another relationship where I have to make all the decisions because he hasn't the backbone to speak up. |
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"No diamond I don't.
Relationships are based on many things but I have met very few who can't cope their partner will not agree just to keep the man happy. I will also not have another relationship where I have to make all the decisions because he hasn't the backbone to speak up. "
there's a !of of relationships where the couples are equal
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I am not girlfriend material for many reasons.
I don't do "yes dear" to men. I am confident and speak my mind. That tends to scare men. I am generally child free once a month so am not free to go out when I want. My kids will be home with me for many years to come yet.
I live in a small cluttered house. I work 25 hours a week and don't bring home a large wage. My ex dumped me with a shed load of debt so not financially a good bet for anyone. I don't really go anywhere to meet people other than fab meets once a month.
All of that and I don't give my heart easily. I have loved two men with every part of me and they didn't work.
I am pretty confident I will be single by the time I am 50 (8 years time)."
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Your post has made me feel a bit sad for you Fruit.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No diamond I don't.
Relationships are based on many things but I have met very few who can't cope their partner will not agree just to keep the man happy. I will also not have another relationship where I have to make all the decisions because he hasn't the backbone to speak up. there's a !of of relationships where the couples are equal
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This! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A relationship based on equals ....yes please. Just not many men who are on a level with me x"
I would agree with my wife, but then we'd both be wrong !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I am not girlfriend material for many reasons.
I don't do "yes dear" to men. I am confident and speak my mind. That tends to scare men. I am generally child free once a month so am not free to go out when I want. My kids will be home with me for many years to come yet.
I live in a small cluttered house. I work 25 hours a week and don't bring home a large wage. My ex dumped me with a shed load of debt so not financially a good bet for anyone. I don't really go anywhere to meet people other than fab meets once a month.
All of that and I don't give my heart easily. I have loved two men with every part of me and they didn't work.
I am pretty confident I will be single by the time I am 50 (8 years time)."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am told I am girlfriend/wife material............... for someone else. Someone else equates to no one. It's fine as I'm not really happy with other people using my bathroom.
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Hi wifey no.2! |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
Apologies if my comments seem sad.
My life is such that I am not good girlfriend material for those reasons.
Its not the life I chose but none of it realistically I can change.
My kids are not going to suddenly see their dad more or much else change.
I accepted my life as it is now. I don't like it but its life. I have a home family laughter and occasionally good sex. If love doesn't come around again then so be it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies if my comments seem sad.
My life is such that I am not good girlfriend material for those reasons.
Its not the life I chose but none of it realistically I can change.
My kids are not going to suddenly see their dad more or much else change.
I accepted my life as it is now. I don't like it but its life. I have a home family laughter and occasionally good sex. If love doesn't come around again then so be it x"
Please don't apologise. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey Fruit
I'm just coming out of some pretty dark days myself. I printed this off last week to keep reading. I actually first saw it after someone posted it on forums ages ago. Maybe it will resonate with you too 
If you think you are beaten, you are;
If you think you dare not, you don't.
If you'd like to win, but think you can't
It's almost a cinch you won't.
If you think you'll lose, you've lost,
For out in the world we find
Success being with a fellow's will;
It's all in the state of mind.
If you think you're outclassed, you are:
You've got to think high to rise.
You've got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize.
Life's battles don't always go
To the stronger or faster man,
But soon or late the man who wins
Is the one who thinks he can.
Walter D. Wintle
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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naturally id love to be someones girlfriend and someone special.. but like _ruit.. my circumstances arent ideal (chld, time, logistics, finances)
nothing beats being loved and to love someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it's my hairy bollocks that prevents me from being girlfriend material.
Still, it could be worse.
In truth, aren't we all looking for that "certain someone"? |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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2in thats lovely.
I accept what I cannot change and make the most of my free time when I have it.
I know I deserve someone amazing to love me and love back but as yet that person hasn't popped up.
One day someone amazing will turn up and see all of my situations as mere slight hurdles to step over or get around.
I deserve love. If it finds me great but being on fab means all my hurdles are only relevant to me and don't effect anyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty
If the arrangement makes you unhappy, tell them they aren't convenient fuck material but you're happy to stay friends. "
. Apparently one recently said he wasn't ready for a relationship! Then I found out in the local he had a new gf needless to say I'm devastated well was more angry and hurt now after a year of us 'being friends' me listening to him when things were bad, playing etc, doing mates stuff I'm not good enough. He's the only guy to get past my wall since my ex hubby. No one will ever again trust is a huge thing to me so now I'm in the mind no man can be trusted. |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty
If the arrangement makes you unhappy, tell them they aren't convenient fuck material but you're happy to stay friends. . Apparently one recently said he wasn't ready for a relationship! Then I found out in the local he had a new gf needless to say I'm devastated well was more angry and hurt now after a year of us 'being friends' me listening to him when things were bad, playing etc, doing mates stuff I'm not good enough. He's the only guy to get past my wall since my ex hubby. No one will ever again trust is a huge thing to me so now I'm in the mind no man can be trusted. "
they are not all pigs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty"
Sad. I know how this feels. Sympathy and hugs xx |
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty"
Couldnt agree more. Been told this myself and doesn't do much for your self confidence. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty
If the arrangement makes you unhappy, tell them they aren't convenient fuck material but you're happy to stay friends. . Apparently one recently said he wasn't ready for a relationship! Then I found out in the local he had a new gf needless to say I'm devastated well was more angry and hurt now after a year of us 'being friends' me listening to him when things were bad, playing etc, doing mates stuff I'm not good enough. He's the only guy to get past my wall since my ex hubby. No one will ever again trust is a huge thing to me so now I'm in the mind no man can be trusted. "
I have thought like that in the past. Then I came to realise that he wasn't ready for a relationship WITH ME. I did get him ready for a relationship with the person he met next and nearly 20 years on they are still together.
I really do think that people can be honest when they make that declaration that they aren't ready for a relationship but lives, feelings, minds change and can change rapidly when your soul finds what it has secretly been seeking.
That's why I don't get upset when I meet men who say "if I were looking for a relationship it would be with someone like you" who then spend time with me and fall in love with someone else. I chose to carry on seeing them after they said they didn't want a relationship. |
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"What exactly is girlfriend material? I see women put their not girlfriend material or that they are. So what does make someone girlfriend material.
It's funny there was a young guy on a dating site I used to chat to occasionally and of course he was always desperate to get laid - but any girl who would sleep with him on the first date was 'not girlfriend material' according to him, as she was liable to not be faithful he felt! Just a tad hypocritical!
Did you ever ask him if he would be faithful once in a relationship? "
No, but I gather he would, he wanted that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty
If the arrangement makes you unhappy, tell them they aren't convenient fuck material but you're happy to stay friends. . Apparently one recently said he wasn't ready for a relationship! Then I found out in the local he had a new gf needless to say I'm devastated well was more angry and hurt now after a year of us 'being friends' me listening to him when things were bad, playing etc, doing mates stuff I'm not good enough. He's the only guy to get past my wall since my ex hubby. No one will ever again trust is a huge thing to me so now I'm in the mind no man can be trusted.
I have thought like that in the past. Then I came to realise that he wasn't ready for a relationship WITH ME. I did get him ready for a relationship with the person he met next and nearly 20 years on they are still together.
I really do think that people can be honest when they make that declaration that they aren't ready for a relationship but lives, feelings, minds change and can change rapidly when your soul finds what it has secretly been seeking.
That's why I don't get upset when I meet men who say "if I were looking for a relationship it would be with someone like you" who then spend time with me and fall in love with someone else. I chose to carry on seeing them after they said they didn't want a relationship."
. I think your right but they should be honest about it to me and them selfs. Clearly he hasn't found the right one for him as he is still here playing when she is vanilla. If the person had been entirely honest and given me the facts then I could have made an informed choice not lost my temper and ultimately someone in my life I cared deeply about. I could have made the choice if I wanted to be treated or let myself be treated that way. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I really do think that people can be honest when they make that declaration that they aren't ready for a relationship but lives, feelings, minds change and can change rapidly when your soul finds what it has secretly been seeking.
That's why I don't get upset when I meet men who say "if I were looking for a relationship it would be with someone like you" who then spend time with me and fall in love with someone else. I chose to carry on seeing them after they said they didn't want a relationship.. I think your right but they should be honest about it to me and them selfs. Clearly he hasn't found the right one for him as he is still here playing when she is vanilla. If the person had been entirely honest and given me the facts then I could have made an informed choice not lost my temper and ultimately someone in my life I cared deeply about. I could have made the choice if I wanted to be treated or let myself be treated that way. "
There is also the honest declaration that then changes and as it becomes more of a lie it gets harder to back away from that lie. I have met more than one man that operates on "don't rock the boat" and merrily carries on doing whatever they want to do. |
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I have to say that sometimes we have to address our own issues as sometimes the issues can show and men see that and do a runner....sometimes it's not the men but ourselves that are putting men off.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What exactly is girlfriend material? I see women put their not girlfriend material or that they are. So what does make someone girlfriend material.
It's funny there was a young guy on a dating site I used to chat to occasionally and of course he was always desperate to get laid - but any girl who would
sleep with him on the first date was 'not
girlfriend material' according to him, as
she was liable to not be faithful he felt!
Just a tad hypocritical!
Odd, as if it had been me, I would have chosen a girlfriend who did like multiple partners, hopefully with me joining in "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say that sometimes we have to address our own issues as sometimes the issues can show and men see that and do a runner....sometimes it's not the men but ourselves that are putting men off...."
. Is that what I'm doing??? I have issues everyone in life does how brilliant would the world be if we didn't.
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"I have to say that sometimes we have to address our own issues as sometimes the issues can show and men see that and do a runner....sometimes it's not the men but ourselves that are putting men off..... Is that what I'm doing??? I have issues everyone in life does how brilliant would the world be if we didn't. "
Did I say you.?? I meant in general I've had issues in the past and it's put men off... |
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"I have to say that sometimes we have to address our own issues as sometimes the issues can show and men see that and do a runner....sometimes it's not the men but ourselves that are putting men off..... Is that what I'm doing??? I have issues everyone in life does how brilliant would the world be if we didn't.
Did I say you.?? I meant in general I've had issues in the past and it's put men off..."
. Noooo chill was just asking really, women seem to know women better and pick vibes up that's all. Thought u might have telepathically picked something up from me hahaha |
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"I have to say that sometimes we have to address our own issues as sometimes the issues can show and men see that and do a runner....sometimes it's not the men but ourselves that are putting men off..... Is that what I'm doing??? I have issues everyone in life does how brilliant would the world be if we didn't.
Did I say you.?? I meant in general I've had issues in the past and it's put men off.... Noooo chill was just asking really, women seem to know women better and pick vibes up that's all. Thought u might have telepathically picked something up from me hahaha"
I just think behaviour of some how they come across plays a big part in whether a man wants to start something up with that person sub consciously we let out vibes that men pick,up.... |
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"I have to say that sometimes we have to address our own issues as sometimes the issues can show and men see that and do a runner....sometimes it's not the men but ourselves that are putting men off..... Is that what I'm doing??? I have issues everyone in life does how brilliant would the world be if we didn't.
Did I say you.?? I meant in general I've had issues in the past and it's put men off.... Noooo chill was just asking really, women seem to know women better and pick vibes up that's all. Thought u might have telepathically picked something up from me hahaha
I just think behaviour of some how they come across plays a big part in whether a man wants to start something up with that person sub consciously we let out vibes that men pick,up...."
. My vibe with my recent experience was clearly mug me off so I send u lots of parcels while ur over seas and let u cry on my shoulder when ur having a tough time etc lol. But your comments have been noted Hun x |
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"ive been told im not by a couple of fellas, they seem happy to be my mate and call on me when needed and also fuck me but then thats it. doesnt do alot for the self esteem in honesty"
But that's NSA swinging for you! |
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"I have to say that sometimes we have to address our own issues as sometimes the issues can show and men see that and do a runner....sometimes it's not the men but ourselves that are putting men off..... Is that what I'm doing??? I have issues everyone in life does how brilliant would the world be if we didn't.
Did I say you.?? I meant in general I've had issues in the past and it's put men off.... Noooo chill was just asking really, women seem to know women better and pick vibes up that's all. Thought u might have telepathically picked something up from me hahaha
I just think behaviour of some how they come across plays a big part in whether a man wants to start something up with that person sub consciously we let out vibes that men pick,up..... My vibe with my recent experience was clearly mug me off so I send u lots of parcels while ur over seas and let u cry on my shoulder when ur having a tough time etc lol. But your comments have been noted Hun x"
People prey on people's weakness and feed on that not saying you were weak or are weak but sometimes people can sense people's weakness and use it to their advantage.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In some cases 'yay' but in other cases 'nay' ........ but the tables are easily turned for blokes also!!
"We're all in it together" - as a few bastard Etonites once put it!! |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I think everyone has issues in some form.
Some lie about being married. Some about their age or sensuality. Others their body size and cock size. Some many things people are shady about. That comes from self confidence issues.
I lucky. I can be honest about me and what I am looking for. If a man can't handle me and my life as it is then carry on walking.
The inner person dislikes my situation but its the way it is. I get by. I manage to have fun.
But all in all I know I am pretty damn good person. If I never meet a man that realises that then fair enough x |
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I don't want to be girlfriend material either, I am not here hoping to find "the one", and the guys I meet are purely for fun on equal terms, I do like repeat meets with guys I get on well with and click with but I am not looking on them as long term partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'm not girlfriend material, I cant do relationships, I cant give people what they want, im to selfish and i'm better on my own cause I always end up there anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not girlfriend material because of how I am... I'm not selfish, I'm caring but I'm a mother and I can never have anyone in my life in s proper way... |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I met a lovely TG couple in Pink Punters last night. Neither of them were what you would possibly consider to be GF material, but together they were awesome for each other. I think a lot depends on your own personality  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Well for one some who like you for you. Does not make you jump hopes all the time."
You know, what I assumed might be a typo above it quite right: jumping hopes really kills a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a lid for every pot....
But.... Some pots don't Need a lid.
And this isnt the lid shop....
I sometimes use a plate.
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Some people are milk pans , no lid required |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well for one some who like you for you. Does not make you jump hopes all the time.
You know, what I assumed might be a typo above it quite right: jumping hopes really kills a relationship."
Too right it does. and yes hoops not hopes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had an actual BF/GF relationship before - so no idea if I am or not, doubt it though 
I think you've got the hang of it.
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'This' isn't gf/bf though - it's just mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never had an actual BF/GF relationship before - so no idea if I am or not, doubt it though
I think you've got the hang of it.
'This' isn't gf/bf though - it's just mates"
reading half your posts (or infact most of them) it certainly comes across your very fond of him.. |
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"Never had an actual BF/GF relationship before - so no idea if I am or not, doubt it though
I think you've got the hang of it.
'This' isn't gf/bf though - it's just mates
reading half your posts (or infact most of them) it certainly comes across your very fond of him.. "
Oh let them be whatever it is...is up to them to be honest |
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"Never had an actual BF/GF relationship before - so no idea if I am or not, doubt it though
I think you've got the hang of it.
'This' isn't gf/bf though - it's just mates
reading half your posts (or infact most of them) it certainly comes across your very fond of him.. "
Course I am - be a bit boring when we see each other if either of us wasn't! |
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"Never had an actual BF/GF relationship before - so no idea if I am or not, doubt it though
I think you've got the hang of it.
'This' isn't gf/bf though - it's just mates
reading half your posts (or infact most of them) it certainly comes across your very fond of him.. "
nope to me it comes across as two people that have got it about right for good friends with great sex... I know exactly how they feel.. Lee and I have the same problem that people assume we are a proper couple..
OF course we are fond of one another.. and respect one other... but you can be JUST friends and still care.. I love one of my friends to bits.. but would not fuck him |
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"I am told I am girlfriend/wife material............... for someone else. Someone else equates to no one. It's fine as I'm not really happy with other people using my bathroom.
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This.
Sharing my bathroom with a boy would be nothing but disaster. 26 years single too so obviously I'm not the type they fall in love with! |
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"I am told I am girlfriend/wife material............... for someone else. Someone else equates to no one. It's fine as I'm not really happy with other people using my bathroom.
This.
Sharing my bathroom with a boy would be nothing but disaster. 26 years single too so obviously I'm not the type they fall in love with! "
I'm glad someone else understands about the bathroom.
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"I am told I am girlfriend/wife material............... for someone else. Someone else equates to no one. It's fine as I'm not really happy with other people using my bathroom.
This.
Sharing my bathroom with a boy would be nothing but disaster. 26 years single too so obviously I'm not the type they fall in love with!
I'm glad someone else understands about the bathroom.
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Completely. I'm not awfully keen on the thought of bed sharing either. |
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"No strings..just trips to the pub and sex
No not forget dinner out and the odd trip to the pics this ones a simple girl the above is fine "
okay that be fine with me cost less anyway  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
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Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I am told I am girlfriend/wife material............... for someone else. Someone else equates to no one. It's fine as I'm not really happy with other people using my bathroom.
This.
Sharing my bathroom with a boy would be nothing but disaster. 26 years single too so obviously I'm not the type they fall in love with!
I'm glad someone else understands about the bathroom.
Completely. I'm not awfully keen on the thought of bed sharing either. "
Neither am I. The occasional sleepover, preferably not in my bed though. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
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"I love in fact adore cooking and there is nothing more that I love cooking a romantic meal for someone..... "
Next time I am wooing can I get you to cook the romantic meal? I'll make it worth your while but I will need to be able to pass it off as my own work so make a few mistakes please. |
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"I love in fact adore cooking and there is nothing more that I love cooking a romantic meal for someone.....
Next time I am wooing can I get you to cook the romantic meal? I'll make it worth your while but I will need to be able to pass it off as my own work so make a few mistakes please."
Of course anything for a friend |
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