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Something from the playground...

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There's this girl.....yes it's one of those questions.

I had a crush on her for years when we were 18-21 and asked her out but she refused point blank. Oh well.

Now I haven't seen her since until she popped upon FB recently and started thinking about her all the time. It's odd because my last break up is still quite fresh so don't want to jump in but nervous about even suggesting saying hello.

We exchange message occasionally but it's always me initiating it.

Just needed to air it as I would like to see her again, not necessarily to ask her out....

Suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell her how you feel, all she can say is no, but what if she says yes????

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By *ionaScarletTV/TS over a year ago

Dundee

I can totally relate - an old flame of mine got in touch through FB recently and she's kinda put me into a tailspin.

I dunno what suggestions I can offer though - I'm kinda rubbish when it comes to girls lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's far too soon to get involved again i think, but would mind some female company. And not just to get leg over with.

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By *ionaScarletTV/TS over a year ago

Dundee

Is there any kind of like.. neutral situation - parties or suchlike - mutual friends where you can kinda get back into her orbit without there being any pressure?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why don't you just message her; "Fancy a fuck?"

....... works every time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That thought crossed my mind as a laugh, but she might not see it that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why don't you just message her; "Fancy a fuck?"

....... works every time!

Just sent that - we'll see what happens.

Joking....

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