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How many of us are really unloved?
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What is the reason why we have turned to a swingers site. In my case it's quite pathetic really after many years in an unloving relationship I have found that I can meet like minded people that want to have a little fun and cuddle up without all that guilty nonsense you have to put up with from someone you may meet on a night out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm when I first came on fab as a couple profile it was to have fun with my bf ( nw is my ex)
we were going to meet only together but then he never wanted to so I meet alone and so did he, I did spend a lot of nights alone but I didn't always make sure I was with someone but it did happen that way sometimes then I met my new bf, fwb at the time and got feelings for him which were returned and now I am here to try and find a woman but I am not and never will be in a unloving relationship :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the more upfront nature of here
As i don't go clubbing etc where else would one meet without the ....
okay i know you get the .... to but it's more interestin |
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We are both madly in love together and are usually clinging together like a couple of limpets. We just enjoy sharing a bit of that passion with a sexy lady as it turns us on immensely... That's it really. No sadness, no need, no guilt. Just a horny couple in love who enjoy sharing the experience. ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love sex and the social side but I'm not very successful at relationships and I struggle with being faithful & trusting people, so this place suits me and I've actually made some real friends.
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I didn't realise sex could be good until I divorced. Sexually the things that happened in my marriage weren't good and I haven't told anyone about some of it.
So I found this lifestyle and realised it was good. You could be honest with what you like and how you like it. I can be intimate woth ladies which feels so good.
As for relationships. I don't trust easily and don't give my heart away easily. I am not good girlfriend material as only am child free once a month and also I scare men away. Am not a yes dear person.
Swinging works for me. Yes it means I don't get the love from a man I want but at least I don't live with lies. Fab works for me x |
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Started as a couple to explore our boundaries ... Loved it... Split up and came back as a single because I had a lot of good friends on here
Now I know I don't ever want another relationship so it suits me perfectly , and I love the social side of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont consider it a case of being "unloved".
I started swinging quite a few years ago and found it a cleaner, safer option for the single lady to still have a good sexlife.
I only went to chams then and felt safer there than the "d*unken fumbles" my mates seemed to enjoy after a night out.
We all have "needs" and mine were met nicely.........met a lot of nice people in the process too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont consider it a case of being "unloved".
I started swinging quite a few years ago and found it a cleaner, safer option for the single lady to still have a good sexlife.
I only went to chams then and felt safer there than the "d*unken fumbles" my mates seemed to enjoy after a night out.
We all have "needs" and mine were met nicely.........met a lot of nice people in the process too "
I agree and forgot to put that... I don't feel unloved at all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont consider it a case of being "unloved".
I started swinging quite a few years ago and found it a cleaner, safer option for the single lady to still have a good sexlife.
I only went to chams then and felt safer there than the "d*unken fumbles" my mates seemed to enjoy after a night out.
We all have "needs" and mine were met nicely.........met a lot of nice people in the process too "
This ^^^^ apart from the chams bit |
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By *ansa87Couple
over a year ago
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This is a great question.
If I'm honest I'm here because after 6 year relationship he dumped me on my birthday for a girl he was sleeping with , I pondered to myself what would ideally suit me now.
There was so many things I've never done. Since I raised my child alone I became a workaholic mumaholic with no fun or excitement in my life.
So glass of wine in hand I googled and came across this site .
It was them reading verifications I realised that I too could have the passionate embraces I've read so many times about.
And now here I am a month on loving my time alone and my time with the people I chat too and finally getting the sexual passion I've always wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many say the love me off fab (but, i can't really fuck them - it's a bit awkward that).
..I love to kiss, i love to tease, so i'm here aiming to please.
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I've got all the love I need off my son, just here to make friends, have regular play mates and so far succeeded, although wasn't expecting anything at all from the site. Its the best thing I did joining this site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im loved and happy in all ways except sexually... i guess im here to discover me...and the pleasures I feel I've missed out on throughout my life by being a 'good boy'.
I enjoy the forums, discussions and social side...and sometimes focus more on that than the sex! |
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"Im loved and happy in all ways except sexually... i guess im here to discover me...and the pleasures I feel I've missed out on throughout my life by being a 'good boy'.
I enjoy the forums, discussions and social side...and sometimes focus more on that than the sex!"
Same. |
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I wouldn't say I was unloved.
I like the variety in here and the fact I can be myself, either as a forumite, exchanging messages or the occasional meet, social or fun.
I work long and unsociable shifts so being in Fab gives me a great way to unwind |
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I joined here 5 years ago because i did not want love....id split up from my ex hubby and a relationship was the last thing on my mind....however time has evolved and Im looking for more...so not using fab for its true purpose but to socialise and keep up with the forums...however i don't feel unloved as Im sure there are a few that care about me....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im loved and happy in all ways except sexually... i guess im here to discover me...and the pleasures I feel I've missed out on throughout my life by being a 'good boy'.
I enjoy the forums, discussions and social side...and sometimes focus more on that than the sex!"
Ditto except I'm a Girl |
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Thanks for your honesty guys and gals it's enlightening to hear what you all have to say. I'm somewhat surprised at how honest you have all been. Thank you.
My next question
Is about resentment. Xxxx |
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