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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Is there anyone on the forum you'd like to fancy, because you like their persona and their posts, and you think you'd really enjoy a meet with them if you found them physically attractive, which you don't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tricky one! Curious to see the replies!!
But I've had social meets with people I don't want to get jiggy with and had great fun - it's not always a requirement to want to see them naked!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone on the forum you'd like to fancy, because you like their persona and their posts, and you think you'd really enjoy a meet with them if you found them physically attractive, which you don't?"
So the question is who you think you SHOULD fancy, but you don't? |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Is there anyone on the forum you'd like to fancy, because you like their persona and their posts, and you think you'd really enjoy a meet with them if you found them physically attractive, which you don't?
So the question is who you think you SHOULD fancy, but you don't?"
Not quite. Is there anyone you'd like to fancy. Although you find their personality and posts appealing, you don't find them physically attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im not quite sure what the question is (im just slow lol)
But yeah there are people who i think id like in reality as friends but would want to sleep with them.
mainly because they are female and im straight lol |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Isn't that like saying I would love to meet ......... But they are a proper minger  "
Yes, you think you'd have a great meet but you don't find them physically attractive.
Or rather, you find them physically unattractive. |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"To be fair id not name or shame anyone as i would hate to knock anyone's confidence because just because i don't fancy them someone might..."
I'm not asking who, just if there is anyone you feel that way about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one on here but one guy I dated was great... Really liked everything about him.. But there was no spark.. No chemistry..
We are good mates now but he'd love more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ruby, Evie, Blackspice, Mr Mahogany, Fabio, Crystal Wheels, Miss Hottie, Ryan, Obi...I'm feeling the love people!  "
so u think they are all unattractive? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone on the forum you'd like to fancy, because you like their persona and their posts, and you think you'd really enjoy a meet with them if you found them physically attractive, which you don't?
So the question is who you think you SHOULD fancy, but you don't?
Not quite. Is there anyone you'd like to fancy. Although you find their personality and posts appealing, you don't find them physically attractive."
Ah I see.
Its a difficult question to answer, because the things that make people sexually attractive aren't always obvious. I'm not gonna be one of these people who say 'personality everytime' because not everyone who's personality I like I'm sexually attracted to, but having said that, a meet I had with a girl YEARS ago I still think back to, she really wasn't much to look at, but there was just something about her strong personality and feistiness that was incredibly erotic, my cock was tingling throughout our meet, her kisses and oral technique were both 5 stars and I was just amazed by the whole experience. |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
hertfordshire |
"Ruby, Evie, Blackspice, Mr Mahogany, Fabio, Crystal Wheels, Miss Hottie, Ryan, Obi...I'm feeling the love people!
so u think they are all unattractive? lol"
which ruby? I am not alone on here lol |
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"I've obviously not been clear with the question.
Sod it! I know what I mean  "
I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find this subject ironic as there are many I would have been initiallly attracted to in the past that I now find I don't fancy and vice versa. I am now have a very different perspective on who I get turned on by. |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've obviously not been clear with the question.
Sod it! I know what I mean
I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x "
Thank gawd for that.
I'm clearly having a dodgy communication skills day. |
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"I've obviously not been clear with the question.
Sod it! I know what I mean
I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x
Thank gawd for that.
I'm clearly having a dodgy communication skills day."
Ha!! I've known blokes like that in real life though, we get on so well and they are lovely, kind, funny blah blah soukd make great boyfriend material but I just didn't fancy them at all  |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've obviously not been clear with the question.
Sod it! I know what I mean
I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x
Thank gawd for that.
I'm clearly having a dodgy communication skills day.
Ha!! I've known blokes like that in real life though, we get on so well and they are lovely, kind, funny blah blah soukd make great boyfriend material but I just didn't fancy them at all "
Yeah, I can identify with that too. One has now married someone else and I've lost him as a friend totally as she's not happy with him having single female friends, even though I could have got together with him before he even met her. |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Oh, my answer since I haven't given it is yes, there are a few.
Sometimes I read a person's posts and they are clearly really intelligent, which is a huuuuge turn on for me, but I look at the profile and either they aren't into something about me, or I don't find them physically appealing.
It can be very disappointing sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but their are a few people I fancied till I read their posts  "
Ahhh fuck
I can't answer this question, those I fancy are a combination of their posts and how they look.
I don't want to name anyone as I don't want them to think I'm calling them ugly  |
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"think this thread could upset a few lol
I'm not asking for names.
Damn! And I was gonna say Ryan!
Was that before or after you wrung ya apple catchers out? "
remember what I said to you the other day
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"No but their are a few people I fancied till I read their posts
Ahhh fuck
I can't answer this question, those I fancy are a combination of their posts and how they look.
I don't want to name anyone as I don't want them to think I'm calling them ugly "
Again, I'm not asking for names. Just yes or no and relevant comments. |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums "
That could make for some intense shagging though.
You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently. |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Conversely, how many people on here don't you like, yet find strangely attractive?"
Nobody. If I don't like their persona and/or posts, I don't find them attractive.
Some that I don't much like I can see are good looking or have a nice body but I don't find them attractive personally. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums
That could make for some intense shagging though.
You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently."
We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums
That could make for some intense shagging though.
You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.
We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts "
You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened? |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"think this thread could upset a few lol
I'm not asking for names.
Damn! And I was gonna say Ryan!
Was that before or after you wrung ya apple catchers out? remember what I said to you the other day
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Did you tell me off? I remember some impolite names lol |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums
That could make for some intense shagging though.
You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.
We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts
You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?"
Unspoken truce |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums
That could make for some intense shagging though.
You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.
We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts
You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?
Unspoken truce "
Message them. Say you know and accept you have differences of opinion but you find them attractive. They may not be interested but what do you have to lose? |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Pops in to see how many time she has come up. Is shocked and upset beyond words that my notoriety hasn't got me named yet, so pops back out to infest another thread  "
Yep TinaTitz cause she's just friggin lurffffffly
Get your boobs back in here chick |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums
That could make for some intense shagging though.
You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.
We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts
You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?
Unspoken truce
Message them. Say you know and accept you have differences of opinion but you find them attractive. They may not be interested but what do you have to lose?"
Cause we can't pm |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums
That could make for some intense shagging though.
You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.
We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts
You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?
Unspoken truce
Message them. Say you know and accept you have differences of opinion but you find them attractive. They may not be interested but what do you have to lose?
Cause we can't pm "
Ah, that makes it tricky |
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There are a number of people on here I'm sure I could get on with as a mate but wouldn't want it to go any further. Similarly there are plenty I fancy the pants off but am pretty sure I haven't got a chance with. And thirdly there are people I have found physically very attractive but their posts have really put me off.
Think that's all bases covered! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone on the forum you'd like to fancy, because you like their persona and their posts, and you think you'd really enjoy a meet with them if you found them physically attractive, which you don't?"
Most definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opposite for me. I though I fancied someone on here but after meeting them at a social realised I didn't."
This ...liked the look of people and quite fancied them but in person thought they were pricks. |
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I'd like to meet quite a few people who post on the forum. There'd be a few others that I don't want to meet. There are fewer I'd like to have sex with. I think I might have misinterpreted the question |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Yeah, I think you might but don't worry because so did a lot of other people, so the question isn't clear enough.
Put it like this...
You're on the forum and you notice someone you've not noticed before. Some of their posts really interest you, for whatever reason, maybe you like their sense of humour, or their sharp wit or their excellent grasp of textspeak. You like how they come across and it occurs to you that you might get on well if you met.
You look at their profile and their photos and are disappointed to discover that you find them physically unattractive. A social meet might be on the cards at some point but you won't be trading witty banter or textspeak in bed.
You wish you found them attractive because you're sure with the "connection" you feel, the sex would be great.
The question is has that happened to you and are there people you feel that way about? (I'm not asking for names!) |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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There are forum people I find physically attractive but they say things in posts that put me off.
There are forum people I don't find physically attractive but love their posts.
There are forum people I didn't fancy until I met them.
I haven't really had a play meet with any forum people. I simply don't know how to convert the banter into the request as I wouldn't like to spoil what I enjoy on the forum.
* please note: physically attractive is based only on the photos I have seen. In person that attraction could go either way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are forum people I find physically attractive but they say things in posts that put me off.
There are forum people I don't find physically attractive but love their posts.
There are forum people I didn't fancy until I met them.
I haven't really had a play meet with any forum people. I simply don't know how to convert the banter into the request as I wouldn't like to spoil what I enjoy on the forum.
* please note: physically attractive is based only on the photos I have seen. In person that attraction could go either way.
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How true is that!!??
...i can never convert anything either. Just can't do it - just hope with my fingers and legs crossed that they know i'm attracted to them. But, i won't say it lol.
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