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By *ddiddy OP Man
over a year ago
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now heres a question do you (swingers) like being called swingers i think its a horrible name i wonder what you out there think maybe "liberals" nah more like a political party so any good names we could be called instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To add a whole idealistic quality to the debate how about "children of eden"?
Sounds a bit too hippy-like perhaps, but a nosy at the bible suggests that Adam and Eve had no inhibitions till the dozy pair decided apple-scoffing was the way forward. Keeps the doctor away my arse... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a taboo. Years ago gays lesbians or bi's were in the closet now its our turn I prefer to call myself a try sexual and live in the moment and enjoy every experience that I have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" To add a whole idealistic quality to the debate how about "children of eden"?
Sounds a bit too hippy-like perhaps, but a nosy at the bible suggests that Adam and Eve had no inhibitions till the dozy pair decided apple-scoffing was the way forward. Keeps the doctor away my arse... "
There are SO many reasons to NOT be called children .... of ANYTHING..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its just a name. Its non offensive and people know what the terminology means so I see no problem with it. You could re-brand like they did with snickers bars and ciff but it is rarely an improvement.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never really had to use the word "swingers", I have said "swing partner" a few times and made myself giggle as I really can't see myself as a swing dancer 
The word "swinger" doesn't really sound fun though so I agree, something a little nicer wouldn't go amiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont need a label im me and what i do in regards to sexual preferences is up to me if someone feels the need to catagorise or label thats up to them xx |
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How about normal?
We have fun together, don't see other people behind each others backs, don't cheat and are open with each other.
Strange world that has all the liars, cheaters, and generally dishonest people labelled as "normal" eh! |
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"How about normal?
We have fun together, don't see other people behind each others backs, don't cheat and are open with each other.
Strange world that has all the liars, cheaters, and generally dishonest people labelled as "normal" eh!"
What on earth has that got to do with the thread subject? |
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"What on earth has that got to do with the thread subject?"
The OP said "so any good names we could be called instead"
Hence we suggest normal. Ok, our last paragraph was slightly off-topic however we think we were still within the thread. Please explain where we went wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about normal?
We have fun together, don't see other people behind each others backs, don't cheat and are open with each other.
Strange world that has all the liars, cheaters, and generally dishonest people labelled as "normal" eh!"
Can see where you are coming from here, to you the life style should have a special word as it is a natural way of being? We would subscribe to this, however, as us "swingers" are still statistically in the minority we do not qualify for the term "normal".
How about the term "hedonists" instead of swingers as it implies more than sexy fun... it relates to a real sense of fun and enjoyment...?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that funlovers sounds great - better than swingers! Z
It does but other fun lovers might complain  "
They wouldn't be quite so fun loving then though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there never been a thread that hasnt drifted so i wouldnt worry about it!!
we label things to identify them and one persons idea of normal compared to anothers is totally different and i think your point was fair xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are swingers .called swingers end of story . would u call a dog a cat???? "
No, we are people, would you call a dog a person?.
I'm not so keen on the term 'swinger' to be honest, but not too bothered by it.
I prefer to say 'we swing' rather than 'we are swingers'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about normal?
We have fun together, don't see other people behind each others backs, don't cheat and are open with each other.
Strange world that has all the liars, cheaters, and generally dishonest people labelled as "normal" eh!
What on earth has that got to do with the thread subject?"
What on earth has your post got to do with the thread subject?. 
and now mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dunno about couples but most of us single men and fems call ourselves SWINGLE STARS or SWINGLES for short lol"
sounds good.. swingles... and maybe be swiples or somethig similar for the couples... pmsl |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"How about normal?
We have fun together, don't see other people behind each others backs, don't cheat and are open with each other.
Strange world that has all the liars, cheaters, and generally dishonest people labelled as "normal" eh!
What on earth has that got to do with the thread subject?
What on earth has your post got to do with the thread subject?.
and now mine. "
Swing baby swiiiiiiiiiiing or ..... 
Naa i like swing it suggests movement |
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"Its just a name. Its non offensive and people know what the terminology means so I see no problem with it. You could re-brand like they did with snickers bars and ciff but it is rarely an improvement.
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what you say is very true , but the term swingers seems to cover so many different groups and lifestyles
it might be a single male or female , or a couple that seek either a male female or couple "play" hard or soft
the term swingers , does seem a bit old fashioned now , having been around a long time it always reminds me of a group of couples puting there car keys in a bowl near the end of a party
players ...... does seem a good choice , and the word hedonist seem a lot less in your face than fuck buddy seekers or shagaholics
like you say though " if it aint broke dont fix it " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nowt wrong with the term swingers lol
it's been around for years and pretty
everyone knows it's meaning
it implies to me a feeling of liberalisim
and fun
Its not a dirty rude or seedy phrase
And it's very doubtful that anything else
would catch on xx |
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