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over a year ago
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You have to be true to yourself and do you really want to drift back into the old routine. Personally I'd say no don't go back but at the end of the day the choice and decision is down to you. |
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"You have to be true to yourself and do you really want to drift back into the old routine. Personally I'd say no don't go back but at the end of the day the choice and decision is down to you."
Its my mantra ALways be ture to yourself. Ive made my decisions. Why go back I know whats there but who knows what the future holds.xx  |
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Have back over Crimbo but just for the sex. (if you can without confusing the kids if there are any involved).
He'll think he's back in he game, day or so after boxing day, tell him to do one.
He'll feel worse than you did when he didnt want to know and walked out.
This will show him who has the power |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good on you for picking yourself up and making a new life and new friends If I was you Id say no but only you know how you feel about him. Don't rush into anything as you might regret it later. I always think they're an ex for a reason. I know it wasn't your doing at the time but he walked out for a reason. Good luck whatever you decide x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to be true to yourself and do you really want to drift back into the old routine. Personally I'd say no don't go back but at the end of the day the choice and decision is down to you."
well said xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you allow someone who clearly doesn't respect you to be a part of your life again? Aren't you worth more than that? You picked yourself up and did a great job, don't allow him to wreck your world again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex just walked out one day left us up poo creek so to speak, well after weeks of tears I picked myself up and started to find the woman I was years ago and im finding the woman I want to be. I have started my own business,lost a stone in weight got new friends and started seeing old ones again. in short ive got my mojo back that he broke. Now surprise surprise he wants to come home!turns out the grass isn't greener. Well now im happy and dont want to give up the life style ive made.but I do like all the normal loving everyday stuff! He wont play at all and I want my cake and i want to shove my face deep in it! What would you do????   "
Every relationship is different but in my opinion if someone is that fickle do you want to put yourself through that again now you've come out the other end, because chances are he will do it again better to find someone who deserves you and matches what you want out of life, good luck in what ever you decide xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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something similar happened to me ( female). although i had to up sticks and move half way round the world with 3 kids and anything i could carry.
i had to start my life over again after a long marriage.
i thought my life was over....but i slowly picked myself up and got on with my life.
the upshot of this...i met my current partner, who is the most amazing man.
you never know whats around the corner, but you seem like a strong woman..only you know what you will be happy with.
i wish you good luck with whatever you decide.  |
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"Why would you allow someone who clearly doesn't respect you to be a part of your life again? Aren't you worth more than that? You picked yourself up and did a great job, don't allow him to wreck your world again. "
no other posts matter.
this is exactly what we would have said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would you allow someone who clearly doesn't respect you to be a part of your life again? Aren't you worth more than that? You picked yourself up and did a great job, don't allow him to wreck your world again.
no other posts matter.
this is exactly what we would have said."
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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The only bit of revenge that is sweet, getting on with your life which you did.
If you are still in love with him then it might work out if you give it a second chance.....but if you can see yourself happy without him then I would ignore him and carry on getting on with my life. |
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"So are you more pissed off with him leaving you for whatever reason or the fact he wont play?"
im not pissed off with him leaving, best thing thats happend to me. Im pissed off that he has the cheek to try and mess with my head again an pissed off at myself for even entertaining the thought of it.xx
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"Why would you allow someone who clearly doesn't respect you to be a part of your life again? Aren't you worth more than that? You picked yourself up and did a great job, don't allow him to wreck your world again.
no other posts matter.
this is exactly what we would have said.
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Thankyou.xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never go back.he wasn't happy with you before.and now he can see what you really are.do you want to go back to how you was.you seen happy so find someone new who treats you how you want to be treated.have a happy Xmas |
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"So are you more pissed off with him leaving you for whatever reason or the fact he wont play? im not pissed off with him leaving, best thing thats happend to me. Im pissed off that he has the cheek to try and mess with my head again an pissed off at myself for even entertaining the thought of it.xx"
Yea,sounds like the relationship was toxic to you the first time - if so you don't need round two. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Only you know what to do... What ever you decide , be happy "
He walked out on you for whatever reason, you picked yourself up and found the strength to get on with life. Whatever you decide it's your choice and you do what makes you happy |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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I got the same from my ex when his marriage went down the pan. I thought it was hilarious and avoided all contact with him. Why would I go back to someone who made me feel so bad. And he'd want to move in to my house which I've paid for. Sod him. Let him find another free ride. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe if you walk down the same path you always arrive at the same place. The only thing that changes, the ruts get deeper. However that is my philosophy and choice. "
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