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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I never really thought much of my hair, yes it dye it various colours from time to time and its quite long at the moment but i dont mind what the haidresser ever does to it

but this morning in the shower it was just coming out in clumps and i was so afraid to brush it. Made me really sad.. guess my hair means more to me than i realized.

Dont think id ever shave it off though. I understand chemotherapy has hair loss effects and credit to those people who can deal with it.

So just how important is your hair too you? Guys with reseeding (sp?) hair lines/bald patches do you cut it all off or just let it go?

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By *ingerbicky69Woman  over a year ago

EXETER

ive always messed about with my hair.had dreads,all different colours.long and short. Best hair cut is where I just shaved it all off. Very liberating. But if its falling out it could be an underlying illness or stress. Xx

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon

My hair is a constant source of disappointment to me..are you listening hair? You must try harder!

Seriously though my hair is so thin and seems to get thinner by the day, getting older hasn't helped at all!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My hair is one of the main things people compliment, I would be devastated if I lost it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" ive always messed about with my hair.had dreads,all different colours.long and short. Best hair cut is where I just shaved it all off. Very liberating. But if its falling out it could be an underlying illness or stress. Xx

"

yeah im stressed and ill.. just didnt think the hair loss thing would bother me as much as it is though which just adds to the 'feeling shit' factor of being ill anyway..

know and good treatments or conditioners?

ive been using that aussie repair one recently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mine is very important to me.. I take a lot of time looking after it. It's in excellent condition and I intend to keep it that way xx

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My hair is one of the main things people compliment, I would be devastated if I lost it"

Mine is my cock !!!! Just think how I would feel

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mines very important to me too even though I had it all cut off

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


" ive always messed about with my hair.had dreads,all different colours.long and short. Best hair cut is where I just shaved it all off. Very liberating. But if its falling out it could be an underlying illness or stress. Xx

yeah im stressed and ill.. just didnt think the hair loss thing would bother me as much as it is though which just adds to the 'feeling shit' factor of being ill anyway..

know and good treatments or conditioners?

ive been using that aussie repair one recently "

I use the Aussie repair stuff, figured as I'm an Aussie it might repair me

Do you know that it's normal to lose around 100 hairs per day? As your hair is longer than usual you may be thinking it's more than you normally lose because 100 longer hairs look like more than 100 shorter hairs.

Also if you've been ill and not been out maybe you have not been brushing your hair as much and you have more than one day's loss just waiting to fall out when you wash it. That's what I tell myself anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It was everything to me when i had it long...but, now i've shaved it all off and i can get ready in a flash!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ive always messed about with my hair.had dreads,all different colours.long and short. Best hair cut is where I just shaved it all off. Very liberating. But if its falling out it could be an underlying illness or stress. Xx

yeah im stressed and ill.. just didnt think the hair loss thing would bother me as much as it is though which just adds to the 'feeling shit' factor of being ill anyway..

know and good treatments or conditioners?

ive been using that aussie repair one recently "

Try some supplements, vitamins etc

Its not often I blow my own trumpet but I have great hair. It only needs washing twice a week, I rarely style it (ponytail at most), I cut it myself. It doesn't even get brushed everyday! And still always looks pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not so hair fussed, shaved it off several times. I'm rocking a hawk right now, so enjoying the long and short - till I get bored with it and hack it off again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The thought of losing my hair terrifies me. I probably wouldn't cope at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hair always falls out, but more In autum and spring when the hair is renewing for the new season.

There are many factors that can cause hair loss and stress is one of the biggest ones, if you are overly concerned see your doctor they can help give you a reason

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield

Can't wait for my hair to grow again.

I don't feel quite myself with short hair.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't mind if I go grey, in fact I quite look forward to being a silver fox, but I'd cry if I started going bald.

Fortunately it doesn't run in the family at all.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

On my dad's side of the family everyone died with a full head of hair and were fairly well built.

On my mum's side they are all built like whippets, anyone who hits 9 stone is a heavyweight and losing hair is the norm.

I'm about 8 and a half stone. Everyday I wake up with hair I'm counting as a bonus. One day I know I shall just have a note from it saying adios.

Thank heaven for good wigs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

mine is getting rarer everyday now

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield

Apparently it's passed down from the maternal side. So don't go by whether your father has lost his, check out your mothers male relatives.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Losing hair is so different to making a choice to get rid of it. Check whether your medication is adding to the hair loss. I hope it sorts itself out soon.

I wash mine every day, it's long as I am not sure what I want to do with it and it appears that I lose several handfuls every day. But it's normal loss. I always go with the "it will grow back" whenever I do anything with my hair.

When I was hit several times on my head and the hospital shaved off odd clumps that wasn't so great but it did grow back.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As I don't have any it means nothing to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's more on my face than my head lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

my hair started coming out a lot a few years ago when i washed it, i havnt gone bald yet though its still quite thick. its better when i get it trimmed.

my hairs very fine and gets greasy so have to wash it every day but the one good thing is i havnt got that many grey hairs and is in good condition.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very. I like to change the colour of it and the style. I had it in a bob for a few years but am now growing it. I abuse mine with straighteners and products but so far so good! I use a serum on it after I've washed it as its very dry.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get lots of compliments about my hair colour and style, and I take good care of it...but having seen a very close friend recently lose all of hers during chemo it just doesn't seem quite so important anymore. She was brave enough not to wear a wig, and wouldn't let her friends shave their heads in unity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've been thinning on top for years, so these days shave it right down. Really, being bald doesn't bother me, its a very fashionable look these days (though with the number of balding young guys I see around, I wonder if this is out of necessity!).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Matter of life n death cut throght on side of head weekly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

my wigs dont fall out with hair,i just change them to suit another colour,but if they did i have a thick crop of silver grey in reserve.

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn

I do love my hair but it doesn't make a difference to me on men. Amazing meets with bald men probably more than haired men lol.

I only colour mine to cover the grey. I don't want to pretend to be something I am not really. I don't cut it regularly as always seems to be something else to put the money to. It does take me hours to wash dry and make it look good x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never really thought much of my hair, yes it dye it various colours from time to time and its quite long at the moment but i dont mind what the haidresser ever does to it

but this morning in the shower it was just coming out in clumps and i was so afraid to brush it. Made me really sad.. guess my hair means more to me than i realized.

Dont think id ever shave it off though. I understand chemotherapy has hair loss effects and credit to those people who can deal with it.

So just how important is your hair too you? Guys with reseeding (sp?) hair lines/bald patches do you cut it all off or just let it go? "

Im not enjoying going grey

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My hair regularly falls out worse was when I say running condtioner through it and lost handfuls of it. Im a bugger for dyeing it only did it again yesterday but thinking I should dye it close to my natural colour and leave it alone. No matter how hard I have tried it wont grow past shoulder length and I would love longer hair!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I never really thought much of my hair, yes it dye it various colours from time to time and its quite long at the moment but i dont mind what the haidresser ever does to it

but this morning in the shower it was just coming out in clumps and i was so afraid to brush it. Made me really sad.. guess my hair means more to me than i realized.

Dont think id ever shave it off though. I understand chemotherapy has hair loss effects and credit to those people who can deal with it.

So just how important is your hair too you? Guys with reseeding (sp?) hair lines/bald patches do you cut it all off or just let it go? "

My hair has fallen out in clumps. My hairdresser is a magician and her weaving skills fantastic but I've been wearing wigs. It is depressing. I'm not a jealous person but there's a black guy I see at the station every morning with the biggest, thickest afro I've ever seen, and all I think is "how unfair".

I've started a new relationship and I'm dreading having to tell him I have alopecia. Losing my hair has affected me much more than I thought. Karma as my mum went bald at my age and I used to laugh at her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not overly bothered about mine. I keep it very short, but if it all went overnight I'd not shed any tears.

I think it is very different for a lot of people, though.

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By *eckyWithTheGoodHairWoman  over a year ago

glasgow

I have a weave in, was expensive but worth it, I love it, its so long lush and thick, needs tightened every 8-12 weeks. I also do my roots every 10 days so its always perfect black n shiny, no trace ov grey lol. Love doing alsorts ov updos n stuff, spend a lot ov time and money on my hair. It makes me happy tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for all the messages with advice and posts on here. Not tried caffine shampoo but have nothing to lose except more hair lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It took some time to actually admit or realise my hair was receding

But once it's started there's nothing you can do about it

And the only way to deal with it is a good old fashioned comb over

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By *U1966Man  over a year ago

Devon

Plenty of hair just mostly grey now

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By *innamon!Woman  over a year ago

no matter

Mine is important I find at the moment it is coming out in handfulls again. All to do with the thyroid problems I think.

I would be devastated to lose it all tho. I had alopecia in my early 20's and again when I had my son prematurely. Lost a clump behind my ear 10cm round over night. thankfully no more since then.

Try not to worry only makes loss worse.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have shoulder length dark brown curly hair which I used to spend a great deal of time looking after, then somebody very close to me lost all hers due to cancer and my outlook changed.

I now just wash and condition once a week and loosely wear it up for work - some things are just more important I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's taken me years to go from a short pixie haired brunette to a shoulder length blond......wouldn't want to have to have it cut off at the moment but never say never, I quite fancy being a redhead

if you think your hair is falling out a lot more than normal I would go to the docs for a check up.

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

i'm really not bothered about losing my hair that much .. as long as it's short and not looking like a comb over it's just what happens to some older guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My hair was always really long then I was in a pretty serious car crash a few years back and somehow ended up with a few bald patches from the impact. When I was able to I went to a friend and she cut it all of I went very extreme and shaved all round the sides and just had the bit on top. I now constantly experiment with my hair but always keep it short. It was probably the most liberating thing I have ever done after years of using my hair as a shield I now have a new found confidence.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had mine taken off had it all off after id grown it to my arse....did it for charity and when it first went they plaited it and just cut it off at the base pf my neck and i cried....but a little girl got hair from my hair and i cried again but it was kinda special and id do it again.

I have the thickest mop of hair that grows like wild fire tho x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hair never bothers me, would love to shave it all off.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love my hair and I do get compliments on it. My problem is that I can't stop touching it, im always fiddling with it.

I have natural curly hair and I do have lots of products to prevent frizz.

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By *ysticmykeyMan  over a year ago

Sheffield

Having long hair's been my defining feature since my early teens. When the top of my head became a solar panel I was pretty gutted. Seriously considered shaving it all off but decided not to in the end. I just wouldn't feel like me, and no bugger would recognise me.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm quite attached to mine. I didn't like going grey so early but keep thinking about George Clooney so don't mind so much now and have it styled a lot shorter these days. I'm glad I'm not going bald though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm quite attached to mine. I didn't like going grey so early but keep thinking about George Clooney so don't mind so much now and have it styled a lot shorter these days. I'm glad I'm not going bald though. "

Would you have dyed it?

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm quite attached to mine. I didn't like going grey so early but keep thinking about George Clooney so don't mind so much now and have it styled a lot shorter these days. I'm glad I'm not going bald though.

Would you have dyed it?"

No, I let it happen. I'd never had grey/silver hair before. Older and wiser - I say to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

going bald as gracefully as I can here. My hair line is receding nearly as fast as the Dead Sea, but there is not much I am ever going to do about it....so what will be will be

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick

I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I shall be losing 10 weeks growth of hair I definitely don't want today!

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol "

60?!

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?! "

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Men a bald head or grey hair is very sexy just DON'T do a Trump comb-over !!!!

For ladies its a tad harder I do feel for those who lose there hair for what ever reason .... But a woman who can carry off a shaved head has my greatest respect helps if you are young and have a pretty face though think I would have to invest in a good wig

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll be honest, if my hair looks crap, I usually feel crap. I used to have beautiful, thick, curly hair but I lost a lot of it during chemotherapy, I was lucky not to loose it all, it just thinned out big time, my heads a lot lighter now, and I do miss the thickness and volume, I'm lucky, my hair's in great condition and stupidly long atm so I can create volume still

Would love to shave it off for charity but simply haven't got the bollocks!

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?! "

Exactly.....I'm joshing of course

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies."

Brighton humour must be lost on you lol

Seriously I did box...I played semi-pro American Football and rugby at Hove Brighton and Eastbourne (no8) and a 57 IRLB

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My hair is one of the main things people compliment, I would be devastated if I lost it

Mine is my cock !!!! Just think how I would feel "

At least hair grows back

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies."

I do love the Forum Police lol

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies."

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display "

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

Exactly.....I'm joshing of course "

I believed you.

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

"

Sense of humour bypass

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

Exactly.....I'm joshing of course I believed you. "

Haha

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick

"A virago is a woman who demonstrates exemplary and heroic qualities. The word comes from the Latin word vir, meaning 'man' (cf. virile) to which the suffix -ago is added, a suffix that effectively re-genders the word to be female."

Really?

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


""A virago is a woman who demonstrates exemplary and heroic qualities. The word comes from the Latin word vir, meaning 'man' (cf. virile) to which the suffix -ago is added, a suffix that effectively re-genders the word to be female."

Really? "

Your hat looks too small.....

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


""A virago is a woman who demonstrates exemplary and heroic qualities. The word comes from the Latin word vir, meaning 'man' (cf. virile) to which the suffix -ago is added, a suffix that effectively re-genders the word to be female."

Really? Your hat looks too small..... "

I got the brown one...black or white were not a good idea

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


""A virago is a woman who demonstrates exemplary and heroic qualities. The word comes from the Latin word vir, meaning 'man' (cf. virile) to which the suffix -ago is added, a suffix that effectively re-genders the word to be female."

Really? Your hat looks too small.....

I got the brown one...black or white were not a good idea "

It takes a certain kind of look to carry off a black or white stetson, in my opinion.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

Sense of humour bypass "

Maybe make the "humour" a bit more evident. Of course, there could be some reason for you getting so defensive...

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

Sense of humour bypass

Maybe make the "humour" a bit more evident. Of course, there could be some reason for you getting so defensive..."

I remember being at school and had to deal with bullies nobody ever does that now even on an internet forum. ...please stop giving me orders or join the police or traffic warden service

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very important!! I've always wanted straight hair rather than my Shirley temple curls it wasn't I've had a brain tumor scare recently that changed my mind. They did the talk at hospital about what if etc said it would involve surgery all I was bothered about and ended up in floods of tears over was the thought of my head being shaved then loosing it if I had to have chemo. Crazy really when what was important was if I did have a tumor.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Since I've been growing it for a year, It's pretty important.

Used to dye it but it was too much of a ball ache so I stopped doing it.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

Sense of humour bypass

Maybe make the "humour" a bit more evident. Of course, there could be some reason for you getting so defensive...

I remember being at school and had to deal with bullies nobody ever does that now even on an internet forum. ...please stop giving me orders or join the police or traffic warden service "

Dear oh dear, touchy touchy.

A sentence beginning "maybe" is an order now?

Your humour wasn't clear. I commented, hardly with anything particularly inflammatory. First it was being the "Internet police" and now it's bullying?

Again, curiously touchy.

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By *innamon!Woman  over a year ago

no matter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As long as its being pulled I'm all good

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

Sense of humour bypass

Maybe make the "humour" a bit more evident. Of course, there could be some reason for you getting so defensive...

I remember being at school and had to deal with bullies nobody ever does that now even on an internet forum. ...please stop giving me orders or join the police or traffic warden service

Dear oh dear, touchy touchy.

A sentence beginning "maybe" is an order now?

Your humour wasn't clear. I commented, hardly with anything particularly inflammatory. First it was being the "Internet police" and now it's bullying?

Again, curiously touchy."

Like I say maybe it's you with the problem. Not touchy at all just stating the obvious ..now where's my hat?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

Sense of humour bypass

Maybe make the "humour" a bit more evident. Of course, there could be some reason for you getting so defensive...

I remember being at school and had to deal with bullies nobody ever does that now even on an internet forum. ...please stop giving me orders or join the police or traffic warden service

Dear oh dear, touchy touchy.

A sentence beginning "maybe" is an order now?

Your humour wasn't clear. I commented, hardly with anything particularly inflammatory. First it was being the "Internet police" and now it's bullying?

Again, curiously touchy.

Like I say maybe it's you with the problem. Not touchy at all just stating the obvious ..now where's my hat? "

You're the one that made multiple posts about it, one after the other. You're the one making snide, childish comments, which is ironic since you're also trying to make yourself out to be the victim of bullying.

If you think I'm going to quietly accept the snide comments, you're wrong.

You made a comment that was not clearly a joke. I made a comment on that. All you had to do was say you were joking and it would have died. There was no reason for all this over-sensitive nonsense.

However, if you're going to make nasty comments about my profile being hidden, my username, other threads I have started amongst other things, I'm damned well going to respond.

Now, you can recognise you totally over-reacted and let this drop, or you can continue it. The decision is entirely yours.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'll be honest, if my hair looks crap, I usually feel crap. I used to have beautiful, thick, curly hair but I lost a lot of it during chemotherapy, I was lucky not to loose it all, it just thinned out big time, my heads a lot lighter now, and I do miss the thickness and volume, I'm lucky, my hair's in great condition and stupidly long atm so I can create volume still

Would love to shave it off for charity but simply haven't got the bollocks! "

I tried to shave mine off for charity but they asked me not to as the women involved like my hair. Instead, I agreed to keep it long until the end of the year just for them.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have quite thick hair which is naturally curly. That sometimes gets on my nerves but other than that I never really give it much consideration.

However, I think if I started to lose it I may well feel differently.

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It was important to me but I'm running out of it lol so even more important the little I've got left lol

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By *Ryan-Man  over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol "

Haha that's ripe from the chief inspector of spelling

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

Haha that's ripe from the chief inspector of spelling "

What you doing for Christmas?

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have lovely long hair, right down my back.

None on my head. Just on my back.

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By *kywatcherMan  over a year ago

Southwick


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

Sense of humour bypass

Maybe make the "humour" a bit more evident. Of course, there could be some reason for you getting so defensive...

I remember being at school and had to deal with bullies nobody ever does that now even on an internet forum. ...please stop giving me orders or join the police or traffic warden service

Dear oh dear, touchy touchy.

A sentence beginning "maybe" is an order now?

Your humour wasn't clear. I commented, hardly with anything particularly inflammatory. First it was being the "Internet police" and now it's bullying?

Again, curiously touchy.

Like I say maybe it's you with the problem. Not touchy at all just stating the obvious ..now where's my hat?

You're the one that made multiple posts about it, one after the other. You're the one making snide, childish comments, which is ironic since you're also trying to make yourself out to be the victim of bullying.

If you think I'm going to quietly accept the snide comments, you're wrong.

You made a comment that was not clearly a joke. I made a comment on that. All you had to do was say you were joking and it would have died. There was no reason for all this over-sensitive nonsense.

However, if you're going to make nasty comments about my profile being hidden, my username, other threads I have started amongst other things, I'm damned well going to respond.

Now, you can recognise you totally over-reacted and let this drop, or you can continue it. The decision is entirely yours."

I'll see you on the gridiron field at a stated time...I get the fact you are outspoken...It was you who started the argument mentioning my profile which is clearly against forum rules unless the poster has asked for advice etc on their profile.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Woman goes to the GP complaining that her scalp appears to be growing green in the centre. She shows it to the doctor and he looks at it closely through a magnifying glass and can see a tiny oasis replete with luscious palm trees.

He says, 'Don't worry. It's just a beauty spot'.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

At least my profile is on display

Forum police? For commenting on the discrepancy? Whatever. After all, it's not like people do actually lie about their age and then accidentally out themselves. Now that really is humourous.

As for my profile, why should I have to display it? I'm not meeting until after New Year now and I wanted to stop people messaging me.

As for the numerous comments on my observation, (observation you'll note, not insult or accusation or anything else), you apparently need to have a word with yourself, if not your profile.

Sense of humour bypass

Maybe make the "humour" a bit more evident. Of course, there could be some reason for you getting so defensive...

I remember being at school and had to deal with bullies nobody ever does that now even on an internet forum. ...please stop giving me orders or join the police or traffic warden service

Dear oh dear, touchy touchy.

A sentence beginning "maybe" is an order now?

Your humour wasn't clear. I commented, hardly with anything particularly inflammatory. First it was being the "Internet police" and now it's bullying?

Again, curiously touchy.

Like I say maybe it's you with the problem. Not touchy at all just stating the obvious ..now where's my hat?

You're the one that made multiple posts about it, one after the other. You're the one making snide, childish comments, which is ironic since you're also trying to make yourself out to be the victim of bullying.

If you think I'm going to quietly accept the snide comments, you're wrong.

You made a comment that was not clearly a joke. I made a comment on that. All you had to do was say you were joking and it would have died. There was no reason for all this over-sensitive nonsense.

However, if you're going to make nasty comments about my profile being hidden, my username, other threads I have started amongst other things, I'm damned well going to respond.

Now, you can recognise you totally over-reacted and let this drop, or you can continue it. The decision is entirely yours.

I'll see you on the gridiron field at a stated time...I get the fact you are outspoken...It was you who started the argument mentioning my profile which is clearly against forum rules unless the poster has asked for advice etc on their profile."

Commenting on or criticising a profile without being asked, unless it's relevant to the thread, is against the rules. I did neither. I pointed out the discrepancy between the age given in your post and that on your profile. You claim it was humour. That wasn't obvious.

Apart from anything else, if you thought I'd broken the rules, the correct thing to do is to report and ignore the post, not start a tirade of multiple posts of snide nonsense. THAT is in the rules too, or don't they apply to you?

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

The Sunday School teacher asked if any of the children's parents had quoted from the Bible in the past week. Little Timmy paused, but then spoke up, "My daddy doesn't have any hair on his head. Daddy says that God put hair on everything that he was ashamed of."

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By *Ryan-Man  over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I'm losing some from the back but from the front you wouldn't know I'm sixty lol

60?!

If so, he needs to have a bit of a word with his profile because it's telling porkies.

I do love the Forum Police lol

Haha that's ripe from the chief inspector of spelling

What you doing for Christmas? "

Probably still chuckling at your pitiful claim to being bullied

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well, i've started growing mine again - so ask me in two years how's it going.

Haven't shaved in 3 days and it's doing my head in. But i miss my shoulder length hair, and being mistaken for an ' excuse me miss - oops sorry' lol

...Did they not see my beard too?? lol

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