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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your in charge if your own life!!
You only get sucked in by what the men say on here if you allow yourself too!!
Only you can change things!!
Can you see a common factor in all this? |
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Don't allow yourself to get sucked it.....you really do have to have a ton of salt....I think you need to concentrate on other things then finding a man....it will happen at the right time at the right place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was reading an interestin article in the daily mail about jilly cooper who wrote a book called How to stay married.
i dont agree with everything she says but some of it i do. maybe you should take a look? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I have never read a positive post from you and that may indicate you need support and help away from the site for a while.
Life can take so much out if you without you realising. Speak to a professional and see what they think
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please dont take this the wrong way but after reading some of your posts are you sure this is the best place for you?
I'd maybe take a break and clear my head a bit if i were you"
I was thinking this earlier too. OP after reading some of your posts on various threads, it seems to me that you're not really enjoying this site at the moment and not in the right frame of mind.
I lost my confidence and Dai Mo [no J in Welsh, think about it ] a few months ago a deleted my profile. Took a break over the summer, lived my life then decided to come back.
Not met anyone yet and not in a hurry to do so either. I'm enjoying flirting with a few potential sexy young men and the Forums obviously plus coming back proved that I have some good friends on this site.
If you're having a bad time of it maybe you need to take a break and come back refreshed and raring to go again. |
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cheers folks dont want to delete my profile as i like looking at the forums but prob need to take a break from it all
just need to get xmas and new years over with ,then everything that happened last year will be the year before last and things that happened this year will be last year come january, then can start looking forward |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Take a break. The future starts when you want it to. A minute from now or in January.
My yoga teacher always says that the past is over and you cannot change it, the future isn't here yet and you can't do anything about it. What we have is the present and that is a gift for us all to enjoy.
Hide your profile, stop posting for a bit and focus on something other than sex from this site.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chin up.
Sometimes your contributions to the forum are fun but of late they do seem to be a bit down and samey. It is a hard time to be alone but you don't have to just grin and bare it.
Hope things start to pick up for you soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i understand how hard it is to trust guys, but dont let it get to you...they dont give a shit so just be the same. eventualy one will come along who does mean things they say and even if is fun some are respectful etc...though if u mean on here...most guys and there profiles and how they appear..dont match up. they just move on from one person to the next and once had u..dont really want friendship or bothered about u. they get a fuck and thats all they care about. |
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