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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't  |
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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago
Hampshire |
"Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't "
I had a body pic as profile and that's exactly why I have it on private now ...looked very intimidating, overpowering and dominant, probably not the best camera angle really  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would you say in your message ??  "
Something along the lines of Hi, and that Id read their profile, liked it, and pics. a bit about me I guess, and send my face pic and a body shot, clothed - that's when they usually run for the hills |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what do you mean by scary? i'm guessing its in a good way because why would you want to message someone who found scary? "
He looks like a softie, facially, but definitely works out, big muscly guy, tattoos, which im getting used to seeing on here as lots of guys seem to have them now. As one poster put, little intimidating but I know you shouldn't go on looks alone, I do try not too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what do you mean by scary? i'm guessing its in a good way because why would you want to message someone who found scary?
He looks like a softie, facially, but definitely works out, big muscly guy, tattoos, which im getting used to seeing on here as lots of guys seem to have them now. As one poster put, little intimidating but I know you shouldn't go on looks alone, I do try not too. "
oops just realised I described someone a little bit, but no name or anything, I hope that's ok? I did check the rules |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Some of the biggest guys I've known have also been the most gentle.
Send the message. Get to know them a bit. Maybe haveca social to see how you feel. You can always say no if you still feel uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some of the biggest guys I've known have also been the most gentle.
Send the message. Get to know them a bit. Maybe haveca social to see how you feel. You can always say no if you still feel uncomfortable. "
True, but im guessing he read my profile and im assuming it didn't appeal as he didn't message, but then I don't blame him, it is a bit long now, like a certain book lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure this is a problem I encounter really... I mean in my head I'd love a big butch fella hurling me about, so wouldn't have an issue messaging a bigger bloke. However the messages I've personally received from the 'gym bunny' types have never really gotten any response from me. I guess I have pretty high standards when it comes to selecting who to talk to, but there does seem to be a correlation between more in shape fellows resting on their laurels, and more 'normal' blokes making more of an effort. Same goes for women and couples I've noticed too. But at the end of the day I'm the type to find a personality and mind attractive than a body. I couldn't just get down and jiggy with a braindead hotty! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok then make every excuse under the sun to not message him,the worse that can happen is he says no"
I am nervous about messaging guys, cos like guys here, ive had messages ignored too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure this is a problem I encounter really... I mean in my head I'd love a big butch fella hurling me about, so wouldn't have an issue messaging a bigger bloke. However the messages I've personally received from the 'gym bunny' types have never really gotten any response from me. I guess I have pretty high standards when it comes to selecting who to talk to, but there does seem to be a correlation between more in shape fellows resting on their laurels, and more 'normal' blokes making more of an effort. Same goes for women and couples I've noticed too. But at the end of the day I'm the type to find a personality and mind attractive than a body. I couldn't just get down and jiggy with a braindead hotty! "
Me either, actually im just after a nice guy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok then make every excuse under the sun to not message him,the worse that can happen is he says no
I am nervous about messaging guys, cos like guys here, ive had messages ignored too. "
So because you're scared of being ignored it stops you from messaging someone that may possibly say yes? What if he thought the same so did'nt message you? potential meet and good fun gone down the drain |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok then make every excuse under the sun to not message him,the worse that can happen is he says no
I am nervous about messaging guys, cos like guys here, ive had messages ignored too.
So because you're scared of being ignored it stops you from messaging someone that may possibly say yes? What if he thought the same so did'nt message you? potential meet and good fun gone down the drain"
true. I cant remember his name, but id recognise him If I browsed. well, watch this space, im going in lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He replied. He wanted to message but was blocked because of my filters, he said he was happy I messaged him, so a big thank you for all your support.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"He replied. He wanted to message but was blocked because of my filters, he said he was happy I messaged him, so a big thank you for all your support. "
Well done and to think you were the impediment all along. Removing your fear led to a win/win. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't
I had a body pic as profile and that's exactly why I have it on private now ...looked very intimidating, overpowering and dominant, probably not the best camera angle really
Please drag that picture from friends-only to the public sector 
pic 4 up 4 view "
You don't look scary to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He replied. He wanted to message but was blocked because of my filters, he said he was happy I messaged him, so a big thank you for all your support.
Well done and to think you were the impediment all along. Removing your fear led to a win/win."
Yes it did as we are messaging. He gives good chat |
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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago
Hampshire |
"Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't
I had a body pic as profile and that's exactly why I have it on private now ...looked very intimidating, overpowering and dominant, probably not the best camera angle really
Please drag that picture from friends-only to the public sector
pic 4 up 4 view
You don't look scary to me."
Just thought it looked a bit ..'ffs, he big ..me small' sort of thing.  not like 'boo ...what a fright'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't
I had a body pic as profile and that's exactly why I have it on private now ...looked very intimidating, overpowering and dominant, probably not the best camera angle really
Please drag that picture from friends-only to the public sector
pic 4 up 4 view
You don't look scary to me.
Just thought it looked a bit ..'ffs, he big ..me small' sort of thing. not like 'boo ...what a fright' "
Na. Nice, good, bod. |
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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago
Hampshire |
"Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't
I had a body pic as profile and that's exactly why I have it on private now ...looked very intimidating, overpowering and dominant, probably not the best camera angle really
Please drag that picture from friends-only to the public sector
pic 4 up 4 view
You don't look scary to me.
Just thought it looked a bit ..'ffs, he big ..me small' sort of thing. not like 'boo ...what a fright'
Na. Nice, good, bod. "
Mwaaah x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't
I had a body pic as profile and that's exactly why I have it on private now ...looked very intimidating, overpowering and dominant, probably not the best camera angle really
Please drag that picture from friends-only to the public sector
pic 4 up 4 view
You don't look scary to me.
Just thought it looked a bit ..'ffs, he big ..me small' sort of thing. not like 'boo ...what a fright' "
I had 6'4" and taller... and much beefier. Nothing scary about you that I can see. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it me? Some guys on here who look at me, scare me a little. Body size (not their cock), but facially they look like pussycats. I'd like to message but I don't
I had a body pic as profile and that's exactly why I have it on private now ...looked very intimidating, overpowering and dominant, probably not the best camera angle really
Please drag that picture from friends-only to the public sector
pic 4 up 4 view
You don't look scary to me.
Just thought it looked a bit ..'ffs, he big ..me small' sort of thing. not like 'boo ...what a fright' "
not scary |
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