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if there is something you dont like about your personality, appearance and someone had a magic wand and could change it for you ..would you take them up on the offer or would you fear it would change the person you are.
Are we maybe defined in a positive way by both our good and bad point, our strengths and weaknesses.
i am lacking in the boob department but i think i would decline the offer for a boob job for the reasons stated above but wondered what others would do ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks. I wouldn't change much. Not much of a concern anywhere. I can safely say I would change my personality 100% and if it changes me as a person so be it. Can't be worse on what it is now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im already sorted lol see i had a little cock so i went to church and preyed i said plz god would you make my cock touch the floor and my legs fell off . |
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over a year ago
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I would just totally change my body, there's so much i would change, yes i think it would change my personality if i had a body i liked but for the better |
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"I would just totally change my body, there's so much i would change, yes i think it would change my personality if i had a body i liked but for the better "
thats the problem i think ...would physical changes impact on your personality ? |
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I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone. I'd like a six pack and sort of tighten up a bit - not that I'm baggy or saggy, just a bit soft.
So my body shape is something I want to change. I'm not happy with it as it is. I'm confident and self aware enough to know I'm never going to look like the models in 'Mens Health' or someplace but I can do better. |
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"Wish I was under 50 and within more people's upper age limits...
Wish I was a bit more extrovert...
I know that's two - but one was cheeky - the other was serious."
we all have that on our wish list i guess ..scraping into a few others criteria |
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"I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone."
im similar ..not veggie but tend to avoid meat and it does reduce your protein intake alot ..maybe try quorn or something similar ...good luck anyway |
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"I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel!  "
some guys will love your wobbly bits so whilst you may achieve some new fans ..you will also lose some old ones |
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"I love everything about me. Its what makes me me! if I changed anything I wouldn't be me.  "
im singing off the same hymn sheet i think ...i may change my mind yet though ..interesting reading the feed back ...thanks all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone. I'd like a six pack and sort of tighten up a bit - not that I'm baggy or saggy, just a bit soft.
So my body shape is something I want to change. I'm not happy with it as it is. I'm confident and self aware enough to know I'm never going to look like the models in 'Mens Health' or someplace but I can do better. "
A sixpack requires constant visits to the gym, and will be hard to acquire at your age. Just tone up if that's what you want - but there are more important things about a man than that. FWIW: you seem a very OK lad, and you look fine from behind.   |
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"I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel!
some guys will love your wobbly bits so whilst you may achieve some new fans ..you will also lose some old ones "
I want it for myself not to achieve fans! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I want it for myself not to achieve fans!
the best reason to make any change ..i wish you success in your pursuit "
 Thanks, and seeing as that magic wand you mentioned isn't likely to wave my way anytime soon, I'll stick to the diet and exercise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if there is something you dont like about your personality, appearance and someone had a magic wand and could change it for you ..would you take them up on the offer or would you fear it would change the person you are.
Are we maybe defined in a positive way by both our good and bad point, our strengths and weaknesses.
i am lacking in the boob department but i think i would decline the offer for a boob job for the reasons stated above but wondered what others would do ?"
My feet....I hate my feet |
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"I would just totally change my body, there's so much i would change, yes i think it would change my personality if i had a body i liked but for the better
thats the problem i think ...would physical changes impact on your personality ?"
Yes they do! I changed massively after having my boobs done. Weird I know but it gave me more confidence in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm happy with my body , its not perfect but wouldn't change it for anybody I am what I am
just went for a perve ..boo hiss to private galleries !  "
As I said its not perfect |
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I am in the process of changing the other thing I want to change, my weight and fitness, lost just over 2 stone so far, bit more to go, would be nice to wave a wand and get me their quicker but this way I get to feel like I've achieved something on my own |
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"I am in the process of changing the other thing I want to change, my weight and fitness, lost just over 2 stone so far, bit more to go, would be nice to wave a wand and get me their quicker but this way I get to feel like I've achieved something on my own "
well done ...i understand where you are coming from with the sense of achievement as well ...probably wouldnt have meant so much to you if you had just woken up one morning with your new look ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone. I'd like a six pack and sort of tighten up a bit - not that I'm baggy or saggy, just a bit soft.
So my body shape is something I want to change. I'm not happy with it as it is. I'm confident and self aware enough to know I'm never going to look like the models in 'Mens Health' or someplace but I can do better. "
You look fine to me, mate. |
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"I am in the process of changing the other thing I want to change, my weight and fitness, lost just over 2 stone so far, bit more to go, would be nice to wave a wand and get me their quicker but this way I get to feel like I've achieved something on my own
well done ...i understand where you are coming from with the sense of achievement as well ...probably wouldnt have meant so much to you if you had just woken up one morning with your new look !"
Indeed. I had to cheat with the boobs, sadly they never formed properly on their own so needed sorting but the weight loss has been gradual so I'm hoping it'll stay off!! X |
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"I have alopecia, my lovely locks have all but gone so hair."
have had that also and wore a hat ...it happened just before my sisters wedding ...doh !! does hit quite hard as hair does alter a womans apoearance quite radically so i underlstand exactly where you are coming from
wishing you all the best with the recovery ! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse! 
But foxy your stomach is fine and your arse....  "
Foxy's stomach is far from fine! But I can do something about it, just needs to get arse in motion lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel! "
would be in the queue for some of that therapy myself! |
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i think at the end of this thread we could have a fab fit club and all other things we would like to change about ourselves ...pool our resources and be a force to be reckoned with armed with our new years resolutions !! |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!
But foxy your stomach is fine and your arse....
Foxy's stomach is far from fine! But I can do something about it, just needs to get arse in motion lol "
From my point of view its fine of course if you needed a buddy to help you work up a sweat |
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"there are things i want to change (my size for one) but I want to do it, i dont want a magic wand or a magic pill or someone to pay for it I want t be able to say that i made that change possible."
i dont think you are alone with that sentiment ..good luck and take it a day at a time ..it wont be easy but most things in life worth attaining arent ! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "
How do others make you feel like shit? We're all virtual on here and people can be hurtful but all they can do is TRY and knock your confidence only you give them the power to actually affect you.
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"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "
if this site aint working for you i would probably consider closing this account and trying other sites ..there are lits out there ..good luck ! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I'd like to look more convincing when dressed, but that is about it
Maybe it's the boobs??? "
I do stand out because of them and to be honest, they do hurt my passability. However, I like the look, so I'm making the best of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse! "
Your stomach is perfect!! :D x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!
Your stomach is perfect!! :D x"
Bless you for saying so! But you know us females always have complaints |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "
Then you are on the wrong site if you take any notice if the people on here.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!
Your stomach is perfect!! :D x
Bless you for saying so! But you know us females always have complaints "
That's true haha! I might be getting surgery on my labia's next year :D x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!
Your stomach is perfect!! :D x
Bless you for saying so! But you know us females always have complaints
That's true haha! I might be getting surgery on my labia's next year :D x"
I was trying to send a PM but can't, so shall I ask here?
or you can PM me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are things i want to change (my size for one) but I want to do it, i dont want a magic wand or a magic pill or someone to pay for it I want t be able to say that i made that change possible."
But you said you loved your wand |
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