Hello just a little query....
Just how do you judge a message without actually looking at them?
I mean yes women prob get 100's a day with 'wanna fuk' etc in it,but i like to take my time and write a decent message,how do some not even read them?
It isnt a rant by the way,just wondering??  |
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Lots of women check out the profile before reading the message. Then if you don't suit they delete the message.
I have turned down guys who otherwise match my preferences based on a poor or ranty profile or one which expresses views I dislike or even because their public gallery is full of their cock from 21 minisculely different angles!  |
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over a year ago
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As long as a message has been thought though and it shows that thay have read our profile we will always replie even if just to say "thanks but no thanks" |
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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago
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"Hello just a little query....
Just how do you judge a message without actually looking at them?
I mean yes women prob get 100's a day with 'wanna fuk' etc in it,but i like to take my time and write a decent message,how do some not even read them?
It isnt a rant by the way,just wondering?? "
Just write a tad more than the norm on here,Make your message interesting,humourous maybe that would help,and never attach a cock pic to the message,or your message will be 99.9% deleted,good luck x |
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"I get that on another site too " let's fuck" lol to me a simple hello and starting a conversation going does for me.
Nette"
Thats the thing,i always say hello,introduce myself and then depending on what their profile says i ask/tell them about them/me? Polite and courteous....surely you could at least read the message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100's a day? I wish, even if they did say fancy a f... I read all the messages I get, depends on if they read my profile whether I reply or not"
Meant to say I do read theirs too |
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"I don't, but I do click on the profile before I even look at the message, if the photos/text/age/distance etc etc doesn't match what I'm looking for not much point reading the message "
I understand that,and wont lie,i HAVE on occasion (if the girls amazingly hot) tried just in case they put wrong age limit to message them,but 99% of the time i think age/distance etc is what i am! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes when I get letters through the post addressed to "householder" I put them in the recycling without opening them. Same probably happens to messages on here, just because you wrote a class letter does not mean you have a right to be read. |
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"Sometimes when I get letters through the post addressed to "householder" I put them in the recycling without opening them. Same probably happens to messages on here, just because you wrote a class letter does not mean you have a right to be read. "
Thats fair enough i suppose |
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"I don't, but I do click on the profile before I even look at the message, if the photos/text/age/distance etc etc doesn't match what I'm looking for not much point reading the message
I understand that,and wont lie,i HAVE on occasion (if the girls amazingly hot) tried just in case they put wrong age limit to message them,but 99% of the time i think age/distance etc is what i am! "
I get messages saying 'I know I'm outside your age limit but...' It's bloody annoying. Fair enough a year or two but 18 and 50 year olds? Why even bother? lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello just a little query....
Just how do you judge a message without actually looking at them?
I mean yes women prob get 100's a day with 'wanna fuk' etc in it,but i like to take my time and write a decent message,how do some not even read them?
It isnt a rant by the way,just wondering?? "
I can sum up quite quickly whether it is a person I want to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't, but I do click on the profile before I even look at the message, if the photos/text/age/distance etc etc doesn't match what I'm looking for not much point reading the message
I understand that,and wont lie,i HAVE on occasion (if the girls amazingly hot) tried just in case they put wrong age limit to message them,but 99% of the time i think age/distance etc is what i am!
I get messages saying 'I know I'm outside your age limit but...' It's bloody annoying. Fair enough a year or two but 18 and 50 year olds? Why even bother? lol. "
Ahhhh 'but'. It seems putting this on any message automatically negates any personal preferences   |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I get that on another site too " let's fuck" lol to me a simple hello and starting a conversation going does for me.
Nette
Thats the thing,i always say hello,introduce myself and then depending on what their profile says i ask/tell them about them/me? Polite and courteous....surely you could at least read the message? "
I don't open all the junk mail I get through the door. I can usually tell from the envelope whether I'd be interested.
Same goes on here. If the profile does not appeal then the message doesn't need to be opened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know they didn't read before deleting?
As others said I always check the profile before the message and if there is a cock attached to the message it's an automatic thanks but no thanks and block. I've started blocking everyone I turn down now so I don't have to deal with the "why" messages. |
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