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Bi/gay men are less of a man
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I heard this said on the radio the other day.
Well I am bisexual and I don't feel like that at all. I have all of the best traits you expect of a man and probably many of those that are less favoured!
I am also comfortable with my softer side and, according to my wife and ex girlfriends, I have what women call their intuition.
Accepting and acting on my hidden feelings has been a revelation for me and for the first time into life I'm truly happy.
Just wanted that off my chest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now are you sure you heard that?
Media reports I listen to never acknowledge bi. Youre either gay or straight. 
Look how they report on people like Tom Daley for example.
Anyway it's poppycock.
Ps wish mrnotts had fem intuition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have all of the best traits you expect of a man.
I'm curious as to what people feel these are, masculinity in general I mean?"
You do boy stuff of course like mending cars and DIY and embroidery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now are you sure you heard that?
Media reports I listen to never acknowledge bi. Youre either gay or straight.
Look how they report on people like Tom Daley for example.
Anyway it's poppycock.
Ps wish mrnotts had fem intuition "
I heard tom daley news on radio 1 and they said he has come out as bisexual but on news etc, it just said he loves a guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have all of the best traits you expect of a man.
I'm curious as to what people feel these are, masculinity in general I mean?
You do boy stuff of course like mending cars and DIY and embroidery "
But surely fixing a car or putting up a curtain rail is just a matter of knowing how to do it, so a woman could as easily do such thing as a man, just as a man could take up something classically feminine like knitting? |
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back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So which station reported this then OP  "
It was a discussion on Jeremy vine
It hasn't riled me; more made me aware of the change in my mental strength when I accepted my feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !! "
Nah I still call mrnotts all of the above  you forgot fudge nudger by the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !!
Nah I still call mrnotts all of the above you forgot fudge nudger by the way "
And shit stabber!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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fair play to you bud. your happy! that's all that counts. doesn't matter what others say. just continue on being true to yourself. 
because at the end of the day that's what counts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now are you sure you heard that?
Media reports I listen to never acknowledge bi. Youre either gay or straight.
Look how they report on people like Tom Daley for example.
Anyway it's poppycock.
Ps wish mrnotts had fem intuition "
I love poppycock so it must be true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"fair play to you bud. your happy! that's all that counts. doesn't matter what others say. just continue on being true to yourself.
because at the end of the day that's what counts "
Thank you. I love fab and it's people xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fair play to you bud. your happy! that's all that counts. doesn't matter what others say. just continue on being true to yourself.
because at the end of the day that's what counts
Thank you. I love fab and it's people xxx
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !!
Nah I still call mrnotts all of the above you forgot fudge nudger by the way
And shit stabber!! "
and if you like an indian - its a curry-plunger.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !!
Nah I still call mrnotts all of the above you forgot fudge nudger by the way
And shit stabber!!
and if you like an indian - its a curry-plunger.. "
There's no need to trawl through all these names in this thread is there? It isn't ironic or post-modern or any other cover you want to use for bigotry. I don't believe if this was a discussion of racism you'd all be going through a list of names that black and Asian people have been called. It's just hateful. |
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !!
Nah I still call mrnotts all of the above you forgot fudge nudger by the way
And shit stabber!!
and if you like an indian - its a curry-plunger..
There's no need to trawl through all these names in this thread is there? It isn't ironic or post-modern or any other cover you want to use for bigotry. I don't believe if this was a discussion of racism you'd all be going through a list of names that black and Asian people have been called. It's just hateful. "
Who Said anything about Race !!! white people are gay or bisexual !! I know I am and im not a lesbian !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !!
Nah I still call mrnotts all of the above you forgot fudge nudger by the way
And shit stabber!!
and if you like an indian - its a curry-plunger.. "
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who Said anything about Race !!! white people are gay or bisexual !! I know I am and im not a lesbian !!!"
I did. I didn't think what I wrote would be such a challenge. You might want to try reading it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !!
Nah I still call mrnotts all of the above you forgot fudge nudger by the way
And shit stabber!!
and if you like an indian - its a curry-plunger..
There's no need to trawl through all these names in this thread is there? It isn't ironic or post-modern or any other cover you want to use for bigotry. I don't believe if this was a discussion of racism you'd all be going through a list of names that black and Asian people have been called. It's just hateful. "
Really I even unhid our profile to show people we are a BI couple - who can laugh at themselves. I see no malice in the above at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm a real man, I'm a black man and I'm not offended by any of this just thought you would like to know that, I'm a real man honest you can touch me if you like there is no difference between me and any other guy, I just like cock, is that do terrible I mean fair enough, put a naked muscle guy with short cropped hair and ill fucking go wild but apart from that I'm just an every day joe, I have no point to this just thinking out loud, carry on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say it's true that not many bi-guys still wear Old Spice "The mark of a man"
This is the most offensive post ever "
Well pardon me all over the place,, |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"back in the 70/80`s you would have been called allsorts of mad-names for it..
( arse bandit, peanut pumper, shirt lifter, jobby jabber, to name a few )
I would say that the Majority of peoples attitudes towards it have changed a hell of a lot over the years !! "
I'm not convinced that's right. There's still a great deal of hidden and not so hidden homophobia out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say it's true that not many bi-guys still wear Old Spice "The mark of a man"
This is the most offensive post ever "
The post or the thread? Cos I can't see what is offensive about the old spice comment, I can see how some would be offended by some of the posts but not this particular one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say it's true that not many bi-guys still wear Old Spice "The mark of a man"
This is the most offensive post ever
The post or the thread? Cos I can't see what is offensive about the old spice comment, I can see how some would be offended by some of the posts but not this particular one."
It was a tongue in cheek post 
In that Old Spice is very offensive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say it's true that not many bi-guys still wear Old Spice "The mark of a man"
This is the most offensive post ever
The post or the thread? Cos I can't see what is offensive about the old spice comment, I can see how some would be offended by some of the posts but not this particular one.
It was a tongue in cheek post
In that Old Spice is very offensive "
Oh ok apology to you for my being thick I get it now, once again sorry I'm sending you a bottle of brut lol just joking |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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"I heard this said on the radio the other day.
Well I am bisexual and I don't feel like that at all. I have all of the best traits you expect of a man and probably many of those that are less favoured!
I am also comfortable with my softer side and, according to my wife and ex girlfriends, I have what women call their intuition.
Accepting and acting on my hidden feelings has been a revelation for me and for the first time into life I'm truly happy.
Just wanted that off my chest."
i had a similar acusation when i had the snip from some of my less enlightened co workers on the basis that i could no longer make babies . just ignore the silly cunts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How annoying! "Less of a man"... Such nonsense. As long as you aren't "less of a human being". What does it matter for goodness sake? I see these silly society-imposed barriers breaking down and thank goodness for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Note to self...... "buy some dungarees"
Think they do them in leopard print?
I would think so Tina..... probably get them in Primark,, there called a onesie
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I wouldn't mind a onesie with a trap-door in the back.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's an odd phrase isn't it. Invented by frightened homophobic straights ?
Women don't suffer the same on sexuality. If you're a bi women wahay you're a game girl and if you're a lesbian you wear dungarees "
I thought all lesbians wear Doc Martins and lumberjack shirts... I better phone my sister and tell her the uniform has changed! |
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"I heard this said on the radio the other day.
Well I am bisexual and I don't feel like that at all. I have all of the best traits you expect of a man and probably many of those that are less favoured!
I am also comfortable with my softer side and, according to my wife and ex girlfriends, I have what women call their intuition.
Accepting and acting on my hidden feelings has been a revelation for me and for the first time into life I'm truly happy.
Just wanted that off my chest.i had a similar acusation when i had the snip from some of my less enlightened co workers on the basis that i could no longer make babies . just ignore the silly cunts "
I also had the snip and loads of m8s said don't you feel less of a man well no actually feel relieved as can relax without worry when playing with the ladies XXX |
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"Note to self...... "buy some dungarees"
Think they do them in leopard print?
I would think so Tina..... probably get them in Primark,, there called a onesie
I wouldn't mind a onesie with a trap-door in the back.... "
You mean a union suit?
Ebay item number 161167007198 |
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Just wanted that off my chest.i had a similar acusation when i had the snip from some of my less enlightened co workers on the basis that i could no longer make babies . just ignore the silly cunts "
Ditto ish on the snip, had a few male colleagues saying 'it' (sex) wont be the same etc..
even when I gave the reason for having the snip as not wanting the OH to carry on taking the pill some still said yeh so what in relation to the possible long term effects of the pill with some women..
hey bloody ho.. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Now are you sure you heard that?
Media reports I listen to never acknowledge bi. Youre either gay or straight.
Look how they report on people like Tom Daley for example.
Anyway it's poppycock.
Ps wish mrnotts had fem intuition "
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