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Straight Talking or Not ?????
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What kind of person are you ... ??
A straight talker who doesn't mince their words - calls a spade a spade and to hell with the consequences ?
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Someone who is woolly and fluffy and says what they think that other people want to hear ?
Personally I (Bob) am a straight talker - "blunt to the point of being rude" as I was once described. But I say what I think (and feel) and am quite happy to be like that.
Many people don't care much for my blunt honesty and others respect me for it, but hey ho, no one is ever left in any doubt how I feel about a subject.
How about you ???
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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good question...
when I was first in the scene I think I tried not to upset anyone with what I said... but then I realised that isn't really me
now though... I just tell it like i see it....I don't care who hates me now.... mind you I get no meets now either!!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to speak our minds but on the odd occasion we find sign language helps. Missus Sin being an expert in pugilism has helped us no end for those awkward meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep ...im a straight talker too, no bullshit. If they dont like it i aint gonna lose no sleep over it. After all i know what i dont want and we all have a choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both as up front with folk as possible.However,this doesn't mean we don't use tact and diplomacy wherever possible.Afterall,theres little to be gained by being rude and hurting others feelings if it can be avoided.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happy has no Inner monolog and says exactly what he thinks, before he realizes he even said it..
Wiggles is alot more diplomatic, often clearing up the mess happy makes :P"
Aries ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What kind of person are you ... ??
A straight talker who doesn't mince their words - calls a spade a spade and to hell with the consequences ?
or
Someone who is woolly and fluffy and says what they think that other people want to hear ?
Personally I (Bob) am a straight talker - "blunt to the point of being rude" as I was once described. But I say what I think (and feel) and am quite happy to be like that.
Many people don't care much for my blunt honesty and others respect me for it, but hey ho, no one is ever left in any doubt how I feel about a subject.
How about you ???
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So, that is why you told me to "fuck off you pervy bastard and keep away from you wife or I will rip your knackers off!"....I thought you were just playing hard to get! |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
leicester |
Both... i find that talking different ways to different people works best, I think i can usually find common interest and connections through something failey quickly, so i like to think i am a good reader of people and thier personality type (In general first impression terms)... So I think it is important to follow the right things that make you connect, wether it be advice, sexual innuendo... Anything else at all... just follow it and try to mix things up so the conversation stays new and freash.
Peace xx |
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I will say it how it is. I tell the truth, i won't bullshit anyone but i do like to think i say it in a fluffy way. Unless of cause someone has pissed me off then i have been told i can be quite cutting lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know personally where you stand when being honest with others in a friendly & cordial manner on here.
Pity the majority of em up here don't seem to have inherited that particular gene yet but we'll get there someday;) |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
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"You know personally where you stand when being honest with others in a friendly & cordial manner on here.
Pity the majority of em up here don't seem to have inherited that particular gene yet but we'll get there someday;)"
wow sounds like a war zone in here... Girls put your madnhood mouthgards in tehehe
I hope it all works out... people are usually just missunderstod
Peace folks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im a straight talker who doesn't mince my words either lol wat u see with me is wat u get..u know were u stand with me xx"
as of the above to
very straight talker |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
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"im a straight talker who doesn't mince my words either lol wat u see with me is wat u get..u know were u stand with me xx
as of the above to
very straight talker"
But there is surely a time and a place to bite your tingue? lol
Just adding things lol
later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends fully on the situation..
If needed very blunt to the point and to hell with.. But and its a big big but genuinely hate to upset people just for upsettings sake... Tend to let people get away with more than they should at the start but stop anything getting out of hand..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it hard to say anything, either straight to the point or fluffy, crippled as I am with shyness. Redhot will testify to that"
Yeahhhh right !! And we have the pics to prove the shyness lmfao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im a straight talker who doesn't mince my words either lol wat u see with me is wat u get..u know were u stand with me xx
as of the above to
very straight talker
But there is surely a time and a place to bite your tingue? lol
Just adding things lol
_dsr wat u saying ive 2 bite my tounge lol xx
later"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to try to be diplomatic. There's nothing wrong with being honest but without being a prick about it.
I keep hearing people saying how they are straight talking and speak their mind, but in truth they are just tactless, insensitive and rude. They also hate it when other people treat them the same way.
People who 'speak their minds' often seem to have the least useful input.
See. How diplomatic was all that?!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I tend to try to be diplomatic. There's nothing wrong with being honest but without being a prick about it.
I keep hearing people saying how they are straight talking and speak their mind, but in truth they are just tactless, insensitive and rude. They also hate it when other people treat them the same way.
People who 'speak their minds' often seem to have the least useful input.
See. How diplomatic was all that?! "
Very diplomatic but I think that the last paragraph is bollox and unproven |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it hard to say anything, either straight to the point or fluffy, crippled as I am with shyness. Redhot will testify to that
Yeahhhh right !! And we have the pics to prove the shyness lmfao "
Hmm, yes you do, and how horny are they? The fact remains that not only are we the shyest couple in Christdendom, we are also the most inarticulate.
Actually, that's bollox, we're just scared of Madchick, Diamond, and anyone who doesn't squirt!
Heehee |
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