I am Domme but don't really tend to mix it with swinging as they are two different things. I occasionally play in the dungeons at clubs while my husband goes off does his thing (which is absolutely not BDSM) or at private parties when requested, but mostly I keep that side away.
There are number of clubs and sites catering to BDSM but not all on there will welcome a swinging experience if that's what you're after, as well as the domination aspect. For many, and even I who is a swinger, when dominating people don't tend to then have sex with them. It's just not part of that scene.
That said, there are people like me who cross over both, so you may get lucky, but I guess it all depends on what you want. |
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Same with Wiggles, once she goes into Domm mode, there is no sex, so she tends to keep it totaly seperate from swinging.
Unless she is treating one of her pets to a night out to a club to play on thier furniture and punish them by letting them know that while they are in a sex club, they still arn't geting any.
Though we do have a bedroom with lots of her furniture and stuff. |
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"We understand that we can't ask for other web sites.
We are after the dom side and sex with it.
Did not know that they do not cross over. "
I use my subs as toys to please me. If I have sex with them it's for my pleasure, they don't cum, I send them on their merry way with their hard on still intact! 
However, I have swinging partners who are submissive in the sense they like me to take control, use toys etc but nothing "freaky" and we both cum, if that makes sense! 
Good luck: you're bound to find what you're looking for, it's all here! |
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