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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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im not really sure how to say this with out coming across... being big headed...
but for the 1st time ever... talking to someone and not actually about sex or trying to meet up. I was told that im to big for her.
now I know every has preferences. and I respect that... but it did shock me abit. not sure why though. thoughts?  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"im not really sure how to say this with out coming across... being big headed...
but for the 1st time ever... talking to someone and not actually about sex or trying to meet up. I was told that im to big for her.
now I know every has preferences. and I respect that... but it did shock me abit. not sure why though. thoughts? "
Because sometimes big is too big...But would never say so without meeting as the camera can lie   |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think  ouch.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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she posted a status saying that she was stressed out. so I sent here a message. just saying that if I could distress her then id give it a try, now if I ment through sex I would have sent a pic. but I didn't. maybe she miss read it. im not sure....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think ouch.
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I wouldn't mind being that big. if it was the case then id understand... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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haha. could have been.... but wouldn't even think to go there to be honest.
you cant want what you don't know. and ive never had to chance to go there... |
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"she posted a status saying that she was stressed out. so I sent here a message. just saying that if I could distress her then id give it a try, now if I ment through sex I would have sent a pic. but I didn't. maybe she miss read it. im not sure....
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yes, maybe she misread the signs of a guy on a sex site with multiple pics of his cock on his profile offering to destress (;-)) her without ever having spoken to her before....hmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you have managed to get some to look at your profile who otherwise might not have"
that wasn't my intention.... thing is I don't think im that big. not compared to some guys on here. I mean yeah im above the average... but im not huge. and its never hurt anyone. that I know of. lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"she posted a status saying that she was stressed out. so I sent here a message. just saying that if I could distress her then id give it a try, now if I ment through sex I would have sent a pic. but I didn't. maybe she miss read it. im not sure....
yes, maybe she misread the signs of a guy on a sex site with multiple pics of his cock on his profile offering to destress (;-)) her without ever having spoken to her before....hmmmmmm "
putting it like that then yeah... but ive only posted what every other guy has done....
and to be honest. as a man I know my chances of actually getting meets for socials. let alone sex is limited. so genuinely dont go for that approach. I may have when I 1st started on this site. but not now. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think ouch.
I wouldn't mind being that big. if it was the case then id understand... "
I have now looked at your pictures. I shall take umbrage at your post as that suggests I am big and could manage you. I think I would struggle.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think ouch.
I wouldn't mind being that big. if it was the case then id understand...
I have now looked at your pictures. I shall take umbrage at your post as that suggests I am big and could manage you. I think I would struggle. "
sorry going to sound dumb now....umbrage?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a baby can come out, surely a mans average sized cock can fit in, from your cock pics it
t looks like its between 7 and 8 inches, so slightly above normal, but you only need to insert first 3 inches, that's where all the nerve endings in pussy and cock are, the rest is just for artistic reasons. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"yes, maybe she misread the signs of a guy on a sex site with multiple pics of his cock on his profile offering to destress (;-)) her without ever having spoken to her before....hmmmmmm
putting it like that then yeah... but ive only posted what every other guy has done....
and to be honest. as a man I know my chances of actually getting meets for socials. let alone sex is limited. so genuinely dont go for that approach. I may have when I 1st started on this site. but not now."
Do you think having fewer pictures of your cock and a bit more variety might help with that?
Not every man has multiple photos of his penis and some are more successful than others. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think ouch.
I wouldn't mind being that big. if it was the case then id understand...
I have now looked at your pictures. I shall take umbrage at your post as that suggests I am big and could manage you. I think I would struggle.
sorry going to sound dumb now....umbrage? "
Take umbrage = take offence, get the hump. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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But you need to bear in mind, women are built to have kids...I doubt any cock is that big!
Though I will say that is not a comfortable situation lol
Now I am petite and don't have kids, but I would never let a pic put me off unless someone said they were 12'+ Now that would be a No No lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a baby can come out, surely a mans average sized cock can fit in, from your cock pics it
t looks like its between 7 and 8 inches, so slightly above normal, but you only need to insert first 3 inches, that's where all the nerve endings in pussy and cock are, the rest is just for artistic reasons."
this is why I liked the other comment about its not the size but how you use it. |
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"If a baby can come out, surely a mans average sized cock can fit in, from your cock pics it
t looks like its between 7 and 8 inches, so slightly above normal, but you only need to insert first 3 inches, that's where all the nerve endings in pussy and cock are, the rest is just for artistic reasons.
this is why I liked the other comment about its not the size but how you use it. "
often its not about girth but length |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Women do have physiological changes during child birth to assist and I don't think anyone would tell you giving birth naturally is painless.
So, yes, to a degree if women can give birth they can handle a big cock but there's no reason, using that reasoning, that it should be expected to be pain free. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"If a baby can come out, surely a mans average sized cock can fit in, from your cock pics it
t looks like its between 7 and 8 inches, so slightly above normal, but you only need to insert first 3 inches, that's where all the nerve endings in pussy and cock are, the rest is just for artistic reasons."
Yes, we can and do stretch to give birth but that's not always straightforward. Tears from childbirth are one thing but from casual sex quite another. I want to enjoy the sex not feel discomfort or pain.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think ouch.
I wouldn't mind being that big. if it was the case then id understand...
I have now looked at your pictures. I shall take umbrage at your post as that suggests I am big and could manage you. I think I would struggle.
sorry going to sound dumb now....umbrage?
Take umbrage = take offence, get the hump. "
hmmm... well again. im not trying to offend.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think ouch.
I wouldn't mind being that big. if it was the case then id understand...
I have now looked at your pictures. I shall take umbrage at your post as that suggests I am big and could manage you. I think I would struggle.
sorry going to sound dumb now....umbrage?
Take umbrage = take offence, get the hump.
hmmm... well again. im not trying to offend.
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I know you weren't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How does the subject just come up when chatting but not about sex or meeting?
I turn men down if I think they are too big for me but I only tell them that if we have been chatting towards meeting and then they send me a picture that makes me think ouch.
I wouldn't mind being that big. if it was the case then id understand...
I have now looked at your pictures. I shall take umbrage at your post as that suggests I am big and could manage you. I think I would struggle.
sorry going to sound dumb now....umbrage?
Take umbrage = take offence, get the hump.
hmmm... well again. im not trying to offend.
I know you weren't."
pheeeuuuw. that's ok then |
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