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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "
there you go.
tbh there is a chance they see posting on a forum as having conversation with you lol.
does this mean we can have a friend request now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "
do that all the time.especially locals to see if we know them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people!"
I wouldn't say it was rude but a bit strange yes you wouldn't call someone a friend without getting to know them first tho so I agree there a message and chat if u get on and both agree to friend request the yes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people!
I wouldn't say it was rude but a bit strange yes you wouldn't call someone a friend without getting to know them first tho so I agree there a message and chat if u get on and both agree to friend request the yes "
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"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "
Haha, I like your sneaky style!! I think that's what it is most of the time - a lazy request to view your private pics, sometimes you get guys on dating sites ask to view them without chatting first. Slight lack of social skills! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can't just be about pics though. Even I get friend requests from people I've never chatted to.
Maybe they think it means you're then actual friends in real life or something.
Weird. ![](/icons/s/neutral.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind. If they look fit we accept them. Sometimes that leads to a chat after pics have been perved.
If they're mingers we ignore and don't have to worry about further requests.
Either way I'm grateful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ignore them,ive had them from some really good profiles but if they can't say hello then I can't be bothered to even look at them,I don't even open them when they're offline to have a look
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again.
there you go.
tbh there is a chance they see posting on a forum as having conversation with you lol.
does this mean we can have a friend request now?"
Note to self, start befriending random forumites who post on same threads. Though i suspect this trend exisits already ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just ignore them. Leave them unanswered though, then they can't send another. "
This is what I do. It says on my profile not to send them but they still do. Mostly from one line, silhouette profiles without pics! ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think its rude its a option the site has given them that they are using"
agreed. but I don't send any out unless I've already chatted because so many people get pissy about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people!" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people! "
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
If I accepted every unsolicited friend request then I might as well have all pics on public and none on private.
I just leave them sitting there and they can't send another one. |
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"I don't think its rude its a option the site has given them that they are using
agreed. but I don't send any out unless I've already chatted because so many people get pissy about it."
Put some clothes on quick, your legs are turning blue!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "
we do that if an invite sent without chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "
Sounds like your fortunate enough to receive them from others that actually have pics to see! ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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