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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so not every woman has a face pic so i think men should be allowed the choice.we too are vunrable to the same things as women.i for example want to meet this vet attractive woman on here and have offered to stand wherever and whenever she wants me too so she can look me up n down in secrecy without me seeing her giving her the chance to choose see or leave ect.but no pic means no meet can i get some advice please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't meet anyone without seeing them on cam first, pics can be years old so not always reliable, if they are not willing to show me themselves on cam I don't meet, I go on cam too, I just think its best if we both know what we are getting saves time in the long run |
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I would agree with her..
I wouldn't even get into chatting with someone about potentially meeting without having seen them and them seeing me, either pics or cam.
I understand people not having public face pics... but see no reason why anyone cant have one im private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im pretty sure its easier and quicker to take and upload a photo on here that travelling to god knows where to stand in a random place so someone can look at you but not meet.
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you can send someone a photo and when they have looked at it delete it and it will be gone from their end too. But if you are actually going to meet someone what is the problem with them seeing a picture of your face, why exactly don't you want to send her one? |
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"I would agree with her..
I wouldn't even get into chatting with someone about potentially meeting without having seen them and them seeing me, either pics or cam.
I understand people not having public face pics... but see no reason why anyone cant have one im private"
^^^^^This!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just nervous its a scam and my picture will be used elsewhere or to shame me in someway so if i send it and delete it. here it deletes there too so do i delete photo or message cos i will send one if its that easy lol |
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"Just nervous its a scam and my picture will be used elsewhere or to shame me in someway so if i send it and delete it. here it deletes there too so do i delete photo or message cos i will send one if its that easy lol"
There is always that risk and pictures can get used elswhere. Just delete the picture from your profile once the lady has seen it but I will be honest with you if you don't even trust her enough to see a photo this is unlikely to be the kind of activity you will enjoy. Maybe clubs would be better for you |
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"Just nervous its a scam and my picture will be used elsewhere or to shame me in someway so if i send it and delete it. here it deletes there too so do i delete photo or message cos i will send one if its that easy lol
There is always that risk and pictures can get used elswhere. Just delete the picture from your profile once the lady has seen it but I will be honest with you if you don't even trust her enough to see a photo this is unlikely to be the kind of activity you will enjoy. Maybe clubs would be better for you"
Think op should change his name to paranoid guy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just nervous its a scam and my picture will be used elsewhere or to shame me in someway ."
I think u need to examine your attitude to being on here. U r being far too paranoid. I didn't look at your profile but if you're not married/partnered why would u imagine providing a face pic puts u at risk of being shamed ? 
Ok maybe not have one in your public gallery but no one un their right mind would meet 'blind'   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im on a phone dont have the tab but will search online.im maybe barking up the wrong tree with this im more into uniforms stockings ect maybe im more of a fetish bloke |
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"Just nervous its a scam and my picture will be used elsewhere or to shame me in someway so if i send it and delete it. here it deletes there too so do i delete photo or message cos i will send one if its that easy lol"
How is a normal face pic going to be used to "shame" you or result in some kind of "scam"?
Keep your clothes on and your cock hidden and you've nothing to worry about... Unless you're internationally known
Oh, and deleting the message after the pic is sent doesn't mean it's gone forever. The recipient may have downloaded it for their nefarious purposes  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just nervous its a scam and my picture will be used elsewhere or to shame me in someway .
I think u need to examine your attitude to being on here. U r being far too paranoid. I didn't look at your profile but if you're not married/partnered why would u imagine providing a face pic puts u at risk of being shamed ?
Ok maybe not have one in your public gallery but no one un their right mind would meet 'blind' "
im not married lol i wish haha |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't waste my time meeting someone to see if I found them attractive. No photo - no meet, the same as most other people.
I'll show my photo to potential meets, and I'd show my face on cam if they wanted. I wouldn't expect them to meet me without seeing what I look like.
This all works on some sort of trust. If you can't trust someone with your photo, how could you trust them enough to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im on a phone dont have the tab but will search online.im maybe barking up the wrong tree with this im more into uniforms stockings ect maybe im more of a fetish bloke"
You can upload from your phone, my last set of pics where. Also people of fet side are probably going to want to see face pics too |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Im on a phone dont have the tab but will search online.im maybe barking up the wrong tree with this im more into uniforms stockings ect maybe im more of a fetish bloke
You can upload from your phone, my last set of pics where. Also people of fet side are probably going to want to see face pics too"
I think he means he doesn't have a clubs tab on his phone. |
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"Just nervous its a scam and my picture will be used elsewhere or to shame me in someway so if i send it and delete it. here it deletes there too so do i delete photo or message cos i will send one if its that easy lol
How is a normal face pic going to be used to "shame" you or result in some kind of "scam"?
Keep your clothes on and your cock hidden and you've nothing to worry about... Unless you're internationally known
Oh, and deleting the message after the pic is sent doesn't mean it's gone forever. The recipient may have downloaded it for their nefarious purposes "
I did think that when I wrote it but I thought it would result in further worry. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Just to mess with your Head a bit op Have you heard Of '6 degrees of separation,?' no,?
Someone you know will know someone who knows someone who knows someone And if you carry that through to the 6 degree theres not a person in the world you won t know,,!!
Its your profile your choices,,
If you re that worried by having a picture on here I doubt theres a couple or Lady that will meet you without seeing at least your face picture, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think advice was given last time...many have pointed out they wouldnt meet with someone they havent seen, ur chances of getting a meet are very slim..unless u manage to get to clubs/socials
otherwise ur profile pales in comparison even with those with shit pics on their profiles... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I've never understood about this worry about face pics is that most if us have Facebook and have pics on that. So if you use a pic that's on there then it's already out in the world on the interent to be used. So just use one from there... |
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