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"I know you say you are curious but I have to say that the tone of your post makes me not want to satisfy your curiosity." No one is forcing you  | |||
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"I know you say you are curious but I have to say that the tone of your post makes me not want to satisfy your curiosity. No one is forcing you "That is very true. | |||
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"I think it's a deep down desire for difference and a kinky outlook, it doesn't mean they are bored of each other, they just like the thrill of it all "Think people are taking the latter end of my post too seriously, it's a tongue in cheek question and one that you have answered, thank you  | |||
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"I think all couples that participate in the swinging lifestyle all have their own reasons for doing so, which I am sure will differ from couple to couple. " Exactly | |||
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"I think all couples that participate in the swinging lifestyle all have their own reasons for doing so, which I am sure will differ from couple to couple. " Yes I am going to agree with femme .. So what she said | |||
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"OP, you say you met on here. Did you meet as a couple after getting together? You don't want to share each other now but as my Buddhist Nun says, everything is temporary. " We were both single and no we both deleted our single accounts after we got together and formed a couple account, this was not to meet people and we make that known, it was for the forum use only as I enjoyed the banter | |||
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"I only stay for the chocolate "Lol, you'll get bored with it on the end | |||
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"I only stay for the chocolate
Lol, you'll get bored with it on the end "I don't actually eat it! | |||
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"I only stay for the chocolate
Lol, you'll get bored with it on the end "And in the end | |||
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"I only stay for the chocolate
Lol, you'll get bored with it on the end
I don't actually eat it!"Good lord man I didn't think you'd go as far as eating it. | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers "What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now? | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now? "Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks | |||
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"For me ..... I like ladies I am bisexual... I like being with a lady! and i do meet ladies alone, but and can i just say its my choice... i do like danny to join in when invited, i actually adore seeing him pleasure a lady? not sure why guess its one of those untold mysteries, We don't do couples, sure I flirt with guys... We have many friends who are guys on the scene, but that's as far as it goes with men, guess I love him but love the company of ladies too "And that is all I wanted to know, thank you for sharing that with me, by no means am I saying it's wrong, just the curiosity side of me coming out to ask | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks "Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia? | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia? "Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree "I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums. So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships. | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now? "You can be secure in a relationship and NOT want to sleep with others Shocking I know but it is true !!! | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
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"Can I say if I met someone and fell in love sleeping with others would not be an option for me Has nothing to do with being secure in a relationship more for the fact when Im in love - I don't need or want any other person " You say that now, but what when the dynamics change, would you be open to it or end it? | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
You can be secure in a relationship and NOT want to sleep with others
Shocking I know but it is true !!!"Ha get here flo get your kit off! Oooosh!  | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers "Seems like you're just looking to piss people off. 
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"Can I say if I met someone and fell in love sleeping with others would not be an option for me Has nothing to do with being secure in a relationship more for the fact when Im in love - I don't need or want any other person " Exactly I don't want anything else because I am the happiest I have ever been but some seem to be thinking I am on here for other reasons other than to chat | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony? "Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember. You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing. | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
Seems like you're just looking to piss people off.
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing. "Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey | |||
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"Love and sex are poles apart, me and my guy make love! Although ok ok sometimes maybe not its dirty sex with ropes etc etc you get the picture, but on the whole I adore being with ladies... It's not love it's fucking sex and list mighty fine too..... Your a long time dead!!! "You certainly are | |||
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"Love and sex are poles apart, me and my guy make love! Although ok ok sometimes maybe not its dirty sex with ropes etc etc you get the picture, but on the whole I adore being with ladies... It's not love it's fucking sex and list mighty fine too..... Your a long time dead!!! "Bored rigid nah  | |||
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"Exactly I don't want anything else because I am the happiest I have ever been but some seem to be thinking I am on here for other reasons other than to chat "Throwing out bait for your own amusement perhaps. | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey "No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner. | |||
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"Exactly I don't want anything else because I am the happiest I have ever been but some seem to be thinking I am on here for other reasons other than to chat
Throwing out bait for your own amusement perhaps."Indeed. Perhaps the OP isn't happy at all and just wants to stir things up in an attempt to feel better. Sad. | |||
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"If I was happily married and had eyes for only one would certainly not be on here." Would you walk around with your head down aswell and not look or dare talk to another male or female? Funnily enough I was on dating sites when I was on here and got offered sex more from there than here, majority wanted a loving last lasting relationship so take from that what you want | |||
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"If I was in a commuted one to one relationship I would be off here, or if in an open relationship together I would stay "commited even | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
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"If I was happily married and had eyes for only one would certainly not be on here. Would you walk around with your head down aswell and not look or dare talk to another male or female? Funnily enough I was on dating sites when I was on here and got offered sex more from there than here, majority wanted a loving last lasting relationship so take from that what you want "Oh I walk with my head up and talk to people but would not be on a sex site for sure, if I was happy with what I had. | |||
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"If I was happily married and had eyes for only one would certainly not be on here. Would you walk around with your head down aswell and not look or dare talk to another male or female? Funnily enough I was on dating sites when I was on here and got offered sex more from there than here, majority wanted a loving last lasting relationship so take from that what you want
Oh I walk with my head up and talk to people but would not be on a sex site for sure, if I was happy with what I had."That would be your decision | |||
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"Love and sex are poles apart, me and my guy make love! Although ok ok sometimes maybe not its dirty sex with ropes etc etc you get the picture, but on the whole I adore being with ladies... It's not love it's fucking sex and list mighty fine too..... Your a long time dead!!!
You certainly are "As a long standing Member of fab which you seem to be, you must have known you would have been slated fair play to you lady. I'm just about finding my feet, but I'm honest, I don't follow the sheep! I can't give you an answer to your question, apart from what I said above... I love my man... But I also have a ball on here a proper laugh as I'm sure you did.. And hopefully will again. Enjoy yourself... It was just a question perhaps phrased the wrong way and got people's backs up!! I've never actually let rip on here yet lol.... Never had the need to! As yet! Chill enjoy each to their own cliche ... Enjoy your man ps.... Do you meet alone? Pmsl x | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
And you are? You take it in whatever way you want to love, I know what I am getting at even if you don't, maybe one day you will "I am the guy who knows more than you know, who remembers how you post for effect and like to stir things up then resort to tears as you are asking. You were asking when you said "And you are?" I presume and wanting an answer. | |||
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"If I was happily married and had eyes for only one would certainly not be on here. Would you walk around with your head down aswell and not look or dare talk to another male or female? Funnily enough I was on dating sites when I was on here and got offered sex more from there than here, majority wanted a loving last lasting relationship so take from that what you want
Oh I walk with my head up and talk to people but would not be on a sex site for sure, if I was happy with what I had.
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"If I was happily married and had eyes for only one would certainly not be on here. Would you walk around with your head down aswell and not look or dare talk to another male or female? Funnily enough I was on dating sites when I was on here and got offered sex more from there than here, majority wanted a loving last lasting relationship so take from that what you want
Oh I walk with my head up and talk to people but would not be on a sex site for sure, if I was happy with what I had.
That would be your decision
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
And you are? You take it in whatever way you want to love, I know what I am getting at even if you don't, maybe one day you will
I am the guy who knows more than you know, who remembers how you post for effect and like to stir things up then resort to tears as you are asking. You were asking when you said "And you are?" I presume and wanting an answer. "Seeing how I rarely posted back in the day proves how wrong you are, it was years ago love, get over it, I have!!! | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
And you are? You take it in whatever way you want to love, I know what I am getting at even if you don't, maybe one day you will
I am the guy who knows more than you know, who remembers how you post for effect and like to stir things up then resort to tears as you are asking. You were asking when you said "And you are?" I presume and wanting an answer.
Seeing how I rarely posted back in the day proves how wrong you are, it was years ago love, get over it, I have!!!"Oh come on...that's so a fib! You were a regular poster, and on a lot!  | |||
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"Not in the slightest, It's called banter, I do it in my job also, doesn't mean im gagging for it "People get paid for stirring shit? Off to bed now to gaze into each others eyes and talk about how happy we are and wouldn't ever shag anybody else. Unless a good offer comes up.. | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
And you are? You take it in whatever way you want to love, I know what I am getting at even if you don't, maybe one day you will
I am the guy who knows more than you know, who remembers how you post for effect and like to stir things up then resort to tears as you are asking. You were asking when you said "And you are?" I presume and wanting an answer.
Seeing how I rarely posted back in the day proves how wrong you are, it was years ago love, get over it, I have!!!"Only all day and all evening on the forums why do you feel the need to lie about that. Oh and Tony is definitely not on here anymore so you won't find him. | |||
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"Not in the slightest, It's called banter, I do it in my job also, doesn't mean im gagging for it
People get paid for stirring shit?
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"Love and sex are poles apart, me and my guy make love! Although ok ok sometimes maybe not its dirty sex with ropes etc etc you get the picture, but on the whole I adore being with ladies... It's not love it's fucking sex and list mighty fine too..... Your a long time dead!!!
You certainly are
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Member of fab which you seem to be, you must have known you would have been slated fair play to you lady. I'm just about finding my feet, but I'm honest, I don't follow the sheep! I can't give you an answer to your question, apart from what I said above... I love my man... But I also have a ball on here a proper laugh as I'm sure you did.. And hopefully will again. Enjoy yourself... It was just a question perhaps phrased the wrong way and got people's backs up!! I've never actually let rip on here yet lol.... Never had the need to! As yet!
Chill enjoy each to their own cliche ... Enjoy your man ps.... Do you meet alone? Pmsl x"Hallellujah someone who actually gets it, in no way did I post this to put peoples backs up, I love fabs cos it made me see sense, but that is my story, im not slating what anyone does on here, we all have our own reasons, I did it for the thrill and have this profile purely to nosey and see what's happening. I wish everyone the best and to be the honest the haters are gonna hate no matter what I say or do so whatever lol | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
And you are? You take it in whatever way you want to love, I know what I am getting at even if you don't, maybe one day you will
I am the guy who knows more than you know, who remembers how you post for effect and like to stir things up then resort to tears as you are asking. You were asking when you said "And you are?" I presume and wanting an answer.
Seeing how I rarely posted back in the day proves how wrong you are, it was years ago love, get over it, I have!!!
Only all day and all evening on the forums why do you feel the need to lie about that. Oh and Tony is definitely not on here anymore so you won't find him. "Blimey says alot about your stalker tendencies, yes I did spend alot of time on here so what, you must've aswell to know when I was and wasn't on | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers "it is neither to fulfil a fantasy or because we are bored. I love making love to my husband (nothing beats it) but it's not the same feelings I get from having sex with others. And that is what it is, just sex. Hubby loves seeing me enjoy myself. We have been together 20 years and have been through many things together and have Much better sex now than we did 20 years ago so don't think we are bored with each other. .... Who knows. It just works. Seems like the op has a problem as they had to convince themselves that they were happy swinging. .....I would say not the life style choice for you op. | |||
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We're having the most amazing time exploring our sexual fantasies together and have made some great friends. Swinging couples are by no means bored with each other etc lol but are lucky to have found their pervy soulmate that they can truly be themselves with
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
And you are? You take it in whatever way you want to love, I know what I am getting at even if you don't, maybe one day you will
I am the guy who knows more than you know, who remembers how you post for effect and like to stir things up then resort to tears as you are asking. You were asking when you said "And you are?" I presume and wanting an answer.
Seeing how I rarely posted back in the day proves how wrong you are, it was years ago love, get over it, I have!!!Oh come on...that's so a fib! You were a regular poster, and on a lot! "I commented alot, I hardly posted, I left that to you and Matt and others | |||
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"... Many years ago I was a regular on Fabs and convinced myself I was happy meeting random 'strangers' for sex until I met someone who changed my life. I didn't make it easy for Mr O but he didn't give up and 4 years later we are still together and got married earlier this year. We only have eyes for each other and couldn't even imagine inviting anyone else into our sex life. I'm curious as to why couples both married and unmarried seek the company of others? Is it to fulfil a fantasy? Is it cos you're bored rigid with each other sex wise but want to stay together cos you can't bear to be apart? Looking forward to your answers
What's your view on why people swing when in a relationship. Are you as yet not secure enough in your relationship to swing now?
Haha my husband floats my boat and more so no need to even think of swinging thanks
Why are you hear then why do you have a profile that's over a year if you feel no need? Is it so you can persuade him to play at some point if not why didn't you delete when you achieved utopia?
Oh dear you have alot to learn sunshine, for one if it wasn't for fabs we wouldn't have met so will always have a special connection with it, and just because I have an account on here doesn't mean I use it everyday infact before this week I haven't been on here for a year. As the description on our profile says im here for the banter on the forums only. If you think im on here cos I secretly want to shag everyone and anyone and miss it then you are barking up the wrong tree
I don’t really have a lot to learn I was asking you why you kept a profile live if you had not even slight thoughts on returning to the scene. The banter on the forums is has changed over the last 3 years if you were returning for the banter I would have assumed a fresh profile would have been put up that’s unless you were looking for Tony who isn’t here anymore or doesn’t use the forums.
So why keep the profile alive I am intrigued why if you were not planning on playing at some point as love for most on here don’t change everything due to a lot being secure in their relationships.
Looks like the same old forum to me and why would I need a new profile? And who's Tony?
Tony was the guy In Milton Keynes you threw your hat at that and were madly in love with as far as I remember.
You still haven't answered why you kept your couples profile alive yet deleted singles ones if you were not using the forums and honestly had no intention of playing.
Oh him pmsl I was in love with alot of people and i've already answered your question honey
No you haven't really answered you just avoided the question. Most won't really remember you these days I guess but some do remember antics from years gone by and all that happened without the rose tinted glasses. Its an interesting question you have chosen to put up though but I would say its been presented in a tactless manner that could have been presented in a less offensive manner.
And you are? You take it in whatever way you want to love, I know what I am getting at even if you don't, maybe one day you will
I am the guy who knows more than you know, who remembers how you post for effect and like to stir things up then resort to tears as you are asking. You were asking when you said "And you are?" I presume and wanting an answer.
Seeing how I rarely posted back in the day proves how wrong you are, it was years ago love, get over it, I have!!!
Only all day and all evening on the forums why do you feel the need to lie about that. Oh and Tony is definitely not on here anymore so you won't find him.
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