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Should i stay or should i go now...
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So recently i have had a few people say they are interested in meeting me and i have had to tell them i'm not meeting at the moment. But i feel bad for doing so
The reason i'm not meeting at the moment is because i have recently got into a relationship and she doesn't know i am on here 
I initially signed up because i like looking at the pictures and watching the cams.
I do want to tell my gf that i'm on this site and maybe ask her if she would like to create a couples profile but if i'm honist im scared of what her reaction would be.
Am i wrong for still being here now i have a gf? and do you think i should leave? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spin it round.
How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot ? Be honest don't think with your dick !
Scenario ; you start having a really good time together and after maybe 4 months when youre starting to think hey this is going somewhere she announces she's on here out the blue.
You kick off. She says , but I was only chatting. How do you feel ? |
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"Now I'm singing.. If you don't there will be trouble  
Haha i thought the catchy headline would attract people to my question  The dilemma that i'm facing is i think she would actually like it on here or even attending a few clubs. she is rather kinky in the bedroom and loves sex lol But iv'e been coming on this site everyday for the past few months and if i leave i think i would miss it too much."
Only you know your girlfriend but please don't confuse loving sex and being kinky with wanting to swing. Only broach the subject if you are fairly sure she'd go for it. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Spin it round.
How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot ? Be honest don't think with your dick !
Scenario ; you start having a really good time together and after maybe 4 months when youre starting to think hey this is going somewhere she announces she's on here out the blue.
You kick off. She says , but I was only chatting. How do you feel ?"
Wise words.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
It's your life and you take the consequences of your actions.
Perhaps hide you profile and take down your pictures, try and stay away for a few days before you decide to delete.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you need to ask yourself what are you going to miss if you don't login everyday, probably not much lol...!
hide your profile for a while & go and have fun in the outside world with your girlfriend.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I'm singing.. If you don't there will be trouble
Haha i thought the catchy headline would attract people to my question The dilemma that i'm facing is i think she would actually like it on here or even attending a few clubs. she is rather kinky in the bedroom and loves sex lol But I've been coming on this site everyday for the past few months and if i leave i think i would miss it too much."
You could always broach the subject and see how it goes from there. Good luck in what ever you do decide. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hide the profile for the moment and focus on what's important, your new girlfriend. Get to know her, then over time you might be able to progress into said ventures when you're both in the right place maybe. |
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Thanks for the advice everyone I think i'm going to hide my profile for now and see how i feel about telling her in the future. I've already told her that i used to be on a webcam website and she seemed to like the idea of all the people watching me, which is why i thought she would be interested in joining me on here.
But there was some valid points raised in this thread and made me think twice about being too hasty about telling her.
Thanks again for the advice, hope you all enjoy the rest of your evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Treat people how you would like to be treated yourself is a good marker 
She's real - you're now potentially reading a message from a 95 year old In a care home who passes his time away taking the piss out of "full balls = empty head" which is manriders mantra. but it could be true |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Thanks for the advice everyone I think i'm going to hide my profile for now and see how i feel about telling her in the future. I've already told her that i used to be on a webcam website and she seemed to like the idea of all the people watching me, which is why i thought she would be interested in joining me on here.
But there was some valid points raised in this thread and made me think twice about being too hasty about telling her.
Thanks again for the advice, hope you all enjoy the rest of your evening "
Move your pictures to private as well - just in case. |
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