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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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and already I've probably just had my second prospective meet fall through on me.
Oh well, gotta take the rough with the smooth haven't you, sort the wheat from the chaff, the red skittles from the green skittles...erm some other analogy
Anyway, my question to you is thus - what would you say your meets arranged to meets actually being fulfilled ratio is?
Feel free to do it in a percentage instead if you like, my threads are a pluralistic democracy. |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
Masked and Distant |
May I please apply to join the non whinging man group.
Enjoying the forums and chat and errrrm pic "research" 
Looking forward to the day when the distance from me thingybob says on top of you now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all comes down to early communication and contact.
Yes there are timewasters on this site, but I've never personally had one.
I have had 3 meets "Fall through" which have in nearly all cases been re-arranged.
Life happens, mostly things outside of your control.
I've not had this problem and I've had a fair few meets, it's all down to communication and intent from both sides.
Good to see ya back man and good luck bro!  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I've had 4 cancellations in total of 4 years!
3 I was totally expecting and didn't come as any surprise, 1 tried to reschedule but never happened, again I didn't really try to hard as felt it was more for wank fodder  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"If you check the veri it sais web cam, not meets lol."
Yes, but his OP says prospective meets. His question is abut ratios of failed meets. Take from that that two prospects didn't work out - nothing lost there but hope. It is not a failed meet until they fail to show up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does the verification on my profile have to do with anything?
Because its the verifications that sais how many meets you had "
He is asking a separate fucking question.
Give the dude a break. |
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I've had about 3 cancellations and I've cancelled about 3 but as they were in advance it doesn't matter. Only had one timewasting couple who arranged to meet then on the day...boom!...gone. I know the general area they were in and won't meet anyone from that area now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you check the veri it sais web cam, not meets lol.
Yes, but his OP says prospective meets. His question is abut ratios of failed meets. Take from that that two prospects didn't work out - nothing lost there but hope. It is not a failed meet until they fail to show up."
Ah right I see yes and your right there as well, I missed that out lol  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only been back a week but in my previous life on Fab it was 100% I don't meet often, had a couple of last minute cancellations but never a no show. Welcome back and good luck for your next meet. 3rd time lucky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few we have met socially and would like to meet again, distance family life, work, pennies... The list is endless....
It can take months.... To try and arrange something when we are all free :/ this I find is the main problem....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a few we have met socially and would like to meet again, distance family life, work, pennies... The list is endless....
It can take months.... To try and arrange something when we are all free :/ this I find is the main problem.... "
We have had to cancel 2 meets... Which was rescheduled...
And another.... To be continued
So I'd say perhaps 90% ?? |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I've had about 3 cancellations and I've cancelled about 3 but as they were in advance it doesn't matter. Only had one timewasting couple who arranged to meet then on the day...boom!...gone. I know the general area they were in and won't meet anyone from that area now. "
Bloody hell, hope they weren't from Hove or that's you fucked (or rather, not fucked) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, i've had a few meets now and a couple more planned. So, at the moment it has been 100 per cent.
Mind you, I only meet when someone invites me round and I rarely ask someone 'let's meet' (i'm weird like that - hopefully they know I want to meet them as we speak a lot lol)
..so, it all depends on me really and whether I turn up.
Welcome back and good luck. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"and already I've probably just had my second prospective meet fall through on me.
Oh well, gotta take the rough with the smooth haven't you, sort the wheat from the chaff, the red skittles from the green skittles...erm some other analogy
Anyway, my question to you is thus - what would you say your meets arranged to meets actually being fulfilled ratio is?
Feel free to do it in a percentage instead if you like, my threads are a pluralistic democracy."
I'm not sure because I can't be bothered to think through and count. I've had a couple of no shows.
Anybody letting you down must be insane. Hot, literate and intelligent men on here are in the minority  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"What does the verification on my profile have to do with anything?
Because its the verifications that sais how many meets you had "
You are oddly obsessed with some things, including other men's verifications.
As I've pointed out to you before, not everyone writes verifications for meets and not everyone displays them all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"and already I've probably just had my second prospective meet fall through on me.
Oh well, gotta take the rough with the smooth haven't you, sort the wheat from the chaff, the red skittles from the green skittles...erm some other analogy
Anyway, my question to you is thus - what would you say your meets arranged to meets actually being fulfilled ratio is?
Feel free to do it in a percentage instead if you like, my threads are a pluralistic democracy.
I'm not sure because I can't be bothered to think through and count. I've had a couple of no shows.
Anybody letting you down must be insane. Hot, literate and intelligent men on here are in the minority "
You're going to make me blush! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"and already I've probably just had my second prospective meet fall through on me.
Oh well, gotta take the rough with the smooth haven't you, sort the wheat from the chaff, the red skittles from the green skittles...erm some other analogy
Anyway, my question to you is thus - what would you say your meets arranged to meets actually being fulfilled ratio is?
Feel free to do it in a percentage instead if you like, my threads are a pluralistic democracy.
I'm not sure because I can't be bothered to think through and count. I've had a couple of no shows.
Anybody letting you down must be insane. Hot, literate and intelligent men on here are in the minority
You're going to make me blush!"
 Yeah, right! (Prove it  ) |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"and already I've probably just had my second prospective meet fall through on me.
Oh well, gotta take the rough with the smooth haven't you, sort the wheat from the chaff, the red skittles from the green skittles...erm some other analogy
Anyway, my question to you is thus - what would you say your meets arranged to meets actually being fulfilled ratio is?
Feel free to do it in a percentage instead if you like, my threads are a pluralistic democracy."
No matter how much you take the rough with the smooth,
no matter how much,you sort the wheat from the chaff,
no matter how pluralistic the democracy is.
you came back,knowing the odds,and yet,your first op,is a thinly disguised whinge,dressed as a question.
Such is life,Get over yourself.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If becoming a little irked at people flaking out when it comes to arranged meet ups makes me a little full of myself then sure, so be it
I'll add a few smileys on the end to make it not appear like a surly comment |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"If becoming a little irked at people flaking out when it comes to arranged meet ups makes me a little full of myself then sure, so be it
I'll add a few smileys on the end to make it not appear like a surly comment "
Are you feeling surly? Didn't you just watch Rugby. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"If becoming a little irked at people flaking out when it comes to arranged meet ups makes me a little full of myself then sure, so be it
I'll add a few smileys on the end to make it not appear like a surly comment "
Lol
No need for the smileys,they wouldn't really change the context.
A whinge with a smile,is a whinge none the less.
(did they work for you) |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I've had 4 sexy encounters, had to reschedule 1 of them, so I guess that's 80% success (is that right? maths was never my thing). "
75%. It would be 80% if you had 5 meets and one was cancelled. |
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"I've had 4 sexy encounters, had to reschedule 1 of them, so I guess that's 80% success (is that right? maths was never my thing).
75%. It would be 80% if you had 5 meets and one was cancelled."
There were 4 successful ones and 1 that was rescheduled, so arrange meetings 5 times but only met 4 times. Is it right now? |
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"Potential meet for Monday, will I get the hat trick?!"
Welcome back young man (I wondered where you'd gone) and fingers crossed the potential becomes real.
If a failed meet means No Show then my stats are 100%. I am guilty of having cancelled meets ahead of time because of other priorities but I've always rearranged them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Potential meet for Monday, will I get the hat trick?!
Welcome back young man (I wondered where you'd gone) and fingers crossed the potential becomes real.
If a failed meet means No Show then my stats are 100%. I am guilty of having cancelled meets ahead of time because of other priorities but I've always rearranged them. "
Bonjour!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes life happens.
I have a 2 strike rule. I don't need to wait around and have my time wasted. The worst part is I've had to strike on guys who I have met before, then they just no show, no message, no apology.
Then message a week later asking to meet again. No way sunshine, here's the door, watch your tush on the way out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes life happens.
I have a 2 strike rule. I don't need to wait around and have my time wasted. The worst part is I've had to strike on guys who I have met before, then they just no show, no message, no apology.
Then message a week later asking to meet again. No way sunshine, here's the door, watch your tush on the way out. "
Quite right! |
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"Sometimes life happens.
I have a 2 strike rule. I don't need to wait around and have my time wasted. The worst part is I've had to strike on guys who I have met before, then they just no show, no message, no apology.
Then message a week later asking to meet again. No way sunshine, here's the door, watch your tush on the way out. "
I'm taking notes!! I really ought to toughen up  |
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4 let downs in 2 years so not so bad we think. Our latest one was today from a regular that normally books a hotel near us for some fun but work had moved him to a different party of the country for next week. We like him and will find the time for him anytime he likes. Anyone else lets us down though we would never arrange to meet again  |
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"Potential meet for Monday, will I get the hat trick?!
Welcome back young man (I wondered where you'd gone) and fingers crossed the potential becomes real.
If a failed meet means No Show then my stats are 100%. I am guilty of having cancelled meets ahead of time because of other priorities but I've always rearranged them.
Bonjour!
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Bonjour |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay 
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north... "
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary? |
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary? "
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!!  |
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!! "
Watch out for that one quiffy! She'll want to watch - she's pervy like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!! "
To save time (and petrol) I suggest we turn this into a group activity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!!
To save time (and petrol) I suggest we turn this into a group activity "
Sounds like a wondrous idea |
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!!
Watch out for that one quiffy! She'll want to watch - she's pervy like that. "
I watch of course with a flogger and a whip in hand |
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!!
To save time (and petrol) I suggest we turn this into a group activity "
Shall we all come to yours ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!!
To save time (and petrol) I suggest we turn this into a group activity
Shall we all come to yours ?? "
I'll get the kettle on, but be gentle with me |
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!!
To save time (and petrol) I suggest we turn this into a group activity
Shall we all come to yours ??
I'll get the kettle on, but be gentle with me"
They might...he he! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and already I've probably just had my second prospective meet fall through on me.
Oh well, gotta take the rough with the smooth haven't you, sort the wheat from the chaff, the red skittles from the green skittles...erm some other analogy
Anyway, my question to you is thus - what would you say your meets arranged to meets actually being fulfilled ratio is?
Feel free to do it in a percentage instead if you like, my threads are a pluralistic democracy."
Well I'm happy (or arrogant) enough to say I have only been let down ONCE and that person did try to reschedule n came over all apologetic but I still declined. I dunno what the successful formulae are but in my case I don't meet same day n quite a tonnage of mail flows between potential meets n myself- so maybe that's the key |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite right!
Move to Cleethorpes.
I'd have no where to stay
With a detour to Leeds.
I think that can be arranged
Well if you're coming up north...
Am I going to have to set up an itinerary?
Come west first and I'll be your chauffeur. Surely there'll be a little place for me on the spare beds!!
To save time (and petrol) I suggest we turn this into a group activity
Shall we all come to yours ??
I'll get the kettle on, but be gentle with me
They might...he he! "
I won't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Potential meet for Monday, will I get the hat trick?!
You could have a potential on weds if you like too, I'm in Pompey "
Oooofftt! If only I wasn't working  |
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex! "
Who ARE these madwomen?? Hmmmmm, are you sure they are actually women....???? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex!
Who ARE these madwomen?? Hmmmmm, are you sure they are actually women....????"
The world's gone mad! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex! "
Who are these crazy women! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex!
Let me comfort you "
Please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex! "
That's what happens when your quality control slips below me... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex!
That's what happens when your quality control slips below me..."
Glasgow it is then! |
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex!
Let me comfort you
Please"
Are you free to meet for a social daytime next week? I'll let you choose a halfway point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex!
Let me comfort you
Please
Are you free to meet for a social daytime next week? I'll let you choose a halfway point "
Sure! I'll only really be free on Sundays until after Christmas though |
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"I think my third meet is about to fall through! Good lord what an appalling run of form I'm on, a fella could start to develop a complex!
Let me comfort you
Please
Are you free to meet for a social daytime next week? I'll let you choose a halfway point
Sure! I'll only really be free on Sundays until after Christmas though"
Aww maybe after Xmas then.  all week ends are busy till New Year. |
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