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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

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By *igSuki81Man  over a year ago

Retirement Village

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By *issBehavingxxWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

Some "people" ... Men / Women / Couples on here, more than likely would shag anything.... Some are a bit more selective.

It's not exclusive to men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Break it to me gently lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No for me .there has to be some attraction

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

"

I understand where you are coming from on this. I sometimes get messages from young, fit, good looking guys and I can't help but think WTF! why are you messaging an overweight, middle aged woman, I just don't get it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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lol did you think about what you just said Bro

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By *igSuki81Man  over a year ago

Retirement Village


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

"

Simple Answer - Attraction is important but not just physical

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By *eeBee67Man  over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I think its more like the guys on here only get the chance to fuck women who find THEM attractive.

But personally no, I would only meet and play with someone I found a connection with.

Well that is until Ive been on here for 2 years not met anyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Physical attraction is important initially, anyone who say otherwise is lying imo. After the first "oooh, he/she's fit" moment there has to be a mental connection too (for me at least), there's no point shagging Angelina Jolie if she's as dumb and ignorant as a Jeremy Kyle reject...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 21/11/13 07:38:54]lol did you think about what you just said Bro "

I saw it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think there is some truth in what your saying here , mainly because of the mix of people on the site , ie ) 500 guys for every one woman . That mix out in the real world is 50/50 so changes the dynamics totally .

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By *igSuki81Man  over a year ago

Retirement Village


"[Removed by poster at 21/11/13 07:38:54]lol did you think about what you just said Bro "

yes i did amd then realised how it could be misinterpreted so had to elaborate

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By *igSuki81Man  over a year ago

Retirement Village


"[Removed by poster at 21/11/13 07:38:54]lol did you think about what you just said Bro

I saw it anyway "

Im sowwy i read it back straight away and realised it wasnt what i meant. Its too early in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

"

I believe there are some very attractive women and men on this site, but then we all have different ideas as to attractiveness. But to answer your question, attraction is very important, I personally would not message someone that I was not attracted to, whether the attraction be a beautiful cock, a cute arse, awesome tits or whatever.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I think there is some truth in what your saying here , mainly because of the mix of people on the site , ie ) 500 guys for every one woman . That mix out in the real world is 50/50 so changes the dynamics totally . "

I think this is very true. Perhaps when guys get caught up in the FAB bubble they start to lower their expectations because they get so many rejections purely down to the lack of availability because of the sheer numbers of guys to girls.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im waiting for someone to admit to shagging anything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im waiting for someone to admit to shagging anything "

When I was 17, maybe...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me someone could have a face like a bag of broken spanners but then there would be something about their eyes that attracts me to them, attraction is hard to explain

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Im waiting for someone to admit to shagging anything "

Lol unlikely I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"For me someone could have a face like a bag of broken spanners but then there would be something about their eyes that attracts me to them, attraction is hard to explain"

I love that expression

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By *igSuki81Man  over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Im waiting for someone to admit to shagging anything

Lol unlikely I know "

i'll shag anything - but cant find that user name on the site

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not for me. I have to actually like them. Personality Is part of the attraction.. I do feel that many women wont give most men on here the time of day though so there is something to this argument

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Not for me. I have to actually like them. Personality Is part of the attraction.. I do feel that many women wont give most men on here the time of day though so there is something to this argument "

Personality is hard to get across in text though, don't you find?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At what point did you decide that was exclusive to men?...

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By *udistnorthantsMan  over a year ago

Desborough


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old "

nothing wrong with that

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By *udistnorthantsMan  over a year ago

Desborough


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

I understand where you are coming from on this. I sometimes get messages from young, fit, good looking guys and I can't help but think WTF! why are you messaging an overweight, middle aged woman, I just don't get it!"

Some of the best meets i have had on other sites have been with so called "overweight middle-aged women" They were confident in themselves,, didn't have any body hangups and were up for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

to be honest, its a bit disrespectful to call anyone 'anything'

and when someone has that opinion, I'd be likely to tell them they are just a 'hole', as its none of their business who I shag, I can move on and find another person, and not think I've lost out on the shag of my life.

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By * n zCouple  over a year ago

leamington spa


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

"

From what I've seen at a couple of partys some woman will too .......

A

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old "

I have the body of a 44 year old......he's just too big to bury!

sorry..back to seriousness. I totally get that, it's hard as you get older, having to come to terms with your body aging, you really don't want to be compared to the younger generation (I don't even want to remember they exist)

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im waiting for someone to admit to shagging anything "

I've got an alessi cheesegrater that I've never shagged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old

I have the body of a 44 year old......he's just too big to bury!

sorry..back to seriousness. I totally get that, it's hard as you get older, having to come to terms with your body aging, you really don't want to be compared to the younger generation (I don't even want to remember they exist)"

The veri I'm referring to is of a women in her 40s who has the body of a 21 year old. I however am not so blessed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I must admit I look at some veris and wonder if the guy is just fucking anything But maybe there was more than physical attraction their or they saw something I didn't.

Saying that, one of my meets admitted he shagged a minger just to get verified so others would meet him, he refused to display her veri.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I must admit I look at some veris and wonder if the guy is just fucking anything But maybe there was more than physical attraction their or they saw something I didn't.

Saying that, one of my meets admitted he shagged a minger just to get verified so others would meet him, he refused to display her veri. "

Would be very wary of anyone who says something like that. People who bad mouth strangers to you will invariably do the same about you to others just to make their own shrivelled egos feel better. Men will shag most things, animal vegetable or mineral. We used to say put a log in a dress on cam and they will tell it it is the most amazingly beautiful thing in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I draw the line at animals, children, smelly people, rude, unpleasant, those that don't appeal to me, no sense of humour, and not in the UK !

Does that make me fussy ?

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I draw the line at animals, children, smelly people, rude, unpleasant, those that don't appeal to me, no sense of humour, and not in the UK !

Does that make me fussy ? "

You're so totally up yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Admitedly my choice of word "anything" was not great. I Was struggling to put into words the post anyway. Apologies.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I draw the line at animals, children, smelly people, rude, unpleasant, those that don't appeal to me, no sense of humour, and not in the UK !

Does that make me fussy ? "

Wanna borrow of my cheesegrater?

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By *randmrsminxyCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

I would say this is true , once while on my travels stopped at a well know dogging location for cup of tea at the burger bar there . A woman in her late 50s appeared and would say poss size 16 . well the car were empty as she and hubby went into the bushes followed by 8 guys with ages from late 20s to middle 40s . they did not follow her to go twitching ????

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon

So I guess the answer is that yes some men will shag anyone, and also some women will shag anyone. At least everyone is getting a shag...except for the foxhat cos he's too fussy!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Saying that, one of my meets admitted he shagged a minger just to get verified so others would meet him, he refused to display her veri.

Would be very wary of anyone who says something like that. People who bad mouth strangers to you will invariably do the same about you to others just to make their own shrivelled egos feel better. Men will shag most things, animal vegetable or mineral. We used to say put a log in a dress on cam and they will tell it it is the most amazingly beautiful thing in the world."

It did make me . Although he did display my veri and wanted to keep seeing me but I made it clear that anything he said to me I had heard before. He called me beautiful and how he didn't know what I saw in him, I just gave him 'the look'

Blocked him when he started getting jealous so no doubt he is bad mouthing me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yes I find over the top compliments a bit disconcerting. Telling me I'm the sexiest lady - I think some must be trying to convince themselves

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would say this is true , once while on my travels stopped at a well know dogging location for cup of tea at the burger bar there . A woman in her late 50s appeared and would say poss size 16 . well the car were empty as she and hubby went into the bushes followed by 8 guys with ages from late 20s to middle 40s . they did not follow her to go twitching ????"

so she was old and fat is what u are saying?..or the other 8 guys were mingers....

thanks for the insight lol

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By *unky monkeyMan  over a year ago

in the night garden

I only have sex with blue women. (preferably with three breasts)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

"

Haha its a woman's world here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

Haha its a woman's world here x"

But I don't want guys meeting me who don't find me attractive. Major turn off. But how do you decipher between guys who do find me attractive and those that just want a shag and aren't fussy.

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By *unkydesignCouple  over a year ago

Manchester

Neither of us have and never would play with somebody we didn't find attractive. It probably limits our fun but we both have to mutually fancy the other person and would never "take one for the team". It wouldn't be fair either on us or the other person, we're all here to enjoy ourselves after all aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But how do you decipher between guys who do find me attractive and those that just want a shag and aren't fussy. "

That comes down to intuition.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can't really win on here I've been on here over a year I think with only one verification , not because I've only met one person but because most you'd rather not meet again either because there pic doesn't show them as they are or because they just wasn't what you wanted which is fine as it's all about fun and experimenting but the point I make is for guys like myself I do have standards I don't do bad off the sight so don't feel to lower my standards BUT in reality sometimes you do a little it's not often you meet a woman who's stunning body of a god and open minded so you might settle for less , saying that I've met people who may not be your usual and have suprised me ! Also you can't win either way like someone else said the ratio is totally different guys to girls which means for starts girls can have pic of the bunch which really they should anyway but for instance I get replys all the time saying people won't meet and there reason is I don't have enough verifications ! But I can't get them without people meeting in which case you'd have to lower your standard just to get verifications or just fuck anything and be branded as the guy with no standards !

NOW WHOS UO FOR SOME FUN ?

I do woman , chickens , dogs , cats , and anything else with a pulse at fought the last chicken wouldn't verify me so you'd have to be cute

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"But how do you decipher between guys who do find me attractive and those that just want a shag and aren't fussy.

That comes down to intuition."

Well being honest im getting a bit of self doubt that I don't have this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Over the top compliments, trying to convince you're special etc make me nervous and think I'm probably just a hole to them.

Also wanting a quick meet, eg bypassing the social stage or if I feel they are ashamed to be seen with me in public.

I don't mean heavy petting in public but generally leaning in towards me as we chat, sitting close, a touch of my leg or waist. The things that you would give away most couples while out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But how do you decipher between guys who do find me attractive and those that just want a shag and aren't fussy.

That comes down to intuition."

Agreed and good communication.

If you can talk /message someone about random stuff and hold a really decent conversation about anything except sex then that's generally a good indicator. To me it shows they're attracted to 'the whole' rather than just 'the hole'.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

Haha its a woman's world here x

But I don't want guys meeting me who don't find me attractive. Major turn off. But how do you decipher between guys who do find me attractive and those that just want a shag and aren't fussy. "

You probably wont ever know....guys just say stuff girls want to hear and girl get to meet guys who would never date them or have for a girlfriend in reality...its a crazy world this swinging business

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But I don't want guys meeting me who don't find me attractive. Major turn off. But how do you decipher between guys who do find me attractive and those that just want a shag and aren't fussy. "

When they come back for more you can safely assume they are at least attracted - I can't see that happen if they were disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There has to be physical and mental attraction for me

What anyone else does is up to them x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes I find over the top compliments a bit disconcerting. Telling me I'm the sexiest lady - I think some must be trying to convince themselves "

NO !!!!!

You mean when they tell me that its not true !! They just want sex!? !!!!! Shit !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But how do you decipher between guys who do find me attractive and those that just want a shag and aren't fussy.

That comes down to intuition.

Agreed and good communication.

If you can talk /message someone about random stuff and hold a really decent conversation about anything except sex then that's generally a good indicator. To me it shows they're attracted to 'the whole' rather than just 'the hole'."

Saved me typing it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

I understand where you are coming from on this. I sometimes get messages from young, fit, good looking guys and I can't help but think WTF! why are you messaging an overweight, middle aged woman, I just don't get it!"

Why would they message you? Possibly because you look bloody fantastic!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Some "people" ... Men / Women / Couples on here, more than likely would shag anything.... Some are a bit more selective.

It's not exclusive to men."

This ^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think the guy that invented the " Fleshlight" must fall into this category . He was obviously out using his torch one time and got a bit of a horn on and thought " this is inconvenient , I have the horn and there is no sexy lady here gagging to fuck me. wouldn't it be great if I could just fuck my torch should this occur again ! "

I am currently working on the "flesh screwdriver"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think the guy that invented the " Fleshlight" must fall into this category . He was obviously out using his torch one time and got a bit of a horn on and thought " this is inconvenient , I have the horn and there is no sexy lady here gagging to fuck me. wouldn't it be great if I could just fuck my torch should this occur again ! "

I am currently working on the "flesh screwdriver" "

Lol very funny

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes I find over the top compliments a bit disconcerting. Telling me I'm the sexiest lady - I think some must be trying to convince themselves "

I know what you're saying,Mrs Bendy often gets messages aling the lines of 'wow, you are the sexiest woman on here' etc.

What I will say is (man talking here) that women often think prettiness equals sexiness. As a bloke I'm far more likely to get horny about a random woman in Asda than someone like Scarlett Johansson. What the media deem as attractiveness, isn't what gets all blokes going 'phwwoooooaaar'!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you can talk /message someone about random stuff and hold a really decent conversation about anything except sex then that's generally a good indicator. To me it shows they're attracted to 'the whole' rather than just 'the hole'."

Very true. Well put.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

I understand where you are coming from on this. I sometimes get messages from young, fit, good looking guys and I can't help but think WTF! why are you messaging an overweight, middle aged woman, I just don't get it!"

You're right that attraction is different for different people and there are different things that you can attribute towards attraction.

I find some curvy women attractive and I find some slim women attractive, some women have an amazing smile, some have beautiful eyes and thats what kick starts the attraction.

In your case, you've got a delicious figure, a sexy smile and you're very pretty so I can totally understand why you get quite a few emails.

S

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Watch the webcams for a few minutes.you will see men compliment any woman.just to get a response.they would laugh at the same woman in the pub if she tried her luck.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


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I understand where you are coming from on this. I sometimes get messages from young, fit, good looking guys and I can't help but think WTF! why are you messaging an overweight, middle aged woman, I just don't get it!"

Lol, honey, you need to get it - you look totally voluptuous in your pics, and when they pester you to meet again and again you know for sure they were not bluffing! It's the same on the dating sites anyway, and no verifications sought or shortage of young ladies there.

Give in - there's some gorgeous creatures dying to meet mature women!

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By *udistnorthantsMan  over a year ago

Desborough


"Yes I find over the top compliments a bit disconcerting. Telling me I'm the sexiest lady - I think some must be trying to convince themselves

I know what you're saying,Mrs Bendy often gets messages aling the lines of 'wow, you are the sexiest woman on here' etc.

What I will say is (man talking here) that women often think prettiness equals sexiness. As a bloke I'm far more likely to get horny about a random woman in Asda than someone like Scarlett Johansson. What the media deem as attractiveness, isn't what gets all blokes going 'phwwoooooaaar'!"

One of the Till girls at my local Lidl is definately phwwooooaaarr

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes a fucks a fuck but a least make sure the person or people your doing with are not in need of the brown paper bag. Its a shame that some men don't have very high standards and just feel the need to fuck anything with a pulse, Thankfully my mr s is not one of them we are no posh and becks but still has to be an attraction lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I only have sex with blue women. (preferably with three breasts) "

You should move to Thurso, next to the nuclear power station. Its f**king freezing up there..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm just grateful anyone wants to shag me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So I guess the answer is that yes some men will shag anyone, and also some women will shag anyone. At least everyone is getting a shag...except for the foxhat cos he's too fussy!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Fuck it I'm giving up I'm going back to plastic. At least my vibe doesn't care what I look like !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some "people" ... Men / Women / Couples on here, more than likely would shag anything.... Some are a bit more selective.

It's not exclusive to men."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old "

You will also have the maturity and experience of a 40 year old....

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By *unky monkeyMan  over a year ago

in the night garden


"I only have sex with blue women. (preferably with three breasts)

You should move to Thurso, next to the nuclear power station. Its f**king freezing up there.. "

really??? *adds Thurso to sat nav*

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By *igSuki81Man  over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Yes I find over the top compliments a bit disconcerting. Telling me I'm the sexiest lady - I think some must be trying to convince themselves "

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By *igSuki81Man  over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Fuck it I'm giving up I'm going back to plastic. At least my vibe doesn't care what I look like !"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm just grateful anyone wants to shag me

"

I've been running around for weeks looking for the end of the damned rainbow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old

You will also have the maturity and experience of a 40 year old.... "

It can make a change for them to spend some time with a grown up person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fuck it I'm giving up I'm going back to plastic!"

Using your credit card?

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By *izzy RascallMan  over a year ago

Cardiff


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

"

No I wont just 'shag' anything. Its far too deep to explain in a forum post

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old

You will also have the maturity and experience of a 40 year old....

It can make a change for them to spend some time with a grown up person. "

But these are women older than me (mid 40's) with bodies like 21 year olds.

They have all the maturity and the body.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm just grateful anyone wants to shag me

I've been running around for weeks looking for the end of the damned rainbow "

What do you expect living up there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fuck it I'm giving up I'm going back to plastic!

Using your credit card? "

Only to buy more batteries

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old

You will also have the maturity and experience of a 40 year old....

It can make a change for them to spend some time with a grown up person.

But these are women older than me (mid 40's) with bodies like 21 year olds.

They have all the maturity and the body. "

Just because you think someone has a good body, doesn't mean everyone will agree. Hard to explain but there's someone for everyone. Just because you don't think someone is attractive, someone else may think they are the horniest person alive.

Yes, some will say you're gorgeous just to get in your knickers, but others will mean it.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old

You will also have the maturity and experience of a 40 year old....

It can make a change for them to spend some time with a grown up person.

But these are women older than me (mid 40's) with bodies like 21 year olds.

They have all the maturity and the body.

Just because you think someone has a good body, doesn't mean everyone will agree. Hard to explain but there's someone for everyone. Just because you don't think someone is attractive, someone else may think they are the horniest person alive.

Yes, some will say you're gorgeous just to get in your knickers, but others will mean it.

xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I think I'm having a confidence wobble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think I would shag any woman x just being honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

some would, yes

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I think I would shag any woman x just being honest!! "

Give that man a biscuit for being honest!

And then take it away for being disrespectful!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Define attraction ? There's no accounting for taste.

Some men will shag anything these tend to be needy or desperate types though.

Also some fit younger men think they're doing the 'munter' a favour by shagging her,which of course is absolute nonsense.

If someone shags a person who they don't find attractive regardless of their gender,then only they know the real reason why imo.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think I would shag any woman x just being honest!!

Give that man a biscuit for being honest!

And then take it away for being disrespectful!

"

At least he helps with my filters

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

"

Blimey no I couldn't just perform wiv anyone - there needs to be an attraction.

Couple years ago I got into a 6 some with some folk. I didn't find one if the women at all attractive n gave her a wide berth the whole time. Luckily enough other guys provided her pleasures but I steadfastly was going nowhere near lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think I would shag any woman x just being honest!!

Give that man a biscuit for being honest!

And then take it away for being disrespectful!

At least he helps with my filters "

A point well made

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some "people" ... Men / Women / Couples on here, more than likely would shag anything.... Some are a bit more selective.

It's not exclusive to men."

this is correct. There is no rule of thumb for half a species, just certain people be they male or female. Personally attraction is a must

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Baaa baaaaaaa baaaaaaaa! Ö...

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Only time I did have meanness sex it lead to meaningless remorse afterwards, plus I find cerebral sex stimulating, so to me I need to connect.

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By *andy_tomMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Some "people" ... Men / Women / Couples on here, more than likely would shag anything.... Some are a bit more selective.

It's not exclusive to men."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think I would shag any woman x just being honest!! "

pity you dont live nearer.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think I would shag any woman x just being honest!!

pity you dont live nearer."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ladies now now

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By *rtemisiaWoman  over a year ago

Norwich


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

I understand where you are coming from on this. I sometimes get messages from young, fit, good looking guys and I can't help but think WTF! why are you messaging an overweight, middle aged woman, I just don't get it!

Some of the best meets i have had on other sites have been with so called "overweight middle-aged women" They were confident in themselves,, didn't have any body hangups and were up for a laugh"

I really think that is the key. A woman must know how to enjoy her own body before she can hope to enjoy anyone else's. Sexy is as sexy does.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"I would say this is true , once while on my travels stopped at a well know dogging location for cup of tea at the burger bar there . A woman in her late 50s appeared and would say poss size 16 . well the car were empty as she and hubby went into the bushes followed by 8 guys with ages from late 20s to middle 40s . they did not follow her to go twitching ????

so she was old and fat is what u are saying?..or the other 8 guys were mingers....

thanks for the insight lol"

Your words not mine , i would never say she was old or fat , just stated she was older and larger , the guys that were following her were quite content sitting in the cottage zone but changed there mind at the thought of pussy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No not all guys will shag anything ......cane toads do though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was thinking of meeting a guy but a scan through his veri's and I'd seen him comment about a lady " she had a body like a 21 year old". It's really put me off. I have a body of a 40 year old "

I have left verifications for a couple of men saying they were good looking before now, doesnt mean i didnt enjoy having sex with the men i didnt find as good looking though, so i supose it could be the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

when you say anything do you mean animal, mineral or vegetable

and does a bag warm of liver count

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester

The longer his dry spell the more likely a guy's standards will drop

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The longer his dry spell the more likely a guy's standards will drop"

the dry spell has been so long even the tumble looks appealing

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"The longer his dry spell the more likely a guy's standards will drop

the dry spell has been so long even the tumble looks appealing "

I was going to say 3 weeks is hardly a dry spell but then I had another look and realised your last veri was Nov 2012, not this year. I really hope that wasn't your last time

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Only time I did have meanness sex it lead to meaningless remorse afterwards, plus I find cerebral sex stimulating, so to me I need to connect. "

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By *tretchme1TV/TS  over a year ago

Abergele

I would

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The longer his dry spell the more likely a guy's standards will drop

the dry spell has been so long even the tumble looks appealing

I was going to say 3 weeks is hardly a dry spell but then I had another look and realised your last veri was Nov 2012, not this year. I really hope that wasn't your last time "

no

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"The longer his dry spell the more likely a guy's standards will drop

the dry spell has been so long even the tumble looks appealing

I was going to say 3 weeks is hardly a dry spell but then I had another look and realised your last veri was Nov 2012, not this year. I really hope that wasn't your last time

no

"

Good, I don't feel so bad for you now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No definitely not

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By *rtemisiaWoman  over a year ago

Norwich


"No definitely not"

Hero!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So ive seen a few comments over the years from guys stating this site is full of average looking women punching above their weight by meeting younger good looking lads, who apparently would not give these women a second look ordinarily, but hey a fucks a fuck it would seem.

Is attraction unimportant to you guys ?

I really don't like the thought of shagging someone who doesn't find me attractive. I'm more than just a hole....

I understand where you are coming from on this. I sometimes get messages from young, fit, good looking guys and I can't help but think WTF! why are you messaging an overweight, middle aged woman, I just don't get it!

Some of the best meets i have had on other sites have been with so called "overweight middle-aged women" They were confident in themselves,, didn't have any body hangups and were up for a laugh

I really think that is the key. A woman must know how to enjoy her own body before she can hope to enjoy anyone else's. Sexy is as sexy does. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would say this is true , once while on my travels stopped at a well know dogging location for cup of tea at the burger bar there . A woman in her late 50s appeared and would say poss size 16 . well the car were empty as she and hubby went into the bushes followed by 8 guys with ages from late 20s to middle 40s . they did not follow her to go twitching ????"

so a woman who is size 16 and in her 50's is classed as shagging anything then. feeling quite offended. i am in my 50's and also a size 16

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would say this is true , once while on my travels stopped at a well know dogging location for cup of tea at the burger bar there . A woman in her late 50s appeared and would say poss size 16 . well the car were empty as she and hubby went into the bushes followed by 8 guys with ages from late 20s to middle 40s . they did not follow her to go twitching ????

so a woman who is size 16 and in her 50's is classed as shagging anything then. feeling quite offended. i am in my 50's and also a size 16 "

there is hope for you then, just pick the right car park when the light is fading

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Full balls = empty head.

Beauty is only a light switch away.

Any hole is a goal.

we have all gone to bed with a stunner and woken up next to Quasimodo, ( beer goggles)

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