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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most the messages we receive are from guys who haven't read our profile.
On the odd occasion we do get a message from someone who matches what we're looking for, the chances of both being available at the same time again reduces the probability of a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheer up guys,neither of you look that bad,don't ever let this place knock your confidence,its a numbers game a lot of the time and most definately not personal to you as people don't know you yet  |
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Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. |
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"Cheer up guys,neither of you look that bad,don't ever let this place knock your confidence,its a numbers game a lot of the time and most definately not personal to you as people don't know you yet "
Yep totally agree! |
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
Only the persevering will survive. And the ones that can spell! |
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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago
Hampshire |
"Now the only replies & laughs im gettin r from a guy,show me the rope,lol,cheers tho mate hope u get sum luck soon  "
Aaaw thanks mate ..but to be honest I spend more time in the forums having a read and a laugh at some of the posts. Gave up messaging.
Don't show your tooooo keen ...let them come to you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanx 2innotts i always make sure i read all of profile,wud be crazy not to,need all the help i can get,lol & def understand the availabilty thing,wont give up tho,lol!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanx 2innotts i always make sure i read all of profile,wud be crazy not to,need all the help i can get,lol & def understand the availabilty thing,wont give up tho,lol!!"
You'd be amazed at how many guys just use the scatter gun email method!
So check your own profile to make sure you match what they're after.
eg. Does you age range include theirs?
Is your smoking / not smoking ideal accurate - a lot have the default "wont meet smokers" and then contact people like us who do smoke.
Sexuality and where you will meet is another thing. |
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"Swingerdelight ur a right barrell of fun 2day,its friday u know,lol,def not in line to b a Samaritan lol"
well you did ask. Just saying it the way I see it. If you don't want the answers then don't ask the question. And sorry if this offends
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
Lol like this but I think tv/ts are more popular then people think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
^^
Ooooooh. I'm at the top of the food chain 
First time for everything! Generally I'm too much of a short-ass to be first in line |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ratio is 400 men to 1 woman..... I rest my case lol
Where did you find that statistic? "
probably out of his ares, isnt that where most of them come from on here |
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"Ratio is 400 men to 1 woman..... I rest my case lol
Where did you find that statistic?
probably out of his ares, isnt that where most of them come from on here "
Ares, Greek god of war, son of Zeus and Hera? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cant accom
short profile (wouldnt say its particularly bad, just not that informative)
and a bad pic of yourself.
better than some, worse than a lot of guys that are meeting.
saying that, you are verified, so you are getting SOME action |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality.
Lol like this but I think tv/ts are more popular then people think. "
Im more impressed by the single bi male. Bravo.
Also, commiserations single (not hung) straight male
.............. oh wait thats me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been around these kind of sites for 3 years and chated to loads of women, and thats the number they said as we discused that how many messages they got. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
Near the bottom of swinging chain - so the only way is upwards and onwards |
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"I have been around these kind of sites for 3 years and chated to loads of women, and thats the number they said as we discused that how many messages they got."
Ah, so blue September was right then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been around these kind of sites for 3 years and chated to loads of women, and thats the number they said as we discused that how many messages they got.
Ah, so blue September was right then. "
Yes it looks that way lol  . |
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
The bottom half of your list is way off for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, in my experience. Lots of cranks, and then the really cool women are just so far out of my way. But fuck it, new women join every day and the forums are a good distraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
Whose arse did you pull that out of?
There is someone for everyone.
A lot of it comes down to profile and convo.
If single guys (I am one) took there foit off the fucking peddle and let ladies actually message THEM FIRST..you might get somewhere.
Firing cut and paste messages, which are OBVIOUSLY cut and paste will get it deleted and/or blocked.
Who knows, one of those spammed ladies might have contacted YOU.
But you're now blocked or unread/deleted.
Guys that struggle on here are those that expect every woman they message to drop their pants and absolutely fuck all to do with any semantic "food chain" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didnt post this 'swing chain' thing but surely if im at the bottom of a 'swing' chain i shud be 'swinging' the most,side to side up & down c'mon guys its friday be happy,im the one whos not getting any action lately,lol!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
Top of the good chain. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
ha ha ha this hierarchy of swing has made me giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality.
Lol like this but I think tv/ts are more popular then people think. "
Ooooooo first for once lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality.
Top of the good chain. "
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality.
Lol like this but I think tv/ts are more popular then people think.
Ooooooo first for once lol "
Not always best coming first,,;-)
Can I add ff couple (especially those that would like to meet me,  ,) top of the list,,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
That puts us in the middle, we like being in the middle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple with a bi female we shouldn't be doing that bad! Dunno what we are doing wrong! But we have had a lot of messages, it's just people either seem to waste your time or they are clearly fake......
.....or men that look like John Goodman... You would be surprised in that one...
Ahh well! Early days! Just wish we could find somebody sexy for me to pay with to get more verifications! C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site wudnt half knock ur confidence,lol,unread messages,no replies & time wasters. "
Sounds par for the course, it's the pleasures we guys have to accept.
Having said that, have had the odd meet or two, or three, or.......!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site wudnt half knock ur confidence,lol,unread messages,no replies & time wasters.
Sounds par for the course, it's the pleasures we guys have to accept.
Having said that, have had the odd meet or two, or three, or.......!! "
"Odd" i think is the keyword here...... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Swingerdelight ur a right barrell of fun 2day,its friday u know,lol,def not in line to b a Samaritan lol"
but that is kinda the point......
you have to find a way of standing out from everyone else on the site.... so the question I would ask is "how have you tried to do that?"
what makes you different from others.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site wudnt half knock ur confidence,lol,unread messages,no replies & time wasters.
Sounds par for the course, it's the pleasures we guys have to accept.
Having said that, have had the odd meet or two, or three, or.......!!
"Odd" i think is the keyword here...... "
Do I know you??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
Oh pfft n bubble butts I'm in at position number 6 
Unless of course I'm actually at number 10 as the painful truth of reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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moaners are the lowest of the hierarchy...
but even lower?-
Those who dont go OUT and USE the AREAS that PEOPLE are MEETING...and of course then blame fab,then blame 'idiots''timewasters''fakes' for their failure on fab
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging food chain
Single Bisexual Female
Single Straight Female
Couple with bi Female
Straight Couple
Bisexual Couple
Single Bisexual Male
Single TV / TS
Single (Hung) Straight Male.
Single (Not hung) Straight Male.
The painful truth of reality. "
However that is your opinion but not mine |
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"moaners are the lowest of the hierarchy...
but even lower?-
Those who dont go OUT and USE the AREAS that PEOPLE are MEETING...and of course then blame fab,then blame 'idiots''timewasters''fakes' for their failure on fab
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Actually that is very true. Go to socials make an effort to chat.
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