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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol no they are people I bumped into at eurekas and started chatting and the guy is with the one woman so counts as two verification  and yeah I am straight he has separate profile not as a couple??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U have had 4 meets wiv 3 sets of people (admittedly 2 at a club) I woulda thought for 3Months on here that isn't a poor return
The unable to accom may b a sticking point perhaps tho I see u explain why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I know I just don't get what I am doing wrong I send nice message instead of winks even trying the forums!!! Aghhh oh well keep trying "
But as someone else has already pointed out you have 3 verifications?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah two off same person one off her bloke and other there friend lol so only two really! Yeah I will keep trying but not really getting anywhere thought it may be my pics or my profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.
Anyone want to help me out?"
Oh dear!
YOU do seem to have been unlucky altho I note u haven't used the site much in the year u have been on. No veri's doesn't look good for that length of time n maybe folks don't bother even reading the profile?
If me was you i 'd probably delete my account n rejoin to start afresh |
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What confidential stuff have you got at home? I'd probably have it locked away so then you would be able to accommodate. Sounds like you leave confidential stuff lying about.
3 veris in 3 months is good going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.
Anyone want to help me out?
Webcam veri?
Thats an idea but does that count?"
It proves that your photos are of you which is the main concern for women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do security and close protection work so I can't have people stay its hard to explain on here lol but no don't leave stuff around and also have two 12 stone rottweilers living in house that are security trained so not good |
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"What confidential stuff have you got at home? I'd probably have it locked away so then you would be able to accommodate. Sounds like you leave confidential stuff lying about.
3 veris in 3 months is good going. "
I have confidential client information at home too: doesn't stop me meeting as I've discovered this thing called cabinets, and they have locks too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah two off same person one off her bloke and other there friend lol so only two really! Yeah I will keep trying but not really getting anywhere thought it may be my pics or my profile? "
Have you considered that it could be your chosen user name? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes true! So do I anyway does that really have the main reason why I don't get much luck as I can't accommodate? "
Probably. A few gals might take your 'confidential papers' to mean a marriage certificate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No!!! I said I do close protection I can't have people in my house "
But what's close protection got to do with a lass being in your home? Is it fear of a honeytrap?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No Aghhh I can't explain its complicated as said I do close protection as in security for very famous people etc I can't put anymore on here as more than my jobs worth. Its ok I will just wait thanks anyway |
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"No!!! I said I do close protection I can't have people in my house "
So, have you thought about where you plan on meeting people??
The "cant accommodate" will not be the only thing stopping you getting meets, but it's part of it and will be the reason for some people. I for one will not have anyone in my house who won't have me in there's
Also agree on the username... If I saw that on a search or something on here I would assume you were looking for men not women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No Aghhh I can't explain its complicated as said I do close protection as in security for very famous people etc I can't put anymore on here as more than my jobs worth. Its ok I will just wait thanks anyway "
Was just asking! Even James Bond had the odd bird back at his place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get chatted to from time to time..i wondering if " the master and sub" thing frightens people..we are what we are..be interested in your views...nette  |
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"I do security and close protection work so I can't have people stay its hard to explain on here lol but no don't leave stuff around and also have two 12 stone rottweilers living in house that are security trained so not good "
Close protection and security and can't have people in your house, but happy to have your face picture on view. May just take a pinch of salt with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do security and close protection work so I can't have people stay its hard to explain on here lol but no don't leave stuff around and also have two 12 stone rottweilers living in house that are security trained so not good Close protection and security and can't have people in your house, but happy to have your face picture on view. May just take a pinch of salt with that "
Security guard at Asda who takes his work home? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do security and close protection work so I can't have people stay its hard to explain on here lol but no don't leave stuff around and also have two 12 stone rottweilers living in house that are security trained so not good Close protection and security and can't have people in your house, but happy to have your face picture on view. May just take a pinch of salt with that
Security guard at Asda who takes his work home? "
Isn't that shoplifting? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah u got it I do security at Asda!! Wow u must of seen me there its proper hard core and loads of close protection work with all the dole addicts lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Take this how u want and prob I will get abuse!! But why do some people on this site feel the need to try to belittle others? Is it cause they feel bad about themselves and think they can say what they want as its a computer but bet majority wouldn't do it to your face!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah u got it I do security at Asda!! Wow u must of seen me there its proper hard core and loads of close protection work with all the dole addicts lol "
Hey, dn't worry about it mate! After all, the carrots need protection from those aubergines! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I can imagine that there will be a lot of single blokes who will be saying "2 meets in 3 months...... lucky chap!!!
so it does make me ask the questions "what were your expectations??"
in the end, the site is only one part of the jigsaw, clubs for example as you have been to them is another......and there are others things out there that will open avenues....
we were all new once, but it is a case of learning along the way.. and only you can do that, that can't be spoonfed.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah u got it I do security at Asda!! Wow u must of seen me there its proper hard core and loads of close protection work with all the dole addicts lol
Hey, dn't worry about it mate! After all, the carrots need protection from those aubergines! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - You're not a newbie! 3 months on site, 3 veris.
Your profile is ok but doesn't stand out from the crowd and if you approached me and I was interested - I'm not btw - then I would ask you lots of questions about why you can't accommodate. The security thing doesn't add up. I too have confidential stuff at home - doesn't stop me having friends back.
Enjoy fab, chill out a bit and make friends on the forum. They won't bite - well not all the time |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Take this how u want and prob I will get abuse!! But why do some people on this site feel the need to try to belittle others? Is it cause they feel bad about themselves and think they can say what they want as its a computer but bet majority wouldn't do it to your face!! "
The posts you don t like my suggestion ignore them or develop a thicker skin,, its an open forum people will and can post things we find irksome, if they break site rules mrs rugby or jezebel will be along to sit them on the naughty step,,
I thought I d read on one of your posts you lived with family because you worked away, if thats thecase be upfront about it, if iI ve got that wrong apologies,
Have fun, Don t take things too seriously,, |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I agree that something doesn't add up about the not accommodating thing.
You don't have to accommodate, not everyone does but a lot of women will suspect it means married and cheating. If the explanation sounds dodgy they are unlikely to meet.
OP, you're getting teased a bit about the security thing but really, look at what you've written and consider whether you should be surprised. You are coming over as having a bit of a "I could tell you but then I'd have to shoot you" top secret spy fantasy.
Something doesn't add up and my gut would say avoid. I just don't need confusion or complications and if I'm meeting someone I need to feel I can trust them. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I love to read & recently enjoyed a series of books by the author JD Nixon about a big strapping security boss called Heller, who in the first few books screwed an array of beauty's always in hotels. Nobody was allowed to bring women back to the place he lived with others (& was work base too).
Anyway I digress. You're a nice looking bloke who could score at any swingers club, so get your muscular butt in a few.
Happy shagging
Julie x |
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but I am not getting any luck at all.... help me???? 
what's wrong wiv being 51 ??
I remember it........... Vaguely 
