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By *uby0000 OP Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

i thought my stalker had gone but he text me to say he was there at my dads funeral on Friday in the distance this freaked me out completely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Go to the police, block them on your mobile and don't react or live it out in public... It will fuel it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought my stalker had gone but he text me to say he was there at my dads funeral on Friday in the distance this freaked me out completely "

Ooooooooh NASTY

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought my stalker had gone but he text me to say he was there at my dads funeral on Friday in the distance this freaked me out completely "

can u not block his number?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why hav'nt you blocked his number before now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought my stalker had gone but he text me to say he was there at my dads funeral on Friday in the distance this freaked me out completely "

Block and report him. ...aswell as as realising u reacting like this is exactly what he is looking for. ....don't react don't post on here and don't reply to him. He will get bored

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why hav'nt you blocked his number before now"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shit, that's bad, he sounds like a right loon xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OO a stalker, I want one

Behave u creep have some tact

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

He probably wasn't anywhere near you on Friday, they just read that it was on Friday and playing silly beggars for a reaction.

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

if you contact your mobile provider they will block the number

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By *uby0000 OP Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

"i thought my stalker had gone but he text me to say he was there at my dads funeral on Friday in the distance this freaked me out completely

Block and report him. ...aswell as as realising u reacting like this is exactly what he is looking for. ....don't react don't post on here and don't reply to him. He will get bored

hes not on here so wont read it and I cant block his number I tried before I had to go to the police before when he used to stand outside my house

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Go to the police, block them on your mobile and don't react or live it out in public... It will fuel it."

This! ^^

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By *uby0000 OP Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

"He probably wasn't anywhere near you on Friday, they just read that it was on Friday and playing silly beggars for a reaction. "

he was there he described stuff about the people there etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought my stalker had gone but he text me to say he was there at my dads funeral on Friday in the distance this freaked me out completely

Block and report him. ...aswell as as realising u reacting like this is exactly what he is looking for. ....don't react don't post on here and don't reply to him. He will get bored

hes not on here so wont read it and I cant block his number I tried before I had to go to the police before when he used to stand outside my house"

Back to the police then and demand action

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"He probably wasn't anywhere near you on Friday, they just read that it was on Friday and playing silly beggars for a reaction.

he was there he described stuff about the people there etc "

The police straightaway is my advice

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By *uby0000 OP Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

"i thought my stalker had gone but he text me to say he was there at my dads funeral on Friday in the distance this freaked me out completely

Block and report him. ...aswell as as realising u reacting like this is exactly what he is looking for. ....don't react don't post on here and don't reply to him. He will get bored

hes not on here so wont read it and I cant block his number I tried before I had to go to the police before when he used to stand outside my house

Back to the police then and demand action"

hes just freaked me out that's all

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

People who stalk or try to bully or intimidate others are very often cowards inside. I would not respond at all - for one they are not worth the effort but also by responding you are potentially fuelling their interest in you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly the only thing the police are likely to do until he causes harm is give him a telling off.

A friend had similar with her ex, until he battered her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if you contact your mobile provider they will block the number "

If you can't block the number, get it changed.

So sorry this is happening to you. x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Sadly the only thing the police are likely to do until he causes harm is give him a telling off.

A friend had similar with her ex, until he battered her."

havent the laws on stalking changed recently?

OP, what phone do you have? most have either block facilities or apps you can download

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Set him up get him don simples or is that just a scottish thing lol

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By *uby0000 OP Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Sadly the only thing the police are likely to do until he causes harm is give him a telling off.

A friend had similar with her ex, until he battered her.

havent the laws on stalking changed recently?

OP, what phone do you have? most have either block facilities or apps you can download"

my phone is ancient

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't believe theres no way of blocking his number,surely if you can't get an app that does it,the service provider will do it,especially if you've had police involvement

Id change my number

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By *uby0000 OP Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Sadly the only thing the police are likely to do until he causes harm is give him a telling off.

A friend had similar with her ex, until he battered her."

that helped lol no hes not a dangerous man at all

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Ring your phone provider and ask them to sort the block. If he is stalking you they will also inform the police but you also need to do this.

How do you know he is not on the site reading everything you have put about your dad in the last few weeks?

Maybe this is a wake up call about how much information people post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talking about having a stalker on a swinging site isn't clever, you are feeding him or her and giving him or her attention.

Get rid of your old numbers,

Take all your evidence, ie emails, saved texts, to the police.

You have an idea who he or she is,

( a gut feeling)

Stalkers tend to be someone who knows you, usually work colleagues or a family member, in some cases a spurned date or lover.

It can be the partner of someone you have met,

For your own safety I would go to ground for a while, maybe 6 months, maybe a year, but the police will advise you about this.

Never feed a fire.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"He probably wasn't anywhere near you on Friday, they just read that it was on Friday and playing silly beggars for a reaction.

he was there he described stuff about the people there etc "

Why are you engaging him? If you respond they continue: power and control: ignore him!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"People who stalk or try to bully or intimidate others are very often cowards inside. I would not respond at all - for one they are not worth the effort but also by responding you are potentially fuelling their interest in you.

My _iew too.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

"He probably wasn't anywhere near you on Friday, they just read that it was on Friday and playing silly beggars for a reaction.

he was there he described stuff about the people there etc

Why are you engaging him? If you respond they continue: power and control: ignore him!"

last time I ignored him he turned up at my door cos he worried abt me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly the only thing the police are likely to do until he causes harm is give him a telling off.

A friend had similar with her ex, until he battered her.

havent the laws on stalking changed recently?

OP, what phone do you have? most have either block facilities or apps you can download

my phone is ancient "

you can buy a new phone from asda for £10,

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Talking about having a stalker on a swinging site isn't clever, you are feeding him or her and giving him or her attention.

she already said he wasnt on here

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"He probably wasn't anywhere near you on Friday, they just read that it was on Friday and playing silly beggars for a reaction.

he was there he described stuff about the people there etc

Why are you engaging him? If you respond they continue: power and control: ignore him!

last time I ignored him he turned up at my door cos he worried abt me"

I am not sure this is the place for this.

You are best going to the relevant authorities.

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