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Bare back only seems crazy!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, people know the risks its upto them if they take them, i know a few people personally who meet on here and after a few meets they decide they trust them enough to start going bare, i would never trust anyone who was willing to fuck me bareback not matter how many times we have met, being a fuck buddy don't make you immune to infections and if they are willing to fuck me bare don't tell me they arnt offering other playmates the same deal 
but lots do this and that's their choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going off on a slight tangent - if you knew someone you were considering meeting played BB, would you meet and wear protection or politely decline and move on?
I'm in the decline and move on camp but how much faith do we put in protection? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How much faith do you put in them being 100% honest about their entire sexual history ????
They may well claim to always use condoms,but have witnessed many that dont do so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own, people know the risks its upto them if they take them, i know a few people personally who meet on here and after a few meets they decide they trust them enough to start going bare, i would never trust anyone who was willing to fuck me bareback not matter how many times we have met, being a fuck buddy don't make you immune to infections and if they are willing to fuck me bare don't tell me they arnt offering other playmates the same deal
but lots do this and that's their choice "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Going off on a slight tangent - if you knew someone you were considering meeting played BB, would you meet and wear protection or politely decline and move on?
I'm in the decline and move on camp but how much faith do we put in protection? "
So would you play with a couple if the husband didn't wear protection but you did?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way we see it is that is everyone's right to make a choice. If that's the choice they make then fair enough.
Is it for us? No way. But that is our choice 
At least if it is on a profile you can make an informed choice so that can only be good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love bareback but just not worth the risk in my eyes, my ex fwb and I used to bareback but had both been tested and were only seeing each other at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going off on a slight tangent - if you knew someone you were considering meeting played BB, would you meet and wear protection or politely decline and move on?
I'm in the decline and move on camp but how much faith do we put in protection? "
id still meet them, I'm sure i have met loads of guys who say they only play safe who don't so i see no difference really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I wouldn't. If someone says they play safe then I suppose you have to take their word and continue playing safe, but wouldn't be involved otherwise. Call it daft/personal preference/self preservation or whatever, but just not a road I want to travel down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't get the attraction of fucking complete strangers bareback personally.
Some people are just plain stupid and irresponsible I guess "
Not as stupid as those folk shagging around thinking they're any safer wearing a plastic poke!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, but it's definitely risky.
It also puts me off ... because God knows how many people they've been with and what said people might have.
I'm not really willing to chance it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just an observation nothing more , but the vast majority of penetration pictures I see on here are Bareback . "
Amazing isn't it. Always the same on here when this subject comes up, everyone gives the expected answer. Some will be being truthful, some won't. In away I admire those that admit to playing bareback for their honesty and not caring about being shotdown.
Bit like you say, amazing how many bareback pictures there are that were inevitably "taken with my ex". |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"I just don't get the attraction of fucking complete strangers bareback personally.
Some people are just plain stupid and irresponsible I guess
Not as stupid as those folk shagging around thinking they're any safer wearing a plastic poke! "
Of course they're "safer"! They're just not 100% protected, but 90% (or whatever) chance less of catching clap is safer by any definition
I've played with some who prefer bareback - and I know they play bare with others who will, I protect myself as much as possible with condoms and regular tests - so far, so good. Come the time I catch a dose whilst using a condom, then I'll consider only playing whilst wearing a hazmat suit and full breathing apparatus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This topic repeats often. I hate condoms and if I am in. Normal.one to one wont use them but only if the lady is happy and we are in a relationship of sorts. On Fab contacts its a 'hoody' on every time
Mosy people I have met are very safe sex oriented and long may that continue. Snipped too takes away a worry or two.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met maybe 30 or 40 people on here and probably a third play bareback ...look at my veris ..the people i meet are very attractive usually middle class nice people ...i do find the holier than thou procrastinating attitude re safe sex brigade on here slightly annoying . Sex is a risk but a very small one in comparison to the risks we all take every day of our lives . I have slept with around 1300 to 1500 hunderd women ball park estimate and have never contracted a sexually transmitted disease ...lucky ? yes but a risk im perpared to take to enjoy the wonderful frission of feeling truly close and intimate with a woman ...a clossness that can never be replicated with so called safe sex  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have met maybe 30 or 40 people on here and probably a third play bareback ...look at my veris ..the people i meet are very attractive usually middle class nice people ...i do find the holier than thou procrastinating attitude re safe sex brigade on here slightly annoying . Sex is a risk but a very small one in comparison to the risks we all take every day of our lives . I have slept with around 1300 to 1500 hunderd women ball park estimate and have never contracted a sexually transmitted disease ...lucky ? yes but a risk im perpared to take to enjoy the wonderful frission of feeling truly close and intimate with a woman ...a clossness that can never be replicated with so called safe sex "
It's probably ok for you hardly any of it goes in.. You could sit on the other sofa and do it haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have played with a few married couples where only I wore a condom.
Didn't give it a second thought really..
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I wouldn't think many married couples use a condom between themselves? I know we don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I have slept with around 1300 to 1500 hunderd women ball park estimate and have never contracted a sexually transmitted disease ...lucky ?"
That seems exceedingly lucky.
I never really cared about protection when I shagged around when I was younger and ended up catching something. It was horrible and I wouldn't like to go through it again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there was a profile from a female asking for bb then a update saying no more play I'm preg again !!! "
Haha I saw the same one she was sticking up meets every day saying B&b only the after about 3 days "I'm up the duff " haha
Who's the lucky guy haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there was a profile from a female asking for bb then a update saying no more play I'm preg again !!!
Haha I saw the same one she was sticking up meets every day saying B&b only the after about 3 days "I'm up the duff " haha
Who's the lucky guy haha"
There have been profiles of women purposely asking to be impregnated. I question their authenticity but you never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there was a profile from a female asking for bb then a update saying no more play I'm preg again !!! "
Saves getting the turkey baster dirty I suppose |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there was a profile from a female asking for bb then a update saying no more play I'm preg again !!!
Haha I saw the same one she was sticking up meets every day saying B&b only the after about 3 days "I'm up the duff " haha
Who's the lucky guy haha"
Christ, I spent half my life trying NOT to get pregnant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own, people know the risks its upto them if they take them, i know a few people personally who meet on here and after a few meets they decide they trust them enough to start going bare, i would never trust anyone who was willing to fuck me bareback not matter how many times we have met, being a fuck buddy don't make you immune to infections and if they are willing to fuck me bare don't tell me they arnt offering other playmates the same deal
but lots do this and that's their choice "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there was a profile from a female asking for bb then a update saying no more play I'm preg again !!!
Saves getting the turkey baster dirty I suppose "
Yuk ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a certain person should put a lucky dip on tomorrows euromillions lmao"
funny and youve promted me to have a punt ..will share with you if i win x
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I have played with a few married couples where only I wore a condom.
Didn't give it a second thought really..
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I would imagine all married couples wouldn't need to use condoms between each other |
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"I have played with a few married couples where only I wore a condom.
Didn't give it a second thought really..
I would imagine all married couples wouldn't need to use condoms between each other "
Some do. I have a friend who has serious side effects to other forms of contraception but she and her hubby are still considering another child. So until they decide that they don't want any more and he has the snip they use condoms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't get the attraction of fucking complete strangers bareback personally.
Some people are just plain stupid and irresponsible I guess
Not as stupid as those folk shagging around thinking they're any safer wearing a plastic poke!
Of course they're "safer"! They're just not 100% protected, but 90% (or whatever) chance less of catching clap is safer by any definition
I've played with some who prefer bareback - and I know they play bare with others who will, I protect myself as much as possible with condoms and regular tests - so far, so good. Come the time I catch a dose whilst using a condom, then I'll consider only playing whilst wearing a hazmat suit and full breathing apparatus "
Oooo....always a big turn on!
I've never caught anything ever! Not oral, anal or vaginal...the risks are different for everyone, if yer a worrier? Then by all means...suit up if it makes ye feel better, but that doesn't give you the right to call others "stupid" or "irresponsible" for making their own EDUCATED choices!! |
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