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Guys trying to sex textin girls who are part of a couple
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Occasionally but we make it quite clear that's not how we work or expect to interact with others. Often its people not thinking and being clear about things is the best option.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mostly when you put a stop to it they disappear altogether I find its not fair for one from each couple to spend days messaging and the other 2 left in the dark that's not a couple doing swing together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi has any couples found that you message a couple and the guys just want to sex text your partner all day leaving the other 2 partners out totally"
I tend not to message cpls for that very reason. I know where i'd be drawn and agree that if they come as a couple and that's how they play you shoildn't try to undermine.
However, if single play is an option......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No single play is not an option and yes I know it takes 2 but guys just keep at it trying to draw the female out offering phone numbers and kik pin when they are also part of a couple ????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then you also have to tell your OH to stop replying to the texts,a conversation usually works 2 ways "
Why give her number out in the first place? Get a play phone that you both use. If people keep asking for her number, stop contact with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We don't give out numbers at all my point is why do some guys who are part of a couple spend there days trying to get numbers and try sex textin even on fab with the female of a couple they plan to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't give out numbers at all my point is why do some guys who are part of a couple spend there days trying to get numbers and try sex textin even on fab with the female of a couple they plan to meet"
Because some guys are idiots. Just ignore them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had the male half of a couple mail me then gave me a number saying it was the female and can you text her telling her what you want to do with her etc because she likes that. It didn't end well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My idea of a couple in this is 2 people who are in it together just bugs me the way other guys always trying to get a chance to play away or just get there kicks from sexy messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid any texts before a meet - just the basics like checking if all ok and then ask for address a few hours before "
SO do I now. Too many men just want the texts and not the sex. Best sex I have is with men who don't want it or pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid any texts before a meet - just the basics like checking if all ok and then ask for address a few hours before
SO do I now. Too many men just want the texts and not the sex. Best sex I have is with men who don't want it or pics"
I've spoken to a fair few women about this and it's clear that the sex texters are the bullshitters and the no showers - hence I refuse to be lumped into that group |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We rarely (if ever) give our numbers out to people we haven't already met. Pretty much everyone can access the site from their phone so really don't see the point.
We also tend to be ambiguous as to who is writing messages on here (at least early on) but we still get some couples who try to take it down the cybersex route if they realise crystal is the one on line |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't give out numbers at all my point is why do some guys who are part of a couple spend there days trying to get numbers and try sex textin even on fab with the female of a couple they plan to meet
Because some guys are idiots. Just ignore them."
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We gave our numbers to the last couple we met but the girls swapped numbers and me and the other guy swapped numbers......that way the girls can chat about shopping and me and the bloke can chat about the girls  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid any texts before a meet - just the basics like checking if all ok and then ask for address a few hours before
SO do I now. Too many men just want the texts and not the sex. Best sex I have is with men who don't want it or pics"
I've found that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid any texts before a meet - just the basics like checking if all ok and then ask for address a few hours before
SO do I now. Too many men just want the texts and not the sex. Best sex I have is with men who don't want it or pics
I've found that too."
me too especially if it leads to repeat meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have had the reverse on a couple of occasions, where the female half of the couple has been quite flirty when they discover its H messaging.
the thing is, neither of us sends flirty messages anyway, they are functional about meeting up and where, and so on, so the whole cyber sex thing is wasted on us, we dont participate.
in person is a whole different matter, however. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have swapped numbers with a few couples we are friendly with. We use WhatsApp and set up a 4 way chat. That way everyone is part of the fun. It still gets very flirty sometimes but just means everyone can join in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have swapped numbers with a few couples we are friendly with. We use WhatsApp and set up a 4 way chat. That way everyone is part of the fun. It still gets very flirty sometimes but just means everyone can join in "
Did not know you could do that . How do you do that at least that way everyone can get involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go into the settings bit and choose new group. Add everyone's numbers from your contacts and give the group a name. You all get all the messages then.
Only thing you don't get is the delivery tick in group. But that doesn't really matter.
It works great for us and is a lot of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not so much had that, but like yesterday trying to get me away after I made it clear I have a master,all would of been ok until he tried to get me away, silly to himself..trying to make me into his anal cum slut...nette  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always work on the idea that it is a couple I'm talking to im always respectful. I want them both to feel fully included cause they are doing me the honour of allowing me into their life. I wouldn't dream of trying to impede into their relationship by sex texting the female partner only that's in my opinion disrespectful. unless they both asked for flirtatious messages to be exchanged prior to any meet but even then would keep it respectful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go into the settings bit and choose new group. Add everyone's numbers from your contacts and give the group a name. You all get all the messages then.
Only thing you don't get is the delivery tick in group. But that doesn't really matter.
Thank you for that info very helpful we must try that with genuine couples
It works great for us and is a lot of fun "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you for that info very helpful we must try that with genuine couples "
The other thing we do is give out my number before a meet only for practical reasons if asked. No one gets L's number until we have met and are happy. And then its straight onto group chat whether it is a couple or single  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ye we don't give out oh number at all . It's just pisses me off how guys who are part of a couple try this time and time again just because we are on this site does not mean it's a free for all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No single play is not an option and yes I know it takes 2 but guys just keep at it trying to draw the female out offering phone numbers and kik pin when they are also part of a couple ?????"
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi has any couples found that you message a couple and the guys just want to sex text your partner all day leaving the other 2 partners out totally"
We very rarely give out our number unless we have already met.
On the rare occasions that we might it is only once a meet has been confirmed and it is usually the day before.
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