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over a year ago
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just had a phone call from hell ....25 years ago my fiance died but also was the 25th anniversary of my first child been stillborn on sunday just gone ....went up on sunday and place flowers on her grave for her ....didnt manage to get up there today or get my best friend to do it who did it every year i was away from bradford ....just had a phone call from his mum saying how uncaring i am ....n how i could never have love him if i could forget this day ....... |
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Flowers on a grave don't mean you remember. Memories you hold in your heart are what make you remember people. I've never ever been to my Nan's grave since she passed and we were very close. I don't want to remember her that way. I tell my son stories about her and reminisce over photos.
His mum is probably is probably upset and lashing out but try not to let it get to you xx
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From your recent posts it sounds like you have more than enough on your plate and just because you didn't physically go doesn't mean you were thinking of him any less.
25 years is a long time to mourn someone and life does move on. It has to. |
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" From your recent posts it sounds like you have more than enough on your plate and just because you didn't physically go doesn't mean you were thinking of him any less.
25 years is a long time to mourn someone and life does move on. It has to. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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(((hugs))))
Some people are in there own bubble and are nasty x you know the truth in your heart x
Dont rise to it please x I bet you think of them every day so a once a year gesture that's missed is tiny but not an unforgivable sin
I bet she's had to wait this long for you to 'slip' to get her claws out x or perhaps cos it's near to Halloween her wittiness is still in her x  |
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"Flowers on a grave don't mean you remember. Memories you hold in your heart are what make you remember people.
His mum is probably is probably upset and lashing out but try not to let it get to you xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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i see my daughter in all of my children ...often wonder about how she would have been at all my childrens ages ...thats something that nothing every stops ...my love for him never has died ...its changed over the years ...at first hate for leaving me to deal with her death alone ...to a peace knowing he was with her been the great dad i knew he be .... |
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