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Im a wondering.....is it time ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To stop "swingling" ?
Its been on my mind since my op and i know i will never be that "agile" again.
I know guys like bedroom athletics and want it here there and everywhere ,so as not to be boring.....
I cant do that anymore so likes the more sensual semi "static" sex.  
So obviously, am i past it ????
Is there a time when you just have to give it up and live on the forums only ? ho hum   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont have to be swinging from the lampshade to have good sex.
you should always be having sex that you enjoy anyway, so if thats laying on the bed and being intimate, then there is nothing wrong with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm more of poster than a meeter - I've met 4 people for sex off site this year I think. Maybe less actually. I have fun in Cupids of course!
But the forums are bloody brilliant!
If this weekend is anything to go by I need at least 2 days to get over a meet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm sure it doesn't. Not all men want 'throw you around the bedroom' sex 
I know but i dont fancy any 99yr olds   "
Awww I'm sure there are younger and fitter men on here who love a bit of sensual fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's time to give it up when you're no longer getting any enjoyment from it. Only you know the answer to that. Not a bunch of forum posters. Good luck with whatever you decide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more of poster than a meeter - I've met 4 people for sex off site this year I think. Maybe less actually. I have fun in Cupids of course!
But the forums are bloody brilliant!
If this weekend is anything to go by I need at least 2 days to get over a meet!! "
Was you swining from the wardrobe ?   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When i do the deed, ive enjoyed.
As for "this bunch" of forum posters...
They have given me some good advice over the years and bucked me up when down.
So i do value their opinions  |
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I have a good friend that I enjoy 'calmer' sex with, so the 'intimate, curled up together type of sex' & I have a different friend for the more 'kinky/rough ready everywhere energetic' sex
Just find those that are looking for what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When i do the deed, ive enjoyed.
As for "this bunch" of forum posters...
They have given me some good advice over the years and bucked me up when down.
So i do value their opinions "
Yes all very well but if you don't know what's best for you, how do you expect them to? I would have thought it is something that is personal to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When i do the deed, ive enjoyed.
As for "this bunch" of forum posters...
They have given me some good advice over the years and bucked me up when down.
So i do value their opinions
Yes all very well but if you don't know what's best for you, how do you expect them to? I would have thought it is something that is personal to you."
Its not about not knowing whats best for me.
Its a thought running through my head and if in the vanilla world,i had that happening....i would discuss with my mate.
Thats all im doing...discussing it with my forum mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When i do the deed, ive enjoyed.
As for "this bunch" of forum posters...
They have given me some good advice over the years and bucked me up when down.
So i do value their opinions
Yes all very well but if you don't know what's best for you, how do you expect them to? I would have thought it is something that is personal to you.
Its not about not knowing whats best for me.
Its a thought running through my head and if in the vanilla world,i had that happening....i would discuss with my mate.
Thats all im doing...discussing it with my forum mates "
must be nice to go through life without the need to bounce ideas off other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When i do the deed, ive enjoyed.
As for "this bunch" of forum posters...
They have given me some good advice over the years and bucked me up when down.
So i do value their opinions
Yes all very well but if you don't know what's best for you, how do you expect them to? I would have thought it is something that is personal to you.
Its not about not knowing whats best for me.
Its a thought running through my head and if in the vanilla world,i had that happening....i would discuss with my mate.
Thats all im doing...discussing it with my forum mates
must be nice to go through life without the need to bounce ideas off other people."
Before you all start having a go at me, I wasn't being mean and clearly I misunderstood the question. Sorry to have offended everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When i do the deed, ive enjoyed.
As for "this bunch" of forum posters...
They have given me some good advice over the years and bucked me up when down.
So i do value their opinions
Yes all very well but if you don't know what's best for you, how do you expect them to? I would have thought it is something that is personal to you.
Its not about not knowing whats best for me.
Its a thought running through my head and if in the vanilla world,i had that happening....i would discuss with my mate.
Thats all im doing...discussing it with my forum mates
must be nice to go through life without the need to bounce ideas off other people.
Before you all start having a go at me, I wasn't being mean and clearly I misunderstood the question. Sorry to have offended everyone."
No problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no matter how you are ,if you feel like a sexy mood then go for it.people with all sorts of problems still enjoy there sex one way or another.so why should it stop you.of course if youve gone of the thought then thats a different matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you're past it.
lol..thanks "
I'm merely illustrating the point that when a question like this is asked, all you're ever gonna get is the answer "participants" think you want to hear.
Personally, I'm indifferent to your question, but I do wish you well.
I was just illustrating the point that no one is ever going to say it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes you're past it.
lol..thanks
I'm merely illustrating the point that when a question like this is asked, all you're ever gonna get is the answer "participants" think you want to hear.
Personally, I'm indifferent to your question, but I do wish you well.
I was just illustrating the point that no one is ever going to say it.
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Very true |
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