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over a year ago
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!"
i think its his gf that is being taken for a mug by the both of you more. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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" but it's still a lot of work to get him to come see me, and after we meet he always tells me I was fab
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He isn't gonna tell you that you were a shit shag is he.... also if it takes that much persuading to come and see you, I would ask myself, is it worth the bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!"
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Need advice on how to get my fb more interested! Always bring out my A game when I see him but it's still a lot of work to get him to come see me, and after we meet he always tells me I was fab
He has a gf though. Do you guys think that has something to do with it?   "
Simple solution to this. Change your fb  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need advice on how to get my fb more interested! Always bring out my A game when I see him but it's still a lot of work to get him to come see me, and after we meet he always tells me I was fab
He has a gf though. Do you guys think that has something to do with it? "
Too right it does he just having a fuck and go on the sly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How the response would have been different had a single guy started this?...
Just....a...thought.... 
Mine would still have been yes 
No its no!  "
No it's yes |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?"
But thats yet another assumption in itself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!"
What is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also OP, attached or not any fb of mine that I felt needed encouragement to see me would bot be an fb for long. There are hundreds of men to choose from. Why stick to one who can't be arsed? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!
What is?"
The one you made about who he lies to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I doubt she knows, but I had him first. She is an ex from a few years ago. It's fine though, most people on here are just bing hateful. I really like him which is the reason I asked but it's okay say nothing more about it guys. I know what I'm going to do about it now!!  "
I would talk to him if you like him its always good to talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your fuck buddies should be asking you when you're free. Get more than one and someone who doesn't have to be persuaded. I wouldn't bother if any of mine stopped showing interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I doubt she knows, but I had him first. She is an ex from a few years ago. It's fine though, most people on here are just bing hateful. I really like him which is the reason I asked but it's okay say nothing more about it guys. I know what I'm going to do about it now!! "
You had his cock first but not his heart.
And people aren't being hateful they are providing opinions like you asked for. The fact they aren't what you were hoping for does not make them hateful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thought we mostly had been honest? I've posted stuff before and didn't always like what was said but have learnt that if you ask for opinions you will get them and helpful ones too |
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!
What is?The one you made about who he lies to."
True but it turns out the gf doesn't know so maybe I'm a bit psychic |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!
What is?The one you made about who he lies to.
True but it turns out the gf doesn't know so maybe I'm a bit psychic "
So why is there an automatic assumption that he is lying to both? He may well do, but unless you have inside knowledge, how do you know? Your psychic abilities are shit hot there too I suppose?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!
What is?The one you made about who he lies to.
True but it turns out the gf doesn't know so maybe I'm a bit psychic So why is there an automatic assumption that he is lying to both? He may well do, but unless you have inside knowledge, how do you know? Your psychic abilities are shit hot there too I suppose?
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Yes they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honey he is using you, which is fine cos don't fuck buddies mutually use each other? It just sounds like this isn't mutual.
Your feelings are involved but it is plain his aren't. If he was to split up with this girl it is unlikely he'd see you in a different light and mentally connect with you. You're a booty call.
Sorry cannot say it nicer than that!
Get your arse out of there and don't fb with an attached person is the moral. |
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"Honey he is using you, which is fine cos don't fuck buddies mutually use each other? It just sounds like this isn't mutual.
Your feelings are involved but it is plain his aren't. If he was to split up with this girl it is unlikely he'd see you in a different light and mentally connect with you. You're a booty call.
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!
What is?The one you made about who he lies to.
True but it turns out the gf doesn't know so maybe I'm a bit psychic So why is there an automatic assumption that he is lying to both? He may well do, but unless you have inside knowledge, how do you know? Your psychic abilities are shit hot there too I suppose?
Yes they are"
You need to get your own chat show then. Jeremy Kyle eat your heart out, if you can sort this kinda thing as quick as you do , make money from it, you are never wrong, with psychic abilities like that you could go a long way!  |
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!
What is?The one you made about who he lies to.
True but it turns out the gf doesn't know so maybe I'm a bit psychic So why is there an automatic assumption that he is lying to both? He may well do, but unless you have inside knowledge, how do you know? Your psychic abilities are shit hot there too I suppose?
Yes they areYou need to get your own chat show then. Jeremy Kyle eat your heart out, if you can sort this kinda thing as quick as you do , make money from it, you are never wrong, with psychic abilities like that you could go a long way! "
Why do I feel this has gone beyond light hearted banter?
Yes, I made assumptions o. Information gleaned from the thread and perhaps personal experiences, so shoot me. If I'm wrong I'll admit I'm wrong. It's happened before and it sill happen again I'm sure. |
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over a year ago
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"When it starts to be all take..move on hun..does he go out for a drink to or anything with you? ...nette"
Nope it's sex, he pick me up, we do te deed, we go home simple as right? Not in my head though! Feelings are involved now! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?But thats yet another assumption in itself!
What is?The one you made about who he lies to.
True but it turns out the gf doesn't know so maybe I'm a bit psychic So why is there an automatic assumption that he is lying to both? He may well do, but unless you have inside knowledge, how do you know? Your psychic abilities are shit hot there too I suppose?
Yes they areYou need to get your own chat show then. Jeremy Kyle eat your heart out, if you can sort this kinda thing as quick as you do , make money from it, you are never wrong, with psychic abilities like that you could go a long way!
Why do I feel this has gone beyond light hearted banter?
Yes, I made assumptions o. Information gleaned from the thread and perhaps personal experiences, so shoot me. If I'm wrong I'll admit I'm wrong. It's happened before and it sill happen again I'm sure. "
Nothing personal, its from what YOU said, it appeared that you knew it all....its not about your experiences of men that have lied to YOU its about the OP.Transference isn't always helpful. |
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Ok..I know I may sound hard..but the man ain't making you smile no more..there is plenty that will..he will drag you down In the end..I've just looked there is 300plus single blokes online now..if he's giving you bollox ..your worth more than that...nette x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok..I know I may sound hard..but the man ain't making you smile no more..there is plenty that will..he will drag you down In the end..I've just looked there is 300plus single blokes online now..if he's giving you bollox ..your worth more than that...nette x"
Thanks darlin! I know what I'm going to do now! X |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"When it starts to be all take..move on hun..does he go out for a drink to or anything with you? ...nette
Nope it's sex, he pick me up, we do te deed, we go home simple as right? Not in my head though! Feelings are involved now!"
It's always very hard when you get emotionally attached. Try taking a step back for a while. It won't be easy. Good luck |
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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok..I know I may sound hard..but the man ain't making you smile no more..there is plenty that will..he will drag you down In the end..I've just looked there is 300plus single blokes online now..if he's giving you bollox ..your worth more than that...nette x
Thanks darlin! I know what I'm going to do now! X"
U deserve better!!!!! Give him the pointy boot up the butt and get some proper fun, u are worth more!!!!! Xx |
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"Then why does he bother coming in the first place! He says he doesn't like her and the constantly fight. Think I'm being taken for a mug!!!!
You can't be taken for a mug if you walked into the situation with full knowledge of the gf.
I'm not going to get all sanctimonious on you about playing with someone else's toys but you must be a bit naive to think that someone who lies to the person they are supposed to love will tell the truth to you, surely?"
Word! |
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"Have you considered putting the effort into establishing a stud of fbs so you have not only more choice but also more likelihood someone will be available when you want company?"
A stud of fbs
I tried this but they all end up getting jealous |
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"Need advice on how to get my fb more interested! Always bring out my A game when I see him but it's still a lot of work to get him to come see me, and after we meet he always tells me I was fab
He has a gf though. Do you guys think that has something to do with it? "
You're a fuck buddy, he has as a girlfriend (poor cow), why would he be more interested in you? You've accepted being his bit on the side, know your place or go and find your own man to pay attention to you!
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