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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I normally take it as their behaviour than their looks
I dont really like profiles stating their brilliance at performing,measurements,prowess
ESPECIALLY, when they say they are the BEST at it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me, the same goes to gents who think that are good looking/toned/fit/hung like a horse/etc. etc...
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I guess that goes for guys too but u sort of expect it! With women it's both a surprise and a turn off. It actually makes me want to bring them down a peg or two with some sarcastic humour but I'm a gent so keep quiet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a subjective description of someone that others may agree or disagree with dependant upon what criterion they use to assess sexiness.
Personally I find someone who describes themselves as a 'cumslut' is the definitive turn off for me. So essentially I guess we are all different in out likes/dislikes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a dislike of people who write "... or so I'm told", as if they do not know whether or not these properties are true.
False modesty is very off-putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything in their username that makes reference to the size/colour/ of their cock or any username that makes reference to they're sexual capabilites like Mrcumallnight or something stupid like that. Also put off by guys posing with their cars or flexing their muscles in the mirror |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway?  "
I agree with you but you can add arrogance and vanity to the list too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is a subjective description of someone that others may agree or disagree with dependant upon what criterion they use to assess sexiness.
Personally I find someone who describes themselves as a 'cumslut' is the definitive turn off for me. So essentially I guess we are all different in out likes/dislikes "
I don't think they describe themselves as a sexy or fit female is based on any criterior more there own advised opionion of themselves backed up by men with no self worth worshiping them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a slight twist, I look at mens profiles, and if it sounds like they have a big ego, I just move on, words that put me off, hung, vwe
Yes yes and yes. "
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I guess that goes for guys too but u sort of expect it! With women it's both a surprise and a turn off."
You think? Why is it expected of guys?
Here, given that ladies are in shorter supply than men, maybe it should actually be expected that more women have an ego about how desirable they are. I don't see why arrogance should be an expected trait in men but ugly in women.
I don't find thinking they're a gift to the world attractive in anyone, regardless of their sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do know what you mean and I guess it does a little. If I still liked them though I'd use my own judgment on the situation.
There can be such a fine line sometimes between confidence and arrogance and some people just don't know where to tread. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I don't often read too much into profile names (obviously, it took me ages to come up with mine as I'm a skinhead called Darren), sexy or hot is a state of mind in my opinion, though I may not necessarily find said person(s) sexy or hot, I'm fairly sure someone will...I have to say, very crude usernames do occasionally make me go  , but I prefer to let everyone run their profiles as they see fit so if "StuffMySexyCuntFullOfHotSpunk" want to call themselves that, then fair do's to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a subjective description of someone that others may agree or disagree with dependant upon what criterion they use to assess sexiness.
Personally I find someone who describes themselves as a 'cumslut' is the definitive turn off for me. So essentially I guess we are all different in out likes/dislikes
I don't think they describe themselves as a sexy or fit female is based on any criterior more there own advised opionion of themselves backed up by men with no self worth worshiping them."
Probably rolled in2 all this is an aspect that some people feel they have to 'sell' themselves to stand out from the competition.
Personally I've gone down the other route! I'm no longer toned nor can go all night, nor am a star in the duvet frolic dept and I state that in my profile. Probably it deters many people away from my profile but I believe in telling it like it is. For others I guess the opposite system works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess that goes for guys too but u sort of expect it! With women it's both a surprise and a turn off.
You think? Why is it expected of guys?
Here, given that ladies are in shorter supply than men, maybe it should actually be expected that more women have an ego about how desirable they are. I don't see why arrogance should be an expected trait in men but ugly in women.
I don't find thinking they're a gift to the world attractive in anyone, regardless of their sex."
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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If they call themselves hot and they are, what is the problem? A confident woman can be very sexy on its own.
What turns me off is looking at a username that is descriptive and when looking at the person it bears no resemblance to the photos. Lots of women do this as well as men, but because they are women, they get an easier time of it!
Brain in cock mentality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think they describe themselves as a sexy or fit female is based on any criterior more there own advised opionion of themselves backed up by men with no self worth worshiping them."
Oh dear |
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"I have a dislike of people who write "... or so I'm told", as if they do not know whether or not these properties are true.
False modesty is very off-putting."
Ha, or they think they're true when they are not anyway.....!! |
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"Profiles with a pic of the guys cock measured against a lynx can or sky remote. Why???? I actually saw one with a Pringles tube the other day lol xx"
Haha, was that the vending size or the really impressive version? |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
Turn off? All those who start their profile in a very negative way i.e wont meet this wont meet that, don't do this don't do that...If you are this don't bother contacting...if you don't do this don't talk to me...they just kill it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profils with a long shopping list is a turn of !
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Is that where they ask you to take them to Ann summers and buy lube, condoms, restraints, vibrator, anal toys, spanking implements...?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway? "
Cock or nipple piercings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a slight twist, I look at mens profiles, and if it sounds like they have a big ego, I just move on, words that put me off, hung, vwe"
anything that describes anyone that makes us think 'really?', without a hint of irony or humour, but deadly serious, puts us off.
would rather make our own minds up as to how we are supposed to perceive someone without being told how to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway? "
I think same when guys say sexy/hot/hung instant turn off as most when _iew pics doesn't live up to name they give themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a dislike of people who write "... or so I'm told", as if they do not know whether or not these properties are true.
False modesty is very off-putting."
Very much agree with this. Also, "I've had no complaints ..." |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I can lick for hours"
"I can breathe through my ears"
"I don't bite unless you ask me to"
Most/only pics are cock pics. Extra negative marks for sad looking flaccid ones.
Bareback.
Hairy backs.
Very hairy anything, particularly massive, wild pubic scrubland. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway? "
I've read some of these so-called "Sexy" or "Hot" type profiles and in all honesty they are so more the polar opposite of sexy & hot that you couldn't get any further from said statement.
I think some of these women think that by throwing on some sexy outfits and high heels or slut wellies then they transform into some "super hot sex goddess" when in all reality it's just not the case.
Now Dita Von Teese is another story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus, think I might go for a blank profile after reading all this...
There's nothing at all wrong with your profile as it is  I per...uh...check it often just to be sure "
Hah!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only really major turn off is 'victim mentality' even when life turns bad, it's only our choices that put us there.
We do take a lot of profiles with a pinch of salt, looking for a sexy experience not an advert writing degree. Many choices are made through forum posts though. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Jesus, think I might go for a blank profile after reading all this...
There's nothing at all wrong with your profile as it is I per...uh...check it often just to be sure
Hah! "
Still got that window open?  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Jesus, think I might go for a blank profile after reading all this...
There's nothing at all wrong with your profile as it is I per...uh...check it often just to be sure "
There is something wrong with his profile - his location! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'Professional' - hate that descriptor, it always makes me feel that the person describing themselves as professional are trying to come over as being a bit better than the rest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Professional' - hate that descriptor, it always makes me feel that the person describing themselves as professional are trying to come over as being a bit better than the rest."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything in their username that makes reference to the size/colour/ of their cock or any username that makes reference to they're sexual capabilites like Mrcumallnight or something stupid like that. Also put off by guys posing with their cars or flexing their muscles in the mirror "
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway? "
There is often a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Most of us cross it at some time or another......
Someone describing themself as sexy wouldn't put us off as long as they were not obsessed with keep telling us how wonderful/hot/sexy they are.
Major turns off include.....
Constant moaners/whingers
Needy attention seekers
Those who claim to the best at sex, ever!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway?
There is often a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Most of us cross it at some time or another......
Someone describing themself as sexy wouldn't put us off as long as they were not obsessed with keep telling us how wonderful/hot/sexy they are.
Major turns off include.....
Constant moaners/whingers
Needy attention seekers
Those who claim to the best at sex, ever!
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Major turns off include.....
Those who claim to the best at sex, ever!
How about those who claim to be distinctly mediocre and in need of a lot of practice? "
Now that is a major turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone describes themselves as'well i'm mad'. They never seem to be genuinly excentrict or intetesting just lack confidence and are tryong to hard. "
I find that in life as well as on here though - anyone who feels the need to advertise their degree of 'madness'clearly isn't all that crazy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't bite unless you ask me to"
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If I had a pound for every time I saw this I could literally have a whole week off work and not worry about losing money!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway? "
Same here x |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"[Removed by poster at 04/11/13 09:13:26]"
Oh heck I deleted it
Yes cockiness whether a man or woman is not attractive
If you're that hot just put a pic up ffs!
Ps if our profile describes me as fit believe me it's a typo it's supposed to say fat!!!
Julie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus, think I might go for a blank profile after reading all this...
There's nothing at all wrong with your profile as it is I per...uh...check it often just to be sure "
Hehehehehe ME too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone describes themselves as'well i'm mad'. They never seem to be genuinly excentrict or intetesting just lack confidence and are tryong to hard.
I find that in life as well as on here though - anyone who feels the need to advertise their degree of 'madness'clearly isn't all that crazy!"
TRUE
I NEVER mention I'm bonkers so hopefully nobody yet has noticed   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they call themselves hot and they are, what is the problem? A confident woman can be very sexy on its own.
What turns me off is looking at a username that is descriptive and when looking at the person it bears no resemblance to the photos. Lots of women do this as well as men, but because they are women, they get an easier time of it!
Brain in cock mentality? "
Why would that be a turn off? A username is just that! A name that a user decides to have. This has no really baring on the person. To me (just me and my own opinion) this is being way too picky! I do understand that a couple or females do have a varied choice but still that choice should be made on sound principles like pics, sexual compatibility, personality, not a simple username tag? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"If they call themselves hot and they are, what is the problem? A confident woman can be very sexy on its own.
What turns me off is looking at a username that is descriptive and when looking at the person it bears no resemblance to the photos. Lots of women do this as well as men, but because they are women, they get an easier time of it!
Brain in cock mentality?
Why would that be a turn off? A username is just that! A name that a user decides to have. This has no really baring on the person. To me (just me and my own opinion) this is being way too picky! I do understand that a couple or females do have a varied choice but still that choice should be made on sound principles like pics, sexual compatibility, personality, not a simple username tag? "
Even if the username includes "hot" or "sexy" or whatever? Isn't this what your initial post was about? |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
Rockford |
"When someone describes themselves as'well i'm mad'. They never seem to be genuinly excentrict or intetesting just lack confidence and are tryong to hard.
I find that in life as well as on here though - anyone who feels the need to advertise their degree of 'madness'clearly isn't all that crazy!
TRUE
I NEVER mention I'm bonkers so hopefully nobody yet has noticed "
I don't mention it either but I soon get found out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway?
I've read some of these so-called "Sexy" or "Hot" type profiles and in all honesty they are so more the polar opposite of sexy & hot that you couldn't get any further from said statement.
I think some of these women think that by throwing on some sexy outfits and high heels or slut wellies then they transform into some "super hot sex goddess" when in all reality it's just not the case.
Now Dita Von Teese is another story "
You can feel sexy but you cannot feel handsome - so who has the wrong descriptor?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the same thing looking at a guys profile. I'm new to Fab and have had the pleasure of meeting some nice guys. I don't have any misconceptions about who I am and I value being honest.
I'm quite flattered when I get a compliment x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they call themselves hot and they are, what is the problem? A confident woman can be very sexy on its own.
What turns me off is looking at a username that is descriptive and when looking at the person it bears no resemblance to the photos. Lots of women do this as well as men, but because they are women, they get an easier time of it!
Brain in cock mentality?
Why would that be a turn off? A username is just that! A name that a user decides to have. This has no really baring on the person. To me (just me and my own opinion) this is being way too picky! I do understand that a couple or females do have a varied choice but still that choice should be made on sound principles like pics, sexual compatibility, personality, not a simple username tag?
Even if the username includes "hot" or "sexy" or whatever? Isn't this what your initial post was about?"
User names can have a bearing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they call themselves hot and they are, what is the problem? A confident woman can be very sexy on its own.
What turns me off is looking at a username that is descriptive and when looking at the person it bears no resemblance to the photos. Lots of women do this as well as men, but because they are women, they get an easier time of it!
Brain in cock mentality?
Why would that be a turn off? A username is just that! A name that a user decides to have. This has no really baring on the person. To me (just me and my own opinion) this is being way too picky! I do understand that a couple or females do have a varied choice but still that choice should be made on sound principles like pics, sexual compatibility, personality, not a simple username tag?
Even if the username includes "hot" or "sexy" or whatever? Isn't this what your initial post was about?"
No my initial post was actually about woman who proclaim themselves as fit or sexy. Actually it was triggered by a post I _iewed as the girl came across as arrogant. I guess it's just my vent about girls who know there fit and attractive and have no subtlety or modesty about it. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"If they call themselves hot and they are, what is the problem? A confident woman can be very sexy on its own.
What turns me off is looking at a username that is descriptive and when looking at the person it bears no resemblance to the photos. Lots of women do this as well as men, but because they are women, they get an easier time of it!
Brain in cock mentality?
Why would that be a turn off? A username is just that! A name that a user decides to have. This has no really baring on the person. To me (just me and my own opinion) this is being way too picky! I do understand that a couple or females do have a varied choice but still that choice should be made on sound principles like pics, sexual compatibility, personality, not a simple username tag?
Even if the username includes "hot" or "sexy" or whatever? Isn't this what your initial post was about?
No my initial post was actually about woman who proclaim themselves as fit or sexy. Actually it was triggered by a post I _iewed as the girl came across as arrogant. I guess it's just my vent about girls who know there fit and attractive and have no subtlety or modesty about it. "
Ah, I misunderstood then. I thought you were including women with usernames proclaiming them hot or sexy.
On the subject of usernames, some can put me off. Wannafillyouupwithcum, for example, would put me right off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So according to this thread my profile should be as popular as larger in a curry house.........but this is simply not the case. Maybe saying "I'm the bestest, most super sexy man in all of christendom, come get some of my giant sex gun" would get more meets, even if they never ever came back! |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
Sevenoaks |
I am a super hot, sexy, studd muffin dude.. I am an alpha male, former navy seal, sas and a nasty spec ops motherfu.....
Whats that dear, yes of course I will pop to the shops for you. I need some lip balm as I have some nasty chaffing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a super hot, sexy, studd muffin dude.. I am an alpha male, former navy seal, sas and a nasty spec ops motherfu.....
Whats that dear, yes of course I will pop to the shops for you. I need some lip balm as I have some nasty chaffing "
I can see you with your partner right now |
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Im diching my profile before some 1 has a pop at me this threads scery lol. Personally I find a fair few ppl get my own self confidence confused with being cocky witch im really not but I am extreamly confidant im my own abiltys in what i can do but im also quick to admit what i cant do. I just wish I could spell it as well as be it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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men who promise you earth shattering sexual experiences put me off, you usually find that men who bang on a bout how good the are in bed are usually the lazy shagger's in reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A man with 'master' in their username lol x"
same her anyone who calls themselves dom or master or have any reference of looking for a sub in their profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl who calls herself sexy or hot! This instantly makes me unattracted to them! Other guys see this too or would u just crack on anyway? "
Why? is it not good that someone hasn't got a downer on themselves. |
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"I don't often read too much into profile names (obviously, it took me ages to come up with mine as I'm a skinhead called Darren), sexy or hot is a state of mind in my opinion, though I may not necessarily find said person(s) sexy or hot, I'm fairly sure someone will...I have to say, very crude usernames do occasionally make me go , but I prefer to let everyone run their profiles as they see fit so if "StuffMySexyCuntFullOfHotSpunk" want to call themselves that, then fair do's to them "
...if only said stuffmysexycuntfullofhotspunk would spare us the whining thread about receiving messages from men seeking to erm stuff her sexy cunt full of hot spunk!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a Woman tells you she's sexy (which means you've not got the message by innate Feminine hints and subtlety) you'd do better to believe it, not argue about it!
Wolf
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If I feel sexy - which I do - why should I not state it?
Everything else you can find out if you meet me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profiles with a pic of the guys cock measured against a lynx can or sky remote. Why???? I actually saw one with a Pringles tube the other day lol xx"
'Once you pop you can't stop'
Were they prawn COCKtail flavour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont mind men in shorts and trainers if they are clean, but some men turn up and they just dont look clean, then you notice they have bad breath and a smelly cock, and how come they dont know what short fingernails are.
funny how it doesnt bother some women though. |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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"Cock or nipple piercings "
As well as pussy ones, those around the eyebrow,nose etc.
Hairy bits
The fake tan look that appears like they,ve been rolling around in a cheesey doritos filled zorbing ball |
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