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So what if it's shallow?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad? "
No it seems perfectly reasonable to me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although in most part I stick to matching my preference,,,,, I don't necessarily need to fancy someone to shag/have some sort of sex with them!!!!
Is that shallow?
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad?
No it seems perfectly reasonable to me! "
JINX!!!!!
That means you have to quack like a duck and spin round 3 times.  |
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad? "
Who said it is shallow? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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yes, it is an outrage.
this site is for the sexually liberated and that is penetrate any orifice that is warm and moist and belonging to a human
anyone who wants more words than 'get your gums around this beauty' is just plain fucking needy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad? "
Not shallow at all
what do they want....you being honest or a sad old pity shag.... 
I prefer the "shagging those you fancy"   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes, it is an outrage.
this site is for the sexually liberated and that is penetrate any orifice that is warm and moist and belonging to a human
anyone who wants more words than 'get your gums around this beauty' is just plain fucking needy."
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"yes, it is an outrage.
this site is for the sexually liberated and that is penetrate any orifice that is warm and moist and belonging to a human
anyone who wants more words than 'get your gums around this beauty' is just plain fucking needy."
God that made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's not shallow I could only and will only ever play with someone I am attracted to just because I might get on with someone or be looking for the same things it does not mean I will find that person attractive I am all about someone's face and I have to like it to want to have sex with that person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad?
Who said it is shallow?"
It comes up a lot in various threads.
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad? "
It depends if it a man or woman asking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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on the flip side I wouldn't want someone I met to shag me if they didn't find me attractive just because they was afraid of being branded shallow if they turned me down, I do have some pride |
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"Although in most part I stick to matching my preference,,,,, I don't necessarily need to fancy someone to shag/have some sort of sex with them!!!!
Is that shallow?
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No, not shallow. Just not fussy |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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No, not shallow.
I can fancy someone I don't find physically attractive, sometimes, for other reasons, (Grisom from CSI is an example).
However not being attracted to someone based on their looks is simply how it is. I don't consciously decide who I fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"on the flip side I wouldn't want someone I met to shag me if they didn't find me attractive just because they was afraid of being branded shallow if they turned me down, I do have some pride "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Define shallow ? For me a shallow person is in this for their needs only but that isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Basically attraction is all part of the game and we should all choose suitable meets,not just any old meet.
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad? "
Those who use the 'shallow' argument are simply bitter because they can't shag all those they would like to shag. They, essentially, are selfish in that they do not consider the feelings/attractions of a potential partner. If you are on here to shag then you should shag them - otherwise you are shallow - rather than discerning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad?
Those who use the 'shallow' argument are simply bitter because they can't shag all those they would like to shag. They, essentially, are selfish in that they do not consider the feelings/attractions of a potential partner. If you are on here to shag then you should shag them - otherwise you are shallow - rather than discerning."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad?
Those who use the 'shallow' argument are simply bitter because they can't shag all those they would like to shag. They, essentially, are selfish in that they do not consider the feelings/attractions of a potential partner. If you are on here to shag then you should shag them - otherwise you are shallow - rather than discerning."
Good point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad? "
Why do people ask questions to which they already know the answer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction important... But, have you ever fucked someone because you get on well with them? I have, and it was incredible because we were so relaxed with each other... But I prefer hot girls haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So it's apparently shallow if you don't fancy someone. Basing your preferences on looks is shallow.
Why? If I don't fancy someone I just don't. I might like them as a person, I just don't want to shag them.
Is that really so bad?
Why do people ask questions to which they already know the answer? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very shallow, but I think it's going to be ok, if you come round to mine, have sex with me, and post a verification then people will no longer say you are shallow I don't just do this for any one, but for you as you are in need, I will be unselfish as long as you bring some kind of pudding lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's very shallow, but I think it's going to be ok, if you come round to mine, have sex with me, and post a verification then people will no longer say you are shallow I don't just do this for any one, but for you as you are in need, I will be unselfish as long as you bring some kind of pudding lol"
I was getting my sexiest lingerie on and heading out the door. But then I saw it....
I don't share pudding!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very shallow, but I think it's going to be ok, if you come round to mine, have sex with me, and post a verification then people will no longer say you are shallow I don't just do this for any one, but for you as you are in need, I will be unselfish as long as you bring some kind of pudding lol
I was getting my sexiest lingerie on and heading out the door. But then I saw it....
I don't share pudding! "
Is it shallow that I wouldn't sleep with someone who won't share pudding? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be shallow would be to make a judgement on another person based on their looks if you don't look beyond their appearance. Just because you need to find someone attractive before you will sleep with them does not make you shallow.. |
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