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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Will, I can't help thinking you might not be going about this in quite the right way to get the results you want.
Of course you're entitled to post what you like, and I'm not criticising, just suggesting your approach might result in frustration rather than meets. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"nearly all of my meets are with " straight," married guys."
But not all straight, married guys meet you.
Just because some do doesn't mean there's no such thing as a straight man, as well you know!  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Sorry i thought id be a bit cheeky and write a naughty post... Im not that succesfull on hear and im not exactly ugly "
You can write what you like. However after 6 similar posts in a day, with little interest, I'm trying to be helpful and suggest you rethink your approach. It's entirely possible your posts will put people off rather than attract them.
Threads on how to improve a profile and asking 'why can't I get a meet?' are common on here in swingers chat and swinging advice fora. Those threads, if you look back and read some of them, (the forum search may help), give a lot of advice on how to get results on here.
You can post what you like but the posts you've made in the last day are likely to be ignored or get jokey, smartarse comments.
Intended as advice, not criticism, to help you get the desired result. Your choice whether you take it. Tell me to mind my own business and get knotted if you like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry i thought id be a bit cheeky and write a naughty post... Im not that succesfull on hear and im not exactly ugly "
no you're not ugly at all. just got to give you a little bit of a hard time since you've posted similar post recently lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry i thought id be a bit cheeky and write a naughty post... Im not that succesfull on hear and im not exactly ugly
You can write what you like. However after 6 similar posts in a day, with little interest, I'm trying to be helpful and suggest you rethink your approach. It's entirely possible your posts will put people off rather than attract them.
Threads on how to improve a profile and asking 'why can't I get a meet?' are common on here in swingers chat and swinging advice fora. Those threads, if you look back and read some of them, (the forum search may help), give a lot of advice on how to get results on here.
You can post what you like but the posts you've made in the last day are likely to be ignored or get jokey, smartarse comments.
Intended as advice, not criticism, to help you get the desired result. Your choice whether you take it. Tell me to mind my own business and get knotted if you like "
Smart arse replies on here  who ever would do such a thing pffftttt it's preposterous   |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
There's a lot more to getting meets than not being ugly and announcing you are available.
By the way, a fair proportion of the men on the site are apparently firefighters. A lot of the rest are soldiers. I'm not doubting you but most will take the statement with a pinch of salt. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Sorry i thought id be a bit cheeky and write a naughty post... Im not that succesfull on hear and im not exactly ugly
You can write what you like. However after 6 similar posts in a day, with little interest, I'm trying to be helpful and suggest you rethink your approach. It's entirely possible your posts will put people off rather than attract them.
Threads on how to improve a profile and asking 'why can't I get a meet?' are common on here in swingers chat and swinging advice fora. Those threads, if you look back and read some of them, (the forum search may help), give a lot of advice on how to get results on here.
You can post what you like but the posts you've made in the last day are likely to be ignored or get jokey, smartarse comments.
Intended as advice, not criticism, to help you get the desired result. Your choice whether you take it. Tell me to mind my own business and get knotted if you like
Smart arse replies on here who ever would do such a thing pffftttt it's preposterous "
Er, you for one! Now go and drink your tea and behave!  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I appreciate that people may think that if only they could see me now sitting in the mess room waiting for a shout "
There's no reason you shouldn't be very successful on here. Take a look through some of the threads from other guys asking advice.
Men vastly outnumber women here so it's about getting your profile and approach right to appeal to the people who interest you.
You'll need to message those people (as long as you fit what they are looking for too) because only a small fraction of site members use the fora.
If you stick around and join in the general madness you might increase your chances of meets as people will get to see your personality. You'll have a laugh at least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry i thought id be a bit cheeky and write a naughty post... Im not that succesfull on hear and im not exactly ugly
You can write what you like. However after 6 similar posts in a day, with little interest, I'm trying to be helpful and suggest you rethink your approach. It's entirely possible your posts will put people off rather than attract them.
Threads on how to improve a profile and asking 'why can't I get a meet?' are common on here in swingers chat and swinging advice fora. Those threads, if you look back and read some of them, (the forum search may help), give a lot of advice on how to get results on here.
You can post what you like but the posts you've made in the last day are likely to be ignored or get jokey, smartarse comments.
Intended as advice, not criticism, to help you get the desired result. Your choice whether you take it. Tell me to mind my own business and get knotted if you like
Smart arse replies on here who ever would do such a thing pffftttt it's preposterous
Er, you for one! Now go and drink your tea and behave! "
I'm nothing but serious and professional in my responses to threads I'll have you know 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wants a fiddle
You asked for a fiddle, not the full Albert hall orchestra FFS!!! "
I think he was offering to give away a fiddle.
op does it have all the strings attached? |
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