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Breeding looking for the right person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Was reading this here in a forum post and it made me think .Even in swinging, nobody can escape the programme we all have re 'looking for the perfect partner to breed with' Are we why some will put there seed all over???? And why some ladies get hurt at times reading more into sex . Men I think can just have sex think its nothing at all move to next very easy ... and woman maybe look for friends and something to like in a person. ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Breeding is different than spreading seed all over as you put it! Breeding with someone you want your child to carry some of those traits so looks are important! I speak for myself but when I chose the mother of my kids I didthink and want a woman with nice looks and body that my children may carry genes of

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Because women are programmed differently....there has been various studies regarding this...including the famous book men are from Mars women from Venus...as for breeding you look for someone that can be part of a family unit..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dunno, I think there as as many reasons for people swinging as there are people...

I know I have a reason.... but its nothing to do with pre-programming other than fulfilling a sexual urge without emotional involvment or guilt...

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Was reading this here in a forum post and it made me think .Even in swinging, nobody can escape the programme we all have re 'looking for the perfect partner to breed with' Are we why some will put there seed all over???? And why some ladies get hurt at times reading more into sex . Men I think can just have sex think its nothing at all move to next very easy ... and woman maybe look for friends and something to like in a person. ? "

Sex has always just been fun for me. If I had not accidentally gotten pregnant I doubt I would ever have had a child. So selecting a mate to 'breed' with was just never on the agenda.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

No intention in breeding with anyone I ever meet while swinging!!!

Besides, my breeding days are over

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By *udistnorthantsMan  over a year ago

Desborough

as good a reason as any

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By *udistnorthantsMan  over a year ago

Desborough


"No intention in breeding with anyone I ever meet while swinging!!!

Besides, my breeding days are over "

likewise since had the snip

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd like to see someone try to breed me!

I can see the headlines in the Daily Hate - 'Tranny gives birth! Property prices plummet! Hurrah for the Blackshirts!'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This comes from an earlier forum where a woman called herself fat ! I would not like my children growing up thinking its ok to be fat ! Again this is only my opinion but I would want them to exercise eat and be healthy! And this is where power of example comes into play

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Breeding is different than spreading seed all over as you put it! Breeding with someone you want your child to carry some of those traits so looks are important! I speak for myself but when I chose the mother of my kids I didthink and want a woman with nice looks and body that my children may carry genes of"

Just looks? What about intelligence and/or common sense, morality or does looking good trump these character traits?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Consciously I don't want children and am not interested in looking for someone to breed with.

Subconsciously I probably am. It's programmed into us.

Then again, I'm supposed to want children and am apparently meant to have a biological clock. I don't, so maybe my programming is faulty.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

im sorry but i disagree that women and men see sex differently.

dont forget, for a woman to have sex, she only has to lay back and open her legs.

no need for any stimulus to enable her to have it, only to enjoy it.

a man, however, HAS to have some kind of feeling towards the lady in question, otherwise he wouldnt get, or stay, hard, and without that, then he is no use to man, nor beast.

also, it seems as many women as men can have sex without attaching 'love' or deep emotions to it, so even though men and women are very different animals, their views and attitudes to sex are very much more similar than you think

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This comes from an earlier forum where a woman called herself fat ! I would not like my children growing up thinking its ok to be fat ! Again this is only my opinion but I would want them to exercise eat and be healthy! And this is where power of example comes into play"

Youre right, i only started putting on weight when i was 30 though, luckily my son has always been slim.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Breeding is different than spreading seed all over as you put it! Breeding with someone you want your child to carry some of those traits so looks are important! I speak for myself but when I chose the mother of my kids I didthink and want a woman with nice looks and body that my children may carry genes of

Just looks? What about intelligence and/or common sense, morality or does looking good trump these character traits? "

intelligence would know this goes without saying! I'm referring to where the forum originated from which was an earlier thread! Sorry you may not have known this

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This comes from an earlier forum where a woman called herself fat ! I would not like my children growing up thinking its ok to be fat ! Again this is only my opinion but I would want them to exercise eat and be healthy! And this is where power of example comes into play"
Fat Thin its don't matter here. When we are little we learn that love and sex go together .. Doing this we can escape the programme? Made me think are we in a programme ? Its good to think ...

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"im sorry but i disagree that women and men see sex differently.

dont forget, for a woman to have sex, she only has to lay back and open her legs.

no need for any stimulus to enable her to have it, only to enjoy it.

a man, however, HAS to have some kind of feeling towards the lady in question, otherwise he wouldnt get, or stay, hard, and without that, then he is no use to man, nor beast.

"

Turn this around....

The population would plummet and would prove that men and women do indeed view sex differently...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Taught Love and sex go together ? No I think not! And a program of what kind? Think you're reading into the statement too deeply

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" When we are little we learn that love and sex go together ...."

Jeez! What school did you go to?

Have they arrested any teachers yet?

We are not taught love, we simply experience it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" When we are little we learn that love and sex go together ....

Jeez! What school did you go to?

Have they arrested any teachers yet?

We are not taught love, we simply experience it!

"

Yeah, it was bad enough listening to out teacher stutter and bumble her way through the mechanics of sex. I think she'd have had a stroke if she had to go on about loving relationships etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Taught Love and sex go together ? No I think not! And a program of what kind? Think you're reading into the statement too deeply"
maybe I like to look at different things on how people work ? Woman not just in body are different to me but the way there mind works.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fat parents usually equal fat children! Which I think should be made a crime!!! Educate children to live and eat healthy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This comes from an earlier forum where a woman called herself fat ! I would not like my children growing up thinking its ok to be fat ! Again this is only my opinion but I would want them to exercise eat and be healthy! And this is where power of example comes into play"

My children are within normal bmi and both excel at sport, rugby, gymnastics and swimming.........

I think it's very closed minded of you to think fat people breed fat children.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This comes from an earlier forum where a woman called herself fat ! I would not like my children growing up thinking its ok to be fat ! Again this is only my opinion but I would want them to exercise eat and be healthy! And this is where power of example comes into play"

I never said it was ok to be fat I said it is ok to describe myself as fat because I am fat.

I also probably do more exercise in a day than you do all week I struggle with a bad relationship with food due to my childhood (starving myself, binging, snacking instead of meals). If I didn't exercise I'd be in deep shit. But that is off topic.

ON TOPIC -

I am wired differently to a lot of women, the thought of even falling pregnant makes me feel sick. So I don't think it applies to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fat parents usually equal fat children! Which I think should be made a crime!!! Educate children to live and eat healthy "

when my son was growing up we never ate takeaways and didnt have lots of junk food in the cupboards, because when you have food in the house its more tempting to eat it. i would make cakes and buy him a chocolate bar most days, instead of having puddings, he was skinny as a rake, only ate when he was hungry, and was always active.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fat parents usually equal fat children! Which I think should be made a crime!!! Educate children to live and eat healthy "
my posts not about fat or thin or body shape its about Men and Woman being different and doing things different ,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fat parents usually equal fat children! Which I think should be made a crime!!! Educate children to live and eat healthy my posts not about fat or thin or body shape its about Men and Woman being different and doing things different ,"

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


" .......

a man, however, HAS to have some kind of feeling towards the lady in question, otherwise he wouldnt get, or stay, hard, and without that, then he is no use to man, nor beast.

....."

Maybe that's why there are so many queries about sourcing Viagra on these forums .

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By *imply_SensualMan  over a year ago

warrington

Breeding and just having sex are two different things completely. So yes, for breeding, we will all look for the 'right' person, so that genetically any child that is born between them turns out OK.

For sex, we still the 'right' one, but in a different sense, all we want there is a person who is going to make us tick, turn us on, provide the satisfaction we all need. So it should be easier, for men or women to move on if they need to.

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Was reading this here in a forum post and it made me think .Even in swinging, nobody can escape the programme we all have re 'looking for the perfect partner to breed with' Are we why some will put there seed all over???? And why some ladies get hurt at times reading more into sex . Men I think can just have sex think its nothing at all move to next very easy ... and woman maybe look for friends and something to like in a person. ? "

Since I posted the words quoted, I should probably make it clear I don't think it's something we (men) have any control over.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fat parents usually equal fat children! Which I think should be made a crime!!! Educate children to live and eat healthy my posts not about fat or thin or body shape its about Men and Woman being different and doing things different ,"

I know a woman that is a brick layer and a man that cooks and cleans! That makes us pretty much the same???

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fat parents usually equal fat children! Which I think should be made a crime!!! Educate children to live and eat healthy my posts not about fat or thin or body shape its about Men and Woman being different and doing things different ,

I know a woman that is a brick layer and a man that cooks and cleans! That makes us pretty much the same???"

yes woman can do the same jobs as men but are there brains different in the way they think .?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My neighbour drives a tractor and she plays darts and pool

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My neighbour drives a tractor and she plays darts and pool"
when meeting here finding play mates do you think woman view things different ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Fat parents usually equal fat children! Which I think should be made a crime!!! Educate children to live and eat healthy "

both my parents are skinny and i ate incredibly healthy when growing up..its a slightly sweeping statement to make.. just because i am fat i would never inflict that on my child...i would never want my child to go through the bullying and torment i did....

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"My neighbour drives a tractor and she plays darts and pool"

What kinda tractor does she have? Any pics?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

World's overpopulated, wear a j_nny!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"World's overpopulated, wear a j_nny!! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

From puberty we are conditioned to find a mate, marry, breed and get a mortgage, and be happy ever after, most people do, get to about 2 years, have at least one child, wonder what the fuck have they done, most get to 7 yrs before looking for someone new, some stay together for 20 30 or 40 years, and compromise every day, putting their family first, mostly women, being stubborn, and in most cases wanted to be married from the beginning, wont admit, they are not happy, so usually wont admit they have made the wrong choice, so in divorces, usually the woman comes across as being hard done to, and the man is very relieved its over.

Yes men are different from women, a woman has a limited amount of seeds, a man has millions of sperm, so a man will usually have more sex than the wife, that's to be expected.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My neighbour drives a tractor and she plays darts and pool

What kinda tractor does she have? Any pics?"

I had pix but my wife found them and deleted!

She drives a big red zetor crystol no power steering she has bulging biceps and the tractor is old and looks very very dirty !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think if breeding when you're a swinger is disgusting, having children should be between you and your partner, not a total stranger, and I bet the men who make the women pregnant don't see or care about the child and doesn't even pay maintenance. It's wrong and breeding posts should be removed and banned from this site

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think if breeding when you're a swinger is disgusting, having children should be between you and your partner, not a total stranger, and I bet the men who make the women pregnant don't see or care about the child and doesn't even pay maintenance. It's wrong and breeding posts should be removed and banned from this site"

people are old enough to make their own decision in breeding

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" It's wrong and breeding posts should be removed and banned from this site"

So you bump 2 old threads to draw even more attention to them?

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I think if breeding when you're a swinger is disgusting, having children should be between you and your partner, not a total stranger, and I bet the men who make the women pregnant don't see or care about the child and doesn't even pay maintenance. It's wrong and breeding posts should be removed and banned from this site"
Big big issue for me who is normally quite tolerant of people's diversity. I completely agree it is irresponsible to "get pregnant through swinging" and I cannot for the life of me imagine why anybody would do that. At the end of the day... who will be responsible for these children,m moraly, ethically, emotionally, financially... the list goes on.

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