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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As humans, do you think we subconsciously let get ourselves into complicated/difficult situations because it is more exciting than when things are straightforward?
I am tempted to log off and go back to being boring for a while  |
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In my 'fab' life I keep everything very uncomplicated. I choose what I want to do and when with who. Don't let compliments go to my head and always keep everything NSA.
Real life can be a bit complicated occasionally but I try to deal as best I can and not let it get to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish my complications would chill the fuck out as they are leaving me exhausted and drained! I just want things to work out the way we want and for people to back off and leave us the hell alone! I for one have had enough complications, used to be fun now it's just plain hard  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I'm not complicated. I'm simple. I have this in writing on a report from school 
No, I think some people are drama queens, at Uni I knew a girl who had to have a new drama every week, whether it be a feud with someone, or a new romance, she had to have some topic of the week to make her feel interesting. On the other hand, my Granddad went through life with no drama at all and apart from a bit of unpleasantness in the early 1940s never did anything aggressive.
Some people like complicated lives, others don't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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with the exception of our relationship, we both try to avoid drama as much as possible, in exchange for an easy life.
some seem to search these kind of things out, and V's sister is always creating a vortex of madness around herself, and seems to enjoy it, but hell, we dont even stay in a pub too long as when people get d*unk, things tend to get silly.
out by 10 is our mantra lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Excitement and complications are two seperate things. Especially if its concerning feelings and other people. There is always someone who will end up being hurt.
...i try and lead a simple life. But even that at times is complicated. However, i dont look to get myself in to complicated situations. I have more than enough shit to deal with.
Like Floro said, you just have to deal with what life throws at you. Sometimes the fun and excitement is in the solution.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My everyday life is complicated, sometimes too complicated, some of the complications arise from other people bringing drama into my life, some of them because of my distant past, but the only complications that I embrace are those brought about by the constant evolution of me as a person as even at the age of 41 I'm still growing into myself and becoming comfortable with who I am, those are the complications that serve a perpouse and are to be embraced |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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I thrive on complication - there is a certain thrill about being astride two galloping horses (metaphorically) and reacting to response.
To me it stops the inward looking thought process - but hey, equally each to there own - well if no ones playing  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I dream of the day my every day life is uncomplicated. I've not sought drama but I've had one curve ball after another for a few years now. I cope but the idea of an a bit more peace and calm is very appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dream of the day my every day life is uncomplicated. I've not sought drama but I've had one curve ball after another for a few years now. I cope but the idea of an a bit more peace and calm is very appealing. "
know how you feel x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish life would stop throwing things at me to test me
I do like excitement but do sometimes wish things were easy. "
It certainly feels like I'm being tested at the moment.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life is too complicated to allow much at all to be straightforward. Either someone wants to corner you for your money or someone doesn't want you to have what you work hard for. |
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No drama, but definitely complicated. Fortunately very few people are put off by that. 
