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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????"
Yeah but you have only fucked 1.
And that was 6 months ago according to your veris.  |
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Some women can enjoy no strings sex. Some can't handle it.
Some men can enjoy no strings sex. Some can't.
Both sexes aren't always clear about what they want/ are looking for either.
Best be more upfront next time. And if they still want more and you don't...end it/ walk away. Let the onus be on you and you'll be less frustrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No strings attached (or at least that's what im lead to believe)"
I know lol NSA - people who dont want puppets, but they want someone who can jump to attention at every whim. Irony isnt lost on me haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????"
More sex?
More than just sex?
More lube?
if it's more sex then why the hell are you moaning? Do you not read the single men whines about not getting anything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????"
Maybe because you are so bloody brilliant they are hooked after one shag?  |
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????
More sex?
More than just sex?
More lube?
if it's more sex then why the hell are you moaning? Do you not read the single men whines about not getting anything?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More than just sex"
Take it as a compliment but be straight with her. Tell her you're a complete slut and never revisit 
Disclaimer: talking to the op in his own language |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys do it as well. I've agreed to meet again with people then they get attached, so I have to drop them. On the flip side, a guy told me this week we couldn't meet anymore because he thought I was in to him. Fair play, it's exactly what is have done had I thought the same. Just say your goodbyes and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????
More sex?
More than just sex?
More lube?
if it's more sex then why the hell are you moaning? Do you not read the single men whines about not getting anything?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????
Maybe because you are so bloody brilliant they are hooked after one shag? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????
Yeah but you have only fucked 1.
And that was 6 months ago according to your veris. "
Why does that mean she has only fucked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my goodness
So we all look at your profile as you clearly must be a modern day Don Juan
There are more men on here who claim to want more NSA just to get in your knickers and then come out with
' So you aren't going to meet anyone else now are you'
Whilst they still shag half the site
People are people .... you just have to be cynical and take what they say with a pinch of salt
As for you Don Juan - don't knock it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NSA is a fantasy, it isn't about reality, we are all sentient beings, yes nsa is a turn on, but in reality no one wants nsa, we are worth more than that. |
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????"
If you mean more sex what's wrong with that?
If you mean a relationship then you should set your stall out from the beginning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more 
sounds wonderful. 
Did he ask for a profile critique
They are opinions, not critiques.
That weren't asked for"
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
They are opinions, not critiques.
That weren't asked for
You're welcome "
I don't understand that response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
They are opinions, not critiques.
That weren't asked for
You're welcome
I don't understand that response "
It's my sense of humour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think when questions like these which come up at least twice a week, you can't give someone a decent or even borderline honest response without taking their storefront AKA profile into account.
So when people say "he is not asking for his profile to be taken into account"...
What exactly are we supposed to base our response on.
I'm working on the assumption nobody kniws thevfirst fucking thing about the op or the situation? ...
So what exactly are we supposed to say? ... |
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"I think when questions like these which come up at least twice a week, you can't give someone a decent or even borderline honest response without taking their storefront AKA profile into acco-unt.
So when people say "he is not asking for his profile to be taken into account"...
What exactly are we supposed to base our response on.
I'm working on the assumption nobody kniws thevfirst fucking thing about the op or the situation? ...
So what exactly are we supposed to say? ... "
So you can't answer the question why some women can't handle NSA without first making a comment on someone's profile?
I dint see how the 2 are linked to be fair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think when questions like these which come up at least twice a week, you can't give someone a decent or even borderline honest response without taking their storefront AKA profile into acco-unt.
So when people say "he is not asking for his profile to be taken into account"...
What exactly are we supposed to base our response on.
I'm working on the assumption nobody kniws thevfirst fucking thing about the op or the situation? ...
So what exactly are we supposed to say? ...
So you can't answer the question why some women can't handle NSA without first making a comment on someone's profile?
I dint see how the 2 are linked to be fair. "
Well considering most don't know the guy..maybe a clue as to what the root of the issue may actually be ..is one reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with a little bit more than just having sex is there? But like they said if it's not what you want say so. I've got it in my profile but depending on the person, I sometimes can't help but get a little emotionally attached. Nice guys don't necessarily finish last  |
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Guess we will just have to agree to disagree about this one. I very rarely find the need to comment on someone's profile unnecessarily.
He didn't say 'what is it about me and my profile that makes women want more after I have fucked them' so in my eyes he didn't invite comments on his profile.
Once again some people have jumped on a new poster and been negative about them. I'm just sticking up for the underdog I guess |
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I think part of the problem (for all sexes) is that the definition of NSA varies for Santa everyone
What no strings means to me, might not be what it means to you
I like to build friendships, so buy the very nature there are some sort of 'strings' attached....doesn't mean there's any sort of commitment
I treat everyone i meet as a potential new friend, if i don't like them enough to be a friend, i wont shag them....some new friends you meet more than once, others you'll chat to
This is a lifestyle choice for me, it's not for everyone but i think I'm pretty clear in my profile about what/ who I'm looking for
For absolute NSA, i go to clubs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with a few of the posts above - NSA to me means that I won't be cooking them tea, washing their socks or expecting them to stay faithful.
But - I do enjoy the social side, having a laugh, hopefully great sex, then not seeing them until the next time!
If the social and sex is great then I would want to meet them again - it doesn't mean I'm shopping for the wedding dress!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think part of the problem (for all sexes) is that the definition of NSA varies for Santa everyone
What no strings means to me, might not be what it means to you
I like to build friendships, so buy the very nature there are some sort of 'strings' attached....doesn't mean there's any sort of commitment
I treat everyone i meet as a potential new friend, if i don't like them enough to be a friend, i wont shag them....some new friends you meet more than once, others you'll chat to
This is a lifestyle choice for me, it's not for everyone but i think I'm pretty clear in my profile about what/ who I'm looking for
For absolute NSA, i go to clubs
simple "
This is how I live the lifestyle too, I like to build a rapport with someone so whilst I'm not looking for commitment from anyone, I guess if you build a friendship there are always some sort if strings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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who knows...some people have been using the scene differently from others for years...I'd at least commend the OP for not lying to the meet that ants more ,just to get his frequent hole.Unfortunately there are some using the site/scene who cannot comprehend the concept of no strings attached sexual meetings, especially when it comes to meeting other people than themselves
Of course OP if this is a previous/recent meet..its perhaps not that nice discussing something that may cause some hurt,openly in a forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who knows...some people have been using the scene differently from others for years...I'd at least commend the OP for not lying to the meet that ants more ,just to get his frequent hole.Unfortunately there are some using the site/scene who cannot comprehend the concept of no strings attached sexual meetings, especially when it comes to meeting other people than themselves
Of course OP if this is a previous/recent meet..its perhaps not that nice discussing something that may cause some hurt,openly in a forum"
People meet themselves? I wonder if they'll get on.
Joking aside, good points made |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who knows...some people have been using the scene differently from others for years...I'd at least commend the OP for not lying to the meet that ants more ,just to get his frequent hole.Unfortunately there are some using the site/scene who cannot comprehend the concept of no strings attached sexual meetings, especially when it comes to meeting other people than themselves
Of course OP if this is a previous/recent meet..its perhaps not that nice discussing something that may cause some hurt,openly in a forum
People meet themselves? I wonder if they'll get on.
Joking aside, good points made "
tis early I'm hungovernhorny so shurrrit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
I do. Right now, that's pretty much me in a nutshell. Works very well for me.
Ditto. Fuck 'em and duck 'em, that's my motto. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who knows...some people have been using the scene differently from others for years...I'd at least commend the OP for not lying to the meet that ants more ,just to get his frequent hole.Unfortunately there are some using the site/scene who cannot comprehend the concept of no strings attached sexual meetings, especially when it comes to meeting other people than themselves
Of course OP if this is a previous/recent meet..its perhaps not that nice discussing something that may cause some hurt,openly in a forum
People meet themselves? I wonder if they'll get on.
Joking aside, good points made
tis early I'm hungovernhorny so shurrrit "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who knows...some people have been using the scene differently from others for years...I'd at least commend the OP for not lying to the meet that ants more ,just to get his frequent hole.Unfortunately there are some using the site/scene who cannot comprehend the concept of no strings attached sexual meetings, especially when it comes to meeting other people than themselves
Of course OP if this is a previous/recent meet..its perhaps not that nice discussing something that may cause some hurt,openly in a forum
People meet themselves? I wonder if they'll get on.
Joking aside, good points made
tis early I'm hungovernhorny so shurrrit
Make me"
take ur teeth out first...both pairs x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
I do. Right now, that's pretty much me in a nutshell. Works very well for me.
Ditto. Fuck 'em and duck 'em, that's my motto.
quack"
Always make an exception for you, baldy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who knows...some people have been using the scene differently from others for years...I'd at least commend the OP for not lying to the meet that ants more ,just to get his frequent hole.Unfortunately there are some using the site/scene who cannot comprehend the concept of no strings attached sexual meetings, especially when it comes to meeting other people than themselves
Of course OP if this is a previous/recent meet..its perhaps not that nice discussing something that may cause some hurt,openly in a forum
People meet themselves? I wonder if they'll get on.
Joking aside, good points made
tis early I'm hungovernhorny so shurrrit
Make me
take ur teeth out first...both pairs x"
You'll have to find someone else to give you a gummy bj . Thanks for the image of a pussy with dentures though  .
That film teeth was so bad it was hilarious. Especially the dig spitting out the prince Albert piercing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women claim they want n.s.a and then after you fuck them they want more????"
There's a big difference between wanting more and expecting more.
Satisfying 'wants' is what this scene is all about, most of us want different things.
Managing expectations is very much your responsibily as well as theirs. It keeps 'wants' in check.
If I may offer you some advice it would be to work a little harder on managing expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
I do. Right now, that's pretty much me in a nutshell. Works very well for me.
Ditto. Fuck 'em and duck 'em, that's my motto.
quack
Always make an exception for you, baldy. "
ya lanky shag xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
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I disagree, 'nsa' is exactly what makes this scene an option for lots of people.
Why would committed couples meet a single person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think part of the problem (for all sexes) is that the definition of NSA varies for Santa everyone
What no strings means to me, might not be what it means to you
I like to build friendships, so buy the very nature there are some sort of 'strings' attached....doesn't mean there's any sort of commitment
I treat everyone i meet as a potential new friend, if i don't like them enough to be a friend, i wont shag them....some new friends you meet more than once, others you'll chat to
This is a lifestyle choice for me, it's not for everyone but i think I'm pretty clear in my profile about what/ who I'm looking for
For absolute NSA, i go to clubs
simple "
agree with this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
They are opinions, not critiques.
That weren't asked for"
evie, you have been on the forums long enough to know that responses very rarely have anything to do with the original question lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think what can happen is ... Some men (not all) chat on here b4 a meet and are very friendly and good fun ... Then they get the meet and they think because she came and had a good time that its in the bag for a shag when ever they like .... And some women (not all) need to feel wanted ! And are looking for their FB's to be friends too ! And not just ignore them till they are horny and send the "fancy a shag" message ....they still want a Bit of banter and some flirty chats etc... Or they can feel a bit like a hooker !!!! Everyones different some women like that and want nothing more .... But usually I would guess that those women would not take part in a lot of chat and flirting b4 the first meet ..... Now I have no idea how much of you she wanted ! If she wants you to take her out etc ! Or if she just wants you to work as hard as you did b4 the shag !!!? Not saying this is the case here as I don't know the details but I it is a possibility !!!
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"I agree with a few of the posts above - NSA to me means that I won't be cooking them tea, washing their socks or expecting them to stay faithful.
But - I do enjoy the social side, having a laugh, hopefully great sex, then not seeing them until the next time!
If the social and sex is great then I would want to meet them again - it doesn't mean I'm shopping for the wedding dress!
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^^^^^This! |
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
I disagree, 'nsa' is exactly what makes this scene an option for lots of people.
Why would committed couples meet a single person?"
because thats what they enjoy doing |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
I think a cognitive sexual relationship are great fun as long as the anticipation and the fun element don't get misinterpreted or emotionally linked.
Don't know what I was drinking last night, but I 'm not drinking it again after that response  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique "
Had we said mmmmm nice pics on your profile then would you have said the same thing Evie, still an unwanted critique but entirely possible? We are all entitled to an opinion aren't we, you give yours often on many a thread rightly or wrongly...that aside the OPs profile screams use em n abuse em to me tbh, so if women are becoming attached it must be something he does in person or the women he is selecting who are interested in him from his profile |
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
I disagree, 'nsa' is exactly what makes this scene an option for lots of people.
Why would committed couples meet a single person?
because thats what they enjoy doing "
My point is that surely the couple in most instances would want the liason to be nsa. |
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
I disagree, 'nsa' is exactly what makes this scene an option for lots of people.
Why would committed couples meet a single person?
because thats what they enjoy doing "
I thought he was stating you can have NSA otherwise couples wouldn't meet singles, by way of an example. |
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"but in reality no one wants nsa
I disagree, 'nsa' is exactly what makes this scene an option for lots of people.
Why would committed couples meet a single person?
because thats what they enjoy doing
My point is that surely the couple in most instances would want the liason to be nsa. "
I knew what you meant! |
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
Had we said mmmmm nice pics on your profile then would you have said the same thing Evie, still an unwanted critique but entirely possible? We are all entitled to an opinion aren't we, you give yours often on many a thread rightly or wrongly...that aside the OPs profile screams use em n abuse em to me tbh, so if women are becoming attached it must be something he does in person or the women he is selecting who are interested in him from his profile "
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"what some say they want and what they truly want, differs significantly....
applies to all categories "
It's true it does apply to both men and women........ however, it does seem to be a lot more women that then come and moan their tits off about 'why do men not text after sex, feeling used because he's now fucking someone else and so on.
The way many have described their expectations of what is meant to be 'nsa' sounds more like the desire for a pseudo relationship so they can continue the façade that they are happy being single. |
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The way many have described their expectations of what is meant to be 'nsa' sounds more like the desire for a pseudo relationship so they can continue the façade that they are happy being single."
Once again, all i can say in response to your post is FUCKING YES! |
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Aside from a few guys who are ermmmmm 'weird' at the best of times, more often than not it does seem to be women who can't wait to drop those oh so not so subtle hints on the forum about "that someone special" (who more often than not hasn't even told them their real name, never mind mentioning the wife and kids waiting at home).... and then what appears to be five minutes later - 'U-TURN'. What next appears is either a man hater, devout born-again singletons or 'victims' who somehow manage to blame the guy for not:
Texting
Calling
Wanting to meet immediately at the drop of a hat
Only wanting to meet for sex
Not being at their beck and call
Meeting other people and not being there for them
Not wanting to do the shopping with them... or fuck knows what else.
The OP has a fucking point!
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"Aside from a few guys who are ermmmmm 'weird' at the best of times, more often than not it does seem to be women who can't wait to drop those oh so not so subtle hints on the forum about "that someone special" (who more often than not hasn't even told them their real name, never mind mentioning the wife and kids waiting at home).... and then what appears to be five minutes later - 'U-TURN'. What next appears is either a man hater, devout born-again singletons or 'victims' who somehow manage to blame the guy for not:
Texting
Calling
Wanting to meet immediately at the drop of a hat
Only wanting to meet for sex
Not being at their beck and call
Meeting other people and not being there for them
Not wanting to do the shopping with them... or fuck knows what else.
The OP has a fucking point!
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I obviously haven't been in the forum long enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well, we like to have a drink and a chat first, so guess we arent in the hunt for NSA either.
is NSA really just rock up, drop em, then fuck off? really??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aside from a few guys who are ermmmmm 'weird' at the best of times, more often than not it does seem to be women who can't wait to drop those oh so not so subtle hints on the forum about "that someone special" (who more often than not hasn't even told them their real name, never mind mentioning the wife and kids waiting at home).... and then what appears to be five minutes later - 'U-TURN'. What next appears is either a man hater, devout born-again singletons or 'victims' who somehow manage to blame the guy for not:
Texting
Calling
Wanting to meet immediately at the drop of a hat
Only wanting to meet for sex
Not being at their beck and call
Meeting other people and not being there for them
Not wanting to do the shopping with them... or fuck knows what else.
The OP has a fucking point!
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Aside from a few guys who are ermmmmm 'weird' at the best of times, more often than not it does seem to be women who can't wait to drop those oh so not so subtle hints on the forum about "that someone special" (who more often than not hasn't even told them their real name, never mind mentioning the wife and kids waiting at home).... and then what appears to be five minutes later - 'U-TURN'. What next appears is either a man hater, devout born-again singletons or 'victims' who somehow manage to blame the guy for not:
Texting
Calling
Wanting to meet immediately at the drop of a hat
Only wanting to meet for sex
Not being at their beck and call
Meeting other people and not being there for them
Not wanting to do the shopping with them... or fuck knows what else.
The OP has a fucking point!
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
Had we said mmmmm nice pics on your profile then would you have said the same thing Evie, still an unwanted critique but entirely possible? We are all entitled to an opinion aren't we, you give yours often on many a thread rightly or wrongly...that aside the OPs profile screams use em n abuse em to me tbh, so if women are becoming attached it must be something he does in person or the women he is selecting who are interested in him from his profile "
of course i wouldn't because you would ave been being nice, but making clearly derogatory comments about someones profile when they hadn't mentioned it in their opening post is not nice is it? we get accused of being nasty to new posters all the time and here is just one example of someone doing just that.
so you don't like his profile - don't message him then. you don't like how he plays? don't play with him then but don't slag him off because of it. |
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
They are opinions, not critiques.
That weren't asked for
evie, you have been on the forums long enough to know that responses very rarely have anything to do with the original question lol"
maybe thats the problem!!! i wish i had the will power to take a break lol |
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"what some say they want and what they truly want, differs significantly....
applies to all categories
It's true it does apply to both men and women........ however, it does seem to be a lot more women that then come and moan their tits off about 'why do men not text after sex, feeling used because he's now fucking someone else and so on.
The way many have described their expectations of what is meant to be 'nsa' sounds more like the desire for a pseudo relationship so they can continue the façade that they are happy being single."
...ain't that the truth! |
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"Aside from a few guys who are ermmmmm 'weird' at the best of times, more often than not it does seem to be women who can't wait to drop those oh so not so subtle hints on the forum about "that someone special" (who more often than not hasn't even told them their real name, never mind mentioning the wife and kids waiting at home).... and then what appears to be five minutes later - 'U-TURN'. What next appears is either a man hater, devout born-again singletons or 'victims' who somehow manage to blame the guy for not:
Texting
Calling
Wanting to meet immediately at the drop of a hat
Only wanting to meet for sex
Not being at their beck and call
Meeting other people and not being there for them
Not wanting to do the shopping with them... or fuck knows what else.
The OP has a fucking point!
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Once again... |
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
Had we said mmmmm nice pics on your profile then would you have said the same thing Evie, still an unwanted critique but entirely possible? We are all entitled to an opinion aren't we, you give yours often on many a thread rightly or wrongly...that aside the OPs profile screams use em n abuse em to me tbh, so if women are becoming attached it must be something he does in person or the women he is selecting who are interested in him from his profile
of course i wouldn't because you would ave been being nice, but making clearly derogatory comments about someones profile when they hadn't mentioned it in their opening post is not nice is it? we get accused of being nasty to new posters all the time and here is just one example of someone doing just that.
so you don't like his profile - don't message him then. you don't like how he plays? don't play with him then but don't slag him off because of it."
Its quite alright to make a personal attack on me though for having an opinion yeah which actually wasn't even that derogatory? Good job I have broad shoulders |
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I think the OP has a point too.
Since my time on these forums I've seen many people start as singles, then the flirting, then the birth of the 'new couple profile', the fall out, the snide remarks on the forum, the leaving the site, and the re-emergence of the single profile with a new name..... Then someone shows an interest and the flirting starts and so on .........
If people were that happy being single, why jump into making couple profiles with guys on here |
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"I can see from your profile text why they'd want more
sounds wonderful.
Did he ask for a profile critique
Had we said mmmmm nice pics on your profile then would you have said the same thing Evie, still an unwanted critique but entirely possible? We are all entitled to an opinion aren't we, you give yours often on many a thread rightly or wrongly...that aside the OPs profile screams use em n abuse em to me tbh, so if women are becoming attached it must be something he does in person or the women he is selecting who are interested in him from his profile
of course i wouldn't because you would ave been being nice, but making clearly derogatory comments about someones profile when they hadn't mentioned it in their opening post is not nice is it? we get accused of being nasty to new posters all the time and here is just one example of someone doing just that.
so you don't like his profile - don't message him then. you don't like how he plays? don't play with him then but don't slag him off because of it.
Its quite alright to make a personal attack on me though for having an opinion yeah which actually wasn't even that derogatory? Good job I have broad shoulders "
How have my comments been personal? I've mentioned nothing about you or your profile |
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Only a few people can do strict nsa. There will always be feelings and sometimes you can just connect on another level. Once that happens, it's no longer nsa. |
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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"Only a few people can do strict nsa. There will always be feelings and sometimes you can just connect on another level. Once that happens, it's no longer nsa."
Not always many couples would disagree here. |
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Pontypridd |
"Aside from a few guys who are ermmmmm 'weird' at the best of times, more often than not it does seem to be women who can't wait to drop those oh so not so subtle hints on the forum about "that someone special" (who more often than not hasn't even told them their real name, never mind mentioning the wife and kids waiting at home).... and then what appears to be five minutes later - 'U-TURN'. What next appears is either a man hater, devout born-again singletons or 'victims' who somehow manage to blame the guy for not:
Texting
Calling
Wanting to meet immediately at the drop of a hat
Only wanting to meet for sex
Not being at their beck and call
Meeting other people and not being there for them
Not wanting to do the shopping with them... or fuck knows what else.
The OP has a fucking point!
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Iam personally devastated all men don't want to do this. Fuck this shit I'm off!! |
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