I wrote this a few years ago and found recently when doing a cleanup. Thought I should share with all you fabbers... 
It doesn't matter what your weight is. It is fascinating to touch, hug and caress the female body. Knowing your weight doesn't thrill us. We have no idea which size you are. Our evaluation is visual.
What is important is the shape. We don't care about inches, it is a matter of proportions. And the ideal proportions are: curvaceous, feminine... the type of body that, no doubt, will be noticed in a fraction of a second.
The very thin ones that populate the catwalks follow the tendencies determined by stylists, that mostly, happen to be gay, probably hate women and compete with them. There's nothing more irresistible in a woman than femininity and amiability. Elegance and finesse are better than a thousand Viagra pills.
Make up was invented for women. Please, wear it! Look after your hair. Wear skirts.
Try to please us men, because you will never have an objective reference of how beautiful you are from another woman. No woman will admit, in front of a man, with sincerity, that another woman is simply stunning.
The young are beautiful... but after 30, they become truly 'pièce de résistance'. For Karina Mazzocco, Eva Longoria, Angelina Jolie or Demi Moore we are capable of swim across the Atlantic Ocean. The body changes, evolves. You can not expect to wear the same dress you did when you were 18. If you do, you are destroying yourself.
We like women that can live their lives with balance, happiness, and that can control their natural tendency to guilt. In other words: women that eat when they want to eat (the diet will start in April); diet when they want to diet (without self pity); have sex when want to have sex; shop when want to shop; save when want to save.
A few lines on the face, a few stretch marks, will never spoil your beauty. They are battle scars, witnesses that you did something in your lives.
The female body is God's existence most undeniable proof.
Look after your body.
Look after yourselves.
Love yourselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience its best not to keep old papers and junk, always let go of the past and live in the present.
everything changes, nothing stays the same or it dies.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Thanks for the posting, I can see where you're coming from and that is appreciated.
I do take exception to the view that no other woman would sincerely say another is stunning: I do and others I know do.
I'm tempted to send you my bare face picture to check whether my curves are different with make up on face. There isn't appropriate smiley to insert but there is one on my face.
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
I can see the good intention in the OP s message and I agree to some extent.
I am struggling with bringing God into the equation and I am struggling with the wearing of make up - I sometimes do, and I sometimes do not and I am very happy to present my bare face.
I do not believe that women are not able to acknowledge another woman's beauty - I don't have a problem with that at all.
I do agree with you, OP, that beauty is about being comfortable in your own skin, whatever your age.
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