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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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Me and my long-term FB have called it a day, and I need something to distract me from being a bit sad about it. I am unable to shag for a few days due to a visit from the lovely Mother Nature, so all non-sexual (and hopefully not too expensive) suggestions entertained. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Retail therapy. Is that not the norm for most women.
if it was me mindless tv, a few good bottles of red and a selection of amazing cheeses....but then they are my face things
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Meet up with your girlfriends...wine, chocolates, cheese and facemasks and lots of gossip x "
This is going to sound a bit sad, but I don't have any girlfriends nearby. And my daughter moved to another city so I can't bug her either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship? |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"
Fuck buddy, not boyfriend. We had an 'arrangement' for 7 years that suited us both.
But thanks for your concern.  |
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"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"
FB is a fuck buddy not a boyfriend  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"
It was her FB, as I understood it, not a boyfriend or have I read it wrong?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me and my long-term FB have called it a day, and I need something to distract me from being a bit sad about it. I am unable to shag for a few days due to a visit from the lovely Mother Nature, so all non-sexual (and hopefully not too expensive) suggestions entertained."
US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Girly weekends away, pamper evenings that incorporate alcohol.
I'm thinking booze is going to be the one to go for.
Music, lots of music, preferably stuff that doesn't remind you of him....."
That will be easy  . His and my taste in music did not overlap much. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Me and my long-term FB have called it a day, and I need something to distract me from being a bit sad about it. I am unable to shag for a few days due to a visit from the lovely Mother Nature, so all non-sexual (and hopefully not too expensive) suggestions entertained.
US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few "
Thats a good idea.  |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Me and my long-term FB have called it a day, and I need something to distract me from being a bit sad about it. I am unable to shag for a few days due to a visit from the lovely Mother Nature, so all non-sexual (and hopefully not too expensive) suggestions entertained.
US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few "
Its looking like this plus booze and chocolate is going to be the way to go. Hope I don't get liver damage though! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"
Setting aside the complete failure to understand the post, what a very helpful response. Well done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently it takes half the time you were with someone to get over them.... So... Sleep?
twaddle"
+1
Dont do the getting pissed thing either. You wil only end up getting all maudling. Sort out a few social meets and go from there |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Me and my long-term FB have called it a day, and I need something to distract me from being a bit sad about it. I am unable to shag for a few days due to a visit from the lovely Mother Nature, so all non-sexual (and hopefully not too expensive) suggestions entertained.
US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few
Its looking like this plus booze and chocolate is going to be the way to go. Hope I don't get liver damage though! "
Livers regenerate so as long as it's only a short-term bender and not prolonged abuse you'll be fine!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of alcohol, start off with some maudling films (beaches, steel magnolias etc) and your body weight in chocolate. Then get your hair done, nails done, buy some gorgeous new lingerie, slip in some jiggle balls and take yourself off for a sexy strut down your high street before meeting a gorgeous man off fab and using him completely for your own pleasure |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Wine, chocolate and a good book
Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X "
Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.  |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum "
Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!
Fun place though. |
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"Wine, chocolate and a good book
Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X
Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through. "
Shame you are not nearer you could of come to my party |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.
Tried and tested method of choice - all the others are fattening !!
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I wish, but its that time of the month, and I don't think its fair to inflict that on someone new. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wine, chocolate and a good book
Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X
Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through. "
Shame about that  you could get some beppe thingys and have a meet  |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Wine, chocolate and a good book
Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X
Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.
Shame you are not nearer you could of come to my party "
I hope you all have a Fab time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum
Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!
Fun place though."
I think it's ace . And you did ask |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Wine, chocolate and a good book
Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X
Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.
Shame you are not nearer you could of come to my party "
Wish I wasn't so sodding busy. I want to come to your party!!! *tantrum* |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum
Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!
Fun place though.
I think it's ace . And you did ask"
True, true. I think the York Brewery Tour is more my thing though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of alcohol, start off with some maudling films (beaches, steel magnolias etc) and your body weight in chocolate. Then get your hair done, nails done, buy some gorgeous new lingerie, slip in some jiggle balls and take yourself off for a sexy strut down your high street before meeting a gorgeous man off fab and using him completely for your own pleasure "
This. Plus more chocolate.
Aww hugs xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What works for me is getting on the phone to a girlfriend and talking it through for hours, friends always make you feel better.
It is sad when relationships come to an end, and I mean any kind if relationship, romantic, friends, work colleagues etc, you will miss them |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
You could send cryptic messages to everyone. You could find me a couple of bi men to fulfill my fantasy. You could call people (not text or e-mail just real old-fashioned letting it ring and see what happens). You could read a new book. You could write a book. You could start walking and see where you end up. You could get an off-peak train fare and see if it's on time. You could monitor all the trains in and out of York and write letters of complaint at their failure to adhere to the timetable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get into cooking. I find that helps me escape make something different and nice for you and family .. x Time really is the only thing that will help and you learn to live with it all . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spend the next few days going through profiles looking for your next victim oops FB lol draw up a short list then when your ready to get back on the horse go fir it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of alcohol, start off with some maudling films (beaches, steel magnolias etc) and your body weight in chocolate. Then get your hair done, nails done, buy some gorgeous new lingerie, slip in some jiggle balls and take yourself off for a sexy strut down your high street before meeting a gorgeous man off fab and using him completely for your own pleasure "
I am not feeling low but this sounds like a fab plan for me and every other woman once a week xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends what you want, Do you really want him back, or do you want to get over him?
There are different methods of dealing with each case, I ask because it sounds like you don't want to let go and get over him. |
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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago
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"Lots of alcohol, start off with some maudling films (beaches, steel magnolias etc) and your body weight in chocolate. Then get your hair done, nails done, buy some gorgeous new lingerie, slip in some jiggle balls and take yourself off for a sexy strut down your high street before meeting a gorgeous man off fab and using him completely for your own pleasure
I am not feeling low but this sounds like a fab plan for me and every other woman once a week xx"
Absolutely lol |
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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago
South Yorkshire |
"It depends what you want, Do you really want him back, or do you want to get over him?
There are different methods of dealing with each case, I ask because it sounds like you don't want to let go and get over him."
Of course she does and she's asking for advice on the best way this weekend lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As my best friend tells me.. The best way to get over a man is to get under another one! 
Worked great for me last week
Hope your weekend goes well whatever you decide to do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet up with your girlfriends...wine, chocolates, cheese and facemasks and lots of gossip x
This is going to sound a bit sad, but I don't have any girlfriends nearby. And my daughter moved to another city so I can't bug her either."
When I moved to leeds years ago, I became a member of city socialising. I met some really nice people who im still good friends with today. Its not about dating just meeting new people and enjoying nights out. It was good for me as I didn't know anyone in the area at all. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the York Brewery Tour is more my thing though "
Then take me there as I have never been then we can have a coffee and chat afterwards
PS Booze is not the way to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum
Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!
Fun place though.
I think it's ace . And you did ask
True, true. I think the York Brewery Tour is more my thing though "
Ooh, that's one to note. Can't beat a good brewery tour. Well, maybe a distillery tour. |
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"Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.
Tried and tested method of choice - all the others are fattening !!
I wish, but its that time of the month, and I don't think its fair to inflict that on someone new."
No but you can arrange a meet, have something to look forward to. And then eat chocolate! |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"It depends what you want, Do you really want him back, or do you want to get over him?
There are different methods of dealing with each case, I ask because it sounds like you don't want to let go and get over him."
Just because I feel sad at losing someone I have been friends with for 7 years doesn't mean I am pining for him. I just am looking for distractions so I don't think about him for a while.
The relationship has come to a natural end, so there's no point 'not letting go'. It was a mutual decision, so I have no idea why you think I don't want to get over him. |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You could send cryptic messages to everyone. You could find me a couple of bi men to fulfill my fantasy. You could call people (not text or e-mail just real old-fashioned letting it ring and see what happens). You could read a new book. You could write a book. You could start walking and see where you end up. You could get an off-peak train fare and see if it's on time. You could monitor all the trains in and out of York and write letters of complaint at their failure to adhere to the timetable."
All excellent suggestions, although I'll be keeping the bi men for myself. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"You could send cryptic messages to everyone. You could find me a couple of bi men to fulfill my fantasy. You could call people (not text or e-mail just real old-fashioned letting it ring and see what happens). You could read a new book. You could write a book. You could start walking and see where you end up. You could get an off-peak train fare and see if it's on time. You could monitor all the trains in and out of York and write letters of complaint at their failure to adhere to the timetable.
All excellent suggestions, although I'll be keeping the bi men for myself. "
You just add some to search for you too. Mine need to be closer than York anyway.
As someone else suggested look on the spa thread and book yourself a little treat too. As there is a hotel sale on as well I could even consider coming up your way for a spa and overnight stay. Lots of bi men and us!
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You could send cryptic messages to everyone. You could find me a couple of bi men to fulfill my fantasy. You could call people (not text or e-mail just real old-fashioned letting it ring and see what happens). You could read a new book. You could write a book. You could start walking and see where you end up. You could get an off-peak train fare and see if it's on time. You could monitor all the trains in and out of York and write letters of complaint at their failure to adhere to the timetable.
All excellent suggestions, although I'll be keeping the bi men for myself.
You just add some to search for you too. Mine need to be closer than York anyway.
As someone else suggested look on the spa thread and book yourself a little treat too. As there is a hotel sale on as well I could even consider coming up your way for a spa and overnight stay. Lots of bi men and us!
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I saw the Premier Inn sale today. Very tempting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Booze doesn't work..tried that and nearly lost my life and my job..its only a temporary fix.the food/chocolate works for a while till the lbs start turning up!exercise.cinema.book...or as some have already suggested ....advertise for a 'no strings' social meet..worked for me!!!???? |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Booze doesn't work..tried that and nearly lost my life and my job..its only a temporary fix.the food/chocolate works for a while till the lbs start turning up!exercise.cinema.book...or as some have already suggested ....advertise for a 'no strings' social meet..worked for me!!!????"
You're right. I don't want to spend all weekend pissed and with indigestion. However I think I'll resume my gym programme next week and spend the weekend catching up on some unwatched DVDs. Nothing like a subtitled film to take your mind off things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good move..keep busy and move on...may sound harsh and easy.but getting bitter and twisted doesn't do any good.if getting over them/him is getting difficult..perhaps speak to them and say how you feel..perhaps he is too but doesn't want to make the first move??good luck xx?? |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Good move..keep busy and move on...may sound harsh and easy.but getting bitter and twisted doesn't do any good.if getting over them/him is getting difficult..perhaps speak to them and say how you feel..perhaps he is too but doesn't want to make the first move??good luck xx??"
Nah, he's made his feelings clear and I am happy to leave him alone. I would have spent the weekend shagging my way round York if I wasn't on my period, but as I am I was just looking for ways to entertain myself til I'm not. |
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