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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some will say yes some will say no. The only thing you can do is be assertive about your own personal preferences and find meets that fit in with that. If you want support in your decision though this is a bad place to look in my opinion because lots "devils advocates" here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me consult 'Boris Doring's Big Book of Boring' once more.
He says, and I quote "cum in the mouth is neither boring or anti boring, it simply is"
Well, there you go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its a shame - I love my hobby (!) but cannot swallow. Gag central - sort of spoils the mood! lol
And in answer to another question on here, I love being splashed! boob, face wherever x |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Let me consult 'Boris Doring's Big Book of Boring' once more.
He says, and I quote "cum in the mouth is neither boring or anti boring, it simply is"
Well, there you go. "
Ok my question to you is... Would you have yr cum in yr own mouth or any other mans cum in yr mouth??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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makes talking to the check out girl in tesocs a little more difficult.
each to their own.
dont think i have ever cum in anyone elses mouth except the woman i am with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has different preferences. I hate it on my face because it wrecks my make up, but in my mouth is super, smashing, great  "
so in your mouth is like hitting the bullseye  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most of the women ive been with dont like it
Does it make us less appealing?"
its just 1 part of an entire package.
if someone insists on cumming in your mouth, then they probably arent going to be that interested in your pleasure anyway, so again, wouldnt worry about it.
the ones that are worth meeting dont really mind about your 'donts' only your 'do's' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let me consult 'Boris Doring's Big Book of Boring' once more.
He says, and I quote "cum in the mouth is neither boring or anti boring, it simply is"
Well, there you go.
Ok my question to you is... Would you have yr cum in yr own mouth or any other mans cum in yr mouth???"
I have cum in my own mouth a few times - cant expect anyone else to swallow something I wouldn't!!! Only fair really!! And I really enjoyed it too  . G. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was asked recently if I would be cross if he came in my mouth (all in jest).
I just responded with a little more pressure from my teeth! Needless to say, he behaved impeccably!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?"
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?"
Of course. And one over the head before kissing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
Of course. And one over the head before kissing! "
ah, we are the same, but use tesco carriers.
every little helps.... |
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?"
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way? |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Let me consult 'Boris Doring's Big Book of Boring' once more.
He says, and I quote "cum in the mouth is neither boring or anti boring, it simply is"
Well, there you go.
Ok my question to you is... Would you have yr cum in yr own mouth or any other mans cum in yr mouth???
I have cum in my own mouth a few times - cant expect anyone else to swallow something I wouldn't!!! Only fair really!! And I really enjoyed it too . G."
That's great if only more men were willing to try it first! |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"most of the women ive been with dont like it
Does it make us less appealing?
its just 1 part of an entire package.
if someone insists on cumming in your mouth, then they probably arent going to be that interested in your pleasure anyway, so again, wouldnt worry about it.
the ones that are worth meeting dont really mind about your 'donts' only your 'do's'"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?"
yes they can, but its rare.
the mouth fights more infections than any cock can throw at it too |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
Of course. And one over the head before kissing!
ah, we are the same, but use tesco carriers.
every little helps...."
Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a condom for a hand job too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?"
Apparently so  |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?"
I couldn't think of anything worse than giving a bj with a condom on. However ii use them during sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'm really choosey about who cums in my mouth, I wouldn't say I don't like it, I will say not everyone I meet I allow to cum in my mouth, some cum is really horrible, some is quite nice and I like to pick and choose who does what where  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?"
Not from mine. Even if I did have anything. The thick layer of angel delight makes it impenetrable |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"i'm really choosey about who cums in my mouth, I wouldn't say I don't like it, I will say not everyone I meet I allow to cum in my mouth, some cum is really horrible, some is quite nice and I like to pick and choose who does what where "
How can you tell if someone's is horrible before they cum? Unless they come a few times I guess then you would know |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?"
Herpies could if they were present |
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Not from mine. Even if I did have anything. The thick layer of angel delight makes it impenetrable "
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present"
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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**Personal preference alert!!**
I prefer to cum on boobies, tummy, arse, or wherever I'm invited to. This is usually the happy ending to a BJ. When wearing a condom, again I'll either fill it (well, not fill but you know what I mean ) or remove condom and splash wherever the lady prefers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Herpies, gonorea, clamydia, the list goes on of things you can catch from oral sex. Note I didn't say from giving a BJ because you can catch all these from licking girls too.
Oh yeah; you can get gonorea in your eyes too!
Apologies in advance for spelling and if you have pushed your lunch to one side ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Herpies, gonorea, clamydia, the list goes on of things you can catch from oral sex. Note I didn't say from giving a BJ because you can catch all these DNS more from licking girls too.
Oh yeah; you can get gonorea in your eyes too!
Apologies in advance for spelling and if you have pushed your lunch to one side !"
Well, if you're both very oral - your words, not mine - then why not insist on condoms? I'm not having a go, but if you see it as a big concern, why not act upon that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Didn't say we see it as a big concern. Not caught anything so far. Just aware that any fluid exchange is risky so we get tested regularly.
We insist on condoms for full sex but neither of us think it fun to suck one |
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"Didn't say we see it as a big concern. Not caught anything so far. Just aware that any fluid exchange is risky so we get tested regularly.
We insist on condoms for full sex but neither of us think it fun to suck one"
Yea I'm the same  Thanks for answering my question tho xx |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant "
Iv never been in that situation thankfully ... I always have a feel and look before my mouth or pussy goes anywhere near |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant
Iv never been in that situation thankfully ... I always have a feel and look before my mouth or pussy goes anywhere near"
Miss Marple ? |
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant
Iv never been in that situation thankfully ... I always have a feel and look before my mouth or pussy goes anywhere near
Miss Marple ? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant "
Well, never have oral sex with a person with a cold sore... Not sure if genital herpies is always visible or not, google it.
To reduce further the risks of infections from oral sex without protection avoid brushing or flosing your teeth for a few hours before doing the deed, as some people's gums can bleed which is classed as an open wound thus a possible point of infection. Mouth wash only just before meeting it is also recommended to spit or swallow as quickly as possible to reduce the window of opportunity for an infection to establish. The acids in the stomach will see off the majority of infections if you decide to swallow.
Oral sex is the least likely way to transfer STD's and anal the most likely without protection. All you can do is to read up on the risks and decide how much risk you are prepared to take. |
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant
Well, never have oral sex with a person with a cold sore... Not sure if genital herpies is always visible or not, google it.
To reduce further the risks of infections from oral sex without protection avoid brushing or flosing your teeth for a few hours before doing the deed, as some people's gums can bleed which is classed as an open wound thus a possible point of infection. Mouth wash only just before meeting it is also recommended to spit or swallow as quickly as possible to reduce the window of opportunity for an infection to establish. The acids in the stomach will see off the majority of infections if you decide to swallow.
Oral sex is the least likely way to transfer STD's and anal the most likely without protection. All you can do is to read up on the risks and decide how much risk you are prepared to take. "
Thank you very much Hitting the google page now xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Herpies, gonorea, clamydia, the list goes on of things you can catch from oral sex. Note I didn't say from giving a BJ because you can catch all these from licking girls too.
Oh yeah; you can get gonorea in your eyes too!
Apologies in advance for spelling and if you have pushed your lunch to one side !"
I've never met anyone that has brought or suggested the need for a dental dam, although I have read you can cut open a condom and it can be used as an effective dental dam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant
Well, never have oral sex with a person with a cold sore... Not sure if genital herpies is always visible or not, google it.
To reduce further the risks of infections from oral sex without protection avoid brushing or flosing your teeth for a few hours before doing the deed, as some people's gums can bleed which is classed as an open wound thus a possible point of infection. Mouth wash only just before meeting it is also recommended to spit or swallow as quickly as possible to reduce the window of opportunity for an infection to establish. The acids in the stomach will see off the majority of infections if you decide to swallow.
Oral sex is the least likely way to transfer STD's and anal the most likely without protection. All you can do is to read up on the risks and decide how much risk you are prepared to take.
Thank you very much Hitting the google page now xx"
Can you let us know...  |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Always wondered how giving a bj without a condom fits into safe sex? Can anyone explain please?
its sexual contact, not sex.
do you insist on a concom for a handjob too?
I didn't say i insisted on one for a bj did i? Just wondered if any STD's can be transferred this way?
Herpies could if they were present
eeek! Can you tell if someone has it from looking? Sorry for being so ignorant
Well, never have oral sex with a person with a cold sore... Not sure if genital herpies is always visible or not, google it.
To reduce further the risks of infections from oral sex without protection avoid brushing or flosing your teeth for a few hours before doing the deed, as some people's gums can bleed which is classed as an open wound thus a possible point of infection. Mouth wash only just before meeting it is also recommended to spit or swallow as quickly as possible to reduce the window of opportunity for an infection to establish. The acids in the stomach will see off the majority of infections if you decide to swallow.
Oral sex is the least likely way to transfer STD's and anal the most likely without protection. All you can do is to read up on the risks and decide how much risk you are prepared to take.
Thank you very much Hitting the google page now xx"
Someone who's has caught herpies has it forever in there immune system... It's possibly visible if they have a low immune system at some point as that's when it's likely to come to the surface. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let me consult 'Boris Doring's Big Book of Boring' once more.
He says, and I quote "cum in the mouth is neither boring or anti boring, it simply is"
Well, there you go.
Ok my question to you is... Would you have yr cum in yr own mouth or any other mans cum in yr mouth???"
No, why would I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I boring... Not wanting to have someone cum in my mouth? "
Not at all. Sandra never has and never will. Her limits also extend to no cum in her face/neck area either. Just not her thing. |
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"most of the women ive been with dont like it
Does it make us less appealing?"
It's not the women that appeal to a lot of men here but the sexual acts that some women will let them perform.
There's a huge difference between someone wanting to meet others and just do what adults do and those that have been turned on by the idea of something and just want to perform that act.....
Calling you boring is a form of bullying .... and it's working.... you ARE thinking about it and asking the advice of others.
If you don't like it you don't like it full stop .....
The bloke who wants to come in your mouth needs to find someone that likes to perform that act.
I have had 'partners' who don't perform certain acts. I don't call them names. Some of us value people over any sex act - some don't. |
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"most of the women ive been with dont like it
Does it make us less appealing?
It's not the women that appeal to a lot of men here but the sexual acts that some women will let them perform.
There's a huge difference between someone wanting to meet others and just do what adults do and those that have been turned on by the idea of something and just want to perform that act.....
Calling you boring is a form of bullying .... and it's working.... you ARE thinking about it and asking the advice of others.
If you don't like it you don't like it full stop .....
The bloke who wants to come in your mouth needs to find someone that likes to perform that act.
I have had 'partners' who don't perform certain acts. I don't call them names. Some of us value people over any sex act - some don't. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i'm really choosey about who cums in my mouth, I wouldn't say I don't like it, I will say not everyone I meet I allow to cum in my mouth, some cum is really horrible, some is quite nice and I like to pick and choose who does what where "
my thoughts exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love tasting my mans thick creamy cum.not much point in sucking his cock if I don't taste him.as for swallowing some one else.well you never know especially if am blindfolded.mmm never know could be your cum am swallowing this sat after erotica. X |
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By *rrrr6969 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"most of the women ive been with dont like it
Does it make us less appealing?
It's not the women that appeal to a lot of men here but the sexual acts that some women will let them perform.
There's a huge difference between someone wanting to meet others and just do what adults do and those that have been turned on by the idea of something and just want to perform that act.....
Calling you boring is a form of bullying .... and it's working.... you ARE thinking about it and asking the advice of others.
If you don't like it you don't like it full stop .....
The bloke who wants to come in your mouth needs to find someone that likes to perform that act.
I have had 'partners' who don't perform certain acts. I don't call them names. Some of us value people over any sex act - some don't. "
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Can't help thinking I should have worn a condom 
